I understand why men in Longterm/marriage relationships cheat

[Rekkapryde]

fukkin? Yeah. Hoes?...

Nah fam I ain't gonna play that man like that. We can't complain about Hollywood emasculating nikkaz and turn around it do it too.

But now if it does come out that he was bout that bussy life

 

[MaxPain]

there's no way you can know that in 20 years your wife might want to stop fukking you

Don’t get married than

 

[Sterling Archer]

Nah fam I ain't gonna play that man like that. We can't complain about Hollywood emasculating nikkaz and turn around it do it too.

But now if it does come out that he was bout that bussy life

Ive seen enough for my own personal opinion to believe so. Dont change anything though. He still Will Smith even if he is.

 

[BigMan]

I don’t think it’s that simple. Nobody stops wanting somebody out of the blue.

The same reasons dudes lose attraction to their wives applies to husbands too. Usually people getting taken for granted and poor communication is to blame.

But that’s only if people were chasing and pursuing people who wanted them in the first place. And that’s easy to tell from jump if you are willing to pay attention to the red flags early on instead of running red lights for whatever reason. Regardless I don’t think people should get in relationships to cheat.

Of course its not simple. the reason why your husband/wife no longer wants to have sex with you can be complicated. It might be a temporary feeling or permanent. The thing is men and women view sex differently. She may not want to have sex for reasons unrelated to the husband. Maybe she has depression or something runs in her family. or maybe she does lose her attraction. there's no way to know that feelings for each other will remain after years/decades. and because women control if/when sex happens, it puts the male in bad spot.

 

[Rekkapryde]

Ive seen enough for my own personal opinion to believe so. Dont change anything though. He still Will Smith even if he is.

Can't lie though, that shyt would let me down if he was. Surprised? No. Let Down? Yup

 

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Of course its not simple. the reason why your husband/wife no longer wants to have sex with you can be complicated. It might be a temporary feeling or permanent. The thing is men and women view sex differently. She may not want to have sex for reasons unrelated to the husband. Maybe she has depression or something runs in her family. or maybe she does lose her attraction. there's no way to know that feelings for each other will remain after years/decades. and because women control if/when sex happens, it puts the male in bad spot.

That’s the risk both parties take in a relationship tho. Women are put in a bad spot too b/c they can do everything and some dudes will still cheat just for variety. Even if she is willing to have sex...and whether she even enjoys it or not.

There’s no way around that risk other than trying to keep lines of communication open.

 

[WesCrook]

Wifey wants to BS on givin up the yams, or decides to weaponize sex, as a reward...then I accept that as giving me the greenlight to get cheeks elsewhere....

We're not doin the mental gymnastics for ass, or the

I aint got the time, nor the energy to be thinkin up intricate schemes, to get cheeks from my lady. Especially when another female will handle it, with pleasure for less. Cats be tryin to put it on the dude, like its all their fault shyt goes left...

If a person goes through this and gives in to it, he'll be jumping through hoops for the rest of his life

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

After a while, women in longterm relationships barely want to have sex or none at all.

Was talking to a cac from work, his 37 & all he gets is goodnight kisses at night from his gf & barely any sex. Sex maybe once every three months. Breh is surviving by fukking escorts on the side.

Another cac from work, he says he literally begs for sex from his wife.

My homeboy a breh, his always on the hunt & always trying to fukk his ex.

Most men our sex drives will remain high till 60s. If you dont get it at home, you will find other means

Their wives don’t desire them.

 

[SupremexKing]

why wouldn't you either break up, or have a real conversation with your woman? are these not options? lol

 

[DatNkkaCutty]

Theres no such thing as "settling". You get what you can have. If you want a certain kind of person and you cant get them, you didnt settle. You just werent good enough to have them. The best that you could do, is what you got.

I hate when nggas say this. My lady is bad...but I've had badder (no disrespect), and have had badder chasin since I've been with her. I'm sure she'd say something similar...

Point is, wifey is WIFEY.

 

[hu3ypdadon]

Men in Long term relationships with kids should be The Title..It’s hard Having Sex With babies constantly needing attention..a lot women sex drive tend to decrease that first year of having a kid with their partner..but men and Wombmen just need to accept their differences and be at peace

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

actually studies show married couples have more sex than any other group. Media has us believe otherwise.
If you and your wife aint fukking, you probably just have a weak pipe game like a certain philly breh we know.

Two people who are highly attracted to each other are going to have sex. If it stops, then someone left.

 

[Wedosyang]

It's true tho

Especially when you hit 50 or so it's gonna be even harder. Most women are done by then and the man still has urges.

The amount of people in their 50s getting divorced is crazy.

 

[GreenGhxst]

Your coworker fukking his wife 4 times a year

 

[SATAN]

You're playing with fire here. I've seen this go left quickly and in a bad way...

I ain't no bytch so I'll be fine

Married hoes easy. They just want dikk. No need for dates.

She come over, she get fukked, she go home