I understand why men in Longterm/marriage relationships cheat

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I agree that many men let themselves go when they get married but expect their wives to keep themselves up or they want to cheat
 

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This why at time I HATE this site ... everything one way or another becomes a man's fault and people wonder why marriage and have kids has diped the last 7 yrs . The women in this thread just prove my point they men ... especially black men DONT get empathy at and that's fine . Most men in this thread should be going back in forth with the women . If you didn't learn during the Ayesha Curry shyt most if not all the women blamed Steph Curry for the lack of attention ....most women blamed Will Smith .

Love is not UNCONDITIONAL it has conditions . Women and society have sold men this shyt for centuries. Sometimes I wonder if it was NO MEN on the face of the planet ...who would women BLAME ?

You could be Idris Elba, Brad Pitt, Johnny Depp, Will Smith, whoever, when it comes to relationships, women get comfortable and can just become a nun and abstain from sex and won't be held accountable....they use the box to lure you in and in some cases trap you. Once you got kids, issa wrap.

Men's sex drives are pretty nonstop, women's stop once they get comfortable and have a kid or two and probably figure, "I got him for alimony or child support at the least, idgaf how he feels. Maybe we can have sex just to make baby"

Men should use the Tony Soprano marriage method and have a "Don't ask, don't tell" policy on extracurricular activities....
 

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You could be Idris Elba, Brad Pitt, Johnny Depp, Will Smith, whoever, when it comes to relationships, women get comfortable and can just become a nun and abstain from sex and won't be held accountable....they use the box to lure you in and in some cases trap you. Once you got kids, issa wrap.

Men's sex drives are pretty nonstop, women's stop once they get comfortable and have a kid or two and probably figure, "I got him for alimony or child support at the least, idgaf how he feels. Maybe we can have sex just to make baby"

Men should use the Tony Soprano marriage method and have a "Don't ask, don't tell" policy on extracurricular activities....
One thing that confuses me is like
If the sex is good tho, why stop having it? And if it's bad say something?
I think I truly understand why there are so many divorces in this society, these women are children
 

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One thing that confuses me is like
If the sex is good tho, why stop having it? And if it's bad say something?
I think I truly understand why there are so many divorces in this society, these women are children

Huh...imagine this scenario:
Dude: "Bae...I think we need to talk...this is getting a bit old? Can we try something new?"
Chick: "Oh, so...so my p*ssy isn't good anymore? Why don't you go get prostitute?
Dude: "I didn't say...."
Chick: "No....you said sex was boring and you wanted some hot young thang....You fukkin Tina from the office? Just go sleep on the couch"
Dude: :francis:

Women aren't rational enough to take that kind of criticism...
 

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If I'm married the last thing I should be stressing about is where to get p*ssy. That's like walking with 1 million cash in my pocket and stressing about where to get my next meal as I stand outside a restaurant.If the restaurant won't have me, I'll be more than happy to visit another place, with a clean conscience.
 

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I was in a relationship for 7 yrs.

It was other issues that lead to it coming to an end, but the lack of sex definitely played a big part.

Since we’ve first met I’ve actually lost weight, making more money.

I never had a issue initiating sex, but when it’s EVERY time it becomes wack.

I looked at how all my boys who are married are basically having the same issue. I love the ish outta that girl but I knew it’s no way I could spend the rest of my life with her.

that’s why my best advice to the young boys is always strive to have your own everything.
 
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I don't like living in a world were what a man is, is a horrible thing but NO MATTER what women do its a WONDERFUL thing

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One thing that confuses me is like
If the sex is good tho, why stop having it? And if it's bad say something?
I think I truly understand why there are so many divorces in this society, these women are children

Men don’t want to hear that it’s not good. That conversation never ends well. I remember there was a thread on here with a woman that was saying her husband never lasted long enough so she wanted to use a vibrator and he got mad at her and said absolutely not. What should she do? Just keep having trash sex? Or just not do it at all?
 

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Men don’t want to hear that it’s not good. That conversation never ends well. I remember there was a thread on here with a woman that was saying her husband never lasted long enough so she wanted to use a vibrator and he got mad at her and said absolutely not. What should she do? Just keep having trash sex? Or just not do it at all?
woman up and speak up no matter if he doesn't like it
 

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One thing that confuses me is like
If the sex is good tho, why stop having it? And if it's bad say something?
I think I truly understand why there are so many divorces in this society, these women are children

i came to the realization that you have to train women to behave in the proper manner. most dudes haven't been trained themselves, or been raised to pedestalize them, rather than seeing them as creatures in need of guidance.
 

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Men don’t want to hear that it’s not good. That conversation never ends well. I remember there was a thread on here with a woman that was saying her husband never lasted long enough so she wanted to use a vibrator and he got mad at her and said absolutely not. What should she do? Just keep having trash sex? Or just not do it at all?
Probably reevaluate who she's with since she could be cheating but chose that option I guess?
That actually sounds like it could turn into something new but he's too prikish .
 
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