If a woman you are interested in admitted to cheating on past boyfriends...

[King of Creampies]

I dunno...I can't say anything on a female who would tell me that because I cheated when I decided my marriage was trash and I did it in the most foulest of ways.

However if a female told me this I would have to really weigh bringing her into my home and usually it ends up me not going past getting involved with her except sexually... but I wouldn't judge or shame her for telling me this as everyone has a story....

then again i had a female kick it with me after she found out i was married...so.....YMMV

 

[BlackPrint]

I'd look at it like she cheated on "them" nikkas, not I.

It's like a chick saying she wouldn't do certain things in the bedroom with the last dude.. That got nothing to do with me cuz I know I'm not him and he's not I.. So It wouldn't be nothing for me to be worried about, personally.

 

[King of Creampies]

No. I'm about that "past matters" shyt always. Cheating on someone isn't a mistake. Waking up at 12 when you were supposed to be up at 11 is a mistake.
Cheating was the choice of someone who didn't give a fukk. You tell me you cheated, you are telling me you have the capability to do it.

Good luck in your future endeavors. Relationships should come with resumes. Only way you should accept a past cheater is if you were one yourself.

Prolly the best answer to OP's question right here.

 

[Birdie]

 

[Aufheben]

i assume all women have lived scandalous (or should I say "liberal" ) lives

at the end of the day you may never really know. you will gather bits and pieces that sound suspect but rarely will you get the full story

i just make sure her conduct is on point when she's with me. you gotta inculcate the right values in ur woman

 

[hustlemania]

Do you think cheating is different for women than men? Should a woman overlook a man's past with cheating?

no..

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

So yall don't think she could change/grow?

It's not going to happen. The fact they have cheated before shows they have a predisposition of acting in that way in a real relationship.

Sorry brehette!

 

[Aphrodite]

It's not going to happen. The fact they have cheated before shows they have a predisposition of acting in that way in a real relationship.

Sorry brehette!

I'm not defending it. lol I'm just trying to see if there's gonna be some double standards and so far I've noticed it a bit.

 

[Tombstone]

Why do you think women tolerate and accept your past with cheating so easily?
Is it true that 'once a cheater is always a cheater'?

Women love to try fix men. I've dated girls who said they would never date someone who cheated, or if I cheat its 100% over. In the pasts they left their boyfriends if they cheated but when I admitted I cheated on them we still stood together. They would just be sprung and when I was I really manipulative so I would make them feel bad and have them apologizing to me and I would be the one threatening to leave later when they brought up my cheating. And people never stay mad at me cuz of my personality.. I was fukked up back then and I didnt realize what I was doing until later.

I believe it for the most part. My most recent ex I never cheated on.

 

[Aphrodite]

Women love to try fix men. I've dated girls who said they would never date someone who cheated, or if I cheat its 100% over. In the pasts they left their boyfriends if they cheated but when I admitted I cheated on them we still stood together. They would just be sprung and when I was I really manipulative so I would make them feel bad and have them apologizing to me and I would be the one threatening to leave later when they brought up my cheating. And people never stay mad at me cuz of my personality.. I was fukked up back then and I didnt realize what I was doing until later.

I believe it for the most part. My most recent ex I never cheated on.

Did you start a lot of arguments just so you can have the space and justification for cheating by saying yall weren't technically together?

 

[MaxPain]

Now it's my license to cheat on her and end the relationship after 3 months. Win win

My highschool career

 

[Tombstone]

@Divine28

Everyone got they opinions, it doesnt matter to me.

Im real and truthful about my past and I always tell girls when I did cheat. I never considered them mistakes they were my choices.

Im not dealin with a cheater myself, Ima hypocrite

 

[Aphrodite]

Everyone got they opinions, it doesnt matter to me.

Im real and truthful about my past and I always tell girls when I did cheat. I never considered them mistakes they were my choices.

Im not dealin with a cheater myself, Ima hypocrite

 

[MaxPain]

Short term relationship? Yes. Used to do it all the time in highschool. Either I know she cheated on some one else or she left someone else for me. I would date her a few months, cheat on her, fukked her until i got bored with her and then dumped them. Theyd get real salty about it too. Oh well.

While all this is happening im cheating on them with the girl i actually want to be serious with.

So to answer ur question...would I take them serious? No. U should be very wary of a person who knows ur wrong doings and lets it go. They either stupid/simp or they are plotting. I was plotting cuz I wanted to fukk but I never trusted them to begin with.


Well thats my story

 

[MaxPain]

Everyone got they opinions, it doesnt matter to me.

Im real and truthful about my past and I always tell girls when I did cheat. I never considered them mistakes they were my choices.

Im not dealin with a cheater myself, Ima hypocrite

Men dont cheat. Only in america they call it cheating.





Fact.