I've always thought of it as God has a plan for you but its your choice to follow said plan or not.
Say, for instance, if I have a child and set up all opportunities to make my child study medicine but when applying for college, they choose architecture. The plan and opportunities were there, they just went another course.
Say, for instance, if I have a child and set up all opportunities to make my child study medicine but when applying for college, they choose architecture. The plan and opportunities were there, they just went another course.