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So Something off about men leaving their country because women aren’t cooperating? It isn’t something off about the women not cooperating?
Of course there is.... men and women were created for each other, and if you subscribe to the notion of traditional gender roles, men are supposed to be leaders and problem solvers in their families, communities and cultures

So the idea that a dude who failed to step into that role in his home turf will be able to in a foreign country doesn't make sense. A lot of the societal/structural issues that have created rifts between black men and women in America are way worse in Brazil, so if you can't make it work here what makes you think it will be any better over there? Nobody ever solved problems by running from them.
 

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Of course there is.... men and women were created for each other, and if you subscribe to the notion of traditional gender roles, men are supposed to be leaders and problem solvers in their families, communities and cultures

So the idea that a dude who failed to step into that role in his home turf will be able to in a foreign country doesn't make sense. A lot of the societal/structural issues that have created rifts between black men and women in America are way worse in Brazil, so if you can't make it work here what makes you think it will be any better over there? Nobody ever solved problems by running from them.
But you can’t solve the problem. The women have to do that. The black man has to fix himself. I want the black community to be better but I know that shyt won’t change until the women get better. It’s been so dysfunctional for so long and me knowing women(not just black) the are not willing to giving up the power. No matter the destruction. And with that said men who won’t families go elsewhere.
 

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These two did not even talk about kids.

This is the problem of relationships detached from the goal of building a family.

It becomes a perpetual clash of egos devoided of any purpose.

this.

I spent my 20s single running through these hoes. I have decided that the next time I get into a relationship, it will be with a woman i have deemed worthy of bearing my seed. Otherwise a bytch can forget about being cuffed :camby:
 

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But you can’t solve the problem. The women have to do that. The black man has to fix himself. I want the black community to be better but I know that shyt won’t change until the women get better. It’s been so dysfunctional for so long and me knowing women(not just black) the are not willing to giving up the power. No matter the destruction. And with that said men who won’t families go elsewhere.
So you want the black community to be better, but you don't want to actually do anything or take responsibility for making it better. You just want to focus on yourself :dahell:

You want to be honored and revered like a strong, traditional man, but want to adopt a victim's mentality, hide behind and blame women for all your problems and failures :weirdo:

Nobody ever solved any problems or accomplished anything great by waiting for whatever obstacle or person they felt was holding them back to fix it. None of this makes any sense bro
 

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Being a woman is hard. I fukking love women, unlike some of you incels in here, but women grow up expecting to be cared for. Men grow up expecting to work until we die. Which ends up being the case. I love my wife (legit extremely happy relationship), but it’s funny that she has literally her first job now and complains saying I had a easier day, because I have the luxury of working from home... As if I haven’t been working physical labor jobs since I was 18 and especially in the military. But when I was out the house, it was “I been doing chores and watching kids all day, I never get a break when you just work 9-5. “ the tables are turned except I have to deal with toddlers and work basically 24 hours lol off and on. (Software Engineer). She didn’t even have a job at home other than chores and watching children lol

it is oochie Wally wale :hula:or is it one mic.
 
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Women can say what they want until they blue in the face. You want a top class man. You better be a top class woman. The average nikka making $60K out here. Probably less to be honest. But they want a $200,000 nikka. Be a $200,000 woman otherwise sit down :yeshrug:
 

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This video might save some breh life from wifing This greedy unaccomplished low morals chick. I treat women with respect. But I wouldn’t treat her as anything more than a throw away. “I’m coming over, let’s fukk and hit the Waffle House” :jawalrus:
 

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Stick a fork in male and female traditional relationships... its done.

Most people in a relationship couldn't give their partner their unlocked phones right now.

Think about how fukked up that is for sec.

The constant threads even on the coli here just show that men and women dont even listen to each other anymore. I already know what the male and female arguments will be before I read the thread. Its sad but it is what it is. Its nobodies fault. Its hella factors that lead to this mess and there is no fixing it, at least not for this generation.

Once you accept this harsh truth you can enter a relationship and be ok personally and mentally no matter what. Because the game is the game and were just players in it, its not personal, its never personal, were just victims of our environment and the way we grew up.


I say honest is the best policy. not only does my main know my password but she has my other iphone she can read my whats app messages.
 

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I don't know about you nikkas, but I DO VALUE a female's income and shyt, and I got it like that too. How can you nikkas sit up here let these bytches just look good? I look good too, a bytch better be my equal in all areas or I'm not even fukking. I'm serious too. When I was younger, I didn't care as much, but in my 30s, bytches have to be very impactful and high earning for me to even sniff them.

Treat them how they treat you. I don't deal with broke bytches, at all. They disgust me, no matter how good they look. You know why? Cause broke bytches are just looking for a lick. I have too much pride to ever be a bytches life raft. You nikkas better get with the program. A female's looks should be icing on the cake, and the cake should literally be the cake she makes, her accomplishments, and her character.


you're right if you're dealing with chicks in america.
 

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Of course there is.... men and women were created for each other, and if you subscribe to the notion of traditional gender roles, men are supposed to be leaders and problem solvers in their families, communities and cultures

So the idea that a dude who failed to step into that role in his home turf will be able to in a foreign country doesn't make sense. A lot of the societal/structural issues that have created rifts between black men and women in America are way worse in Brazil, so if you can't make it work here what makes you think it will be any better over there? Nobody ever solved problems by running from them.


because in brazil and most other countries a chick with a do nothing government job doesn't feel this sense of entitlement. She a woman needs protection. I was at the DMV early one morning and the old female security guard told me there was a rash of rapes in our old neighborhood. some clown was just going in women's windows and raping chicks shyt didn't even make the news. She said she told her daughter to work it out with her man just to have hm on scene when a creep came through the window.
 
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