If Lipstick Alley & Thecoli had a Conversation It Would Look Like This

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

This thought process I have been hearing in the black community for too many years. I heard it a lot when I was young . "Girl get yo education so you don't need no man" or something along the lines of . This a lot more damage to black men in the long run which why many black women have a seething contempt for black men . I could deep into this shyt but I don't want to . It's interesting the things women as whole choose to be "outdated" and what things they want to be "traditional" with .

The woman in the OP depends on men. Look where she's at. Pass

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

i don't think he downplayed the importance of looks because a lot of posters on here deride men as "not having any self-respect for themselves" for dating or wifing someone who isn't up to their standards in the looks department.

He literally didn't address it all. I would say he downplayed it

 

[Dwolf]

About 2 mins in. She keeps interrupting and talking over him

EDIT: Idk what the hell the point either of them was trying to make. It was like they were having 2 different conversations

 

[JT-Money]

I don't know why she thinks there are only two types of dudes fukk boys or rich dudes. No wonder so many chicks end up with tons of baggage. They go from 1 extreme to another no middle ground.

 

[Wiseborn]

The women in the OP depends on men and look where she's at. Pass

How? she doesn't have a man and is able to cover her own bills.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

How? she doesn't have a man and is able to cover her own bills.

She said that a man that doesn't make double what she makes is broke. Which means she is broke. She even said in the beginning that she doesn't make much money.

The whole discussion she focuses a lot of attention on combining incomes.

If she just focused on getting the type of money she wants for herself this wouldn't even be an issue. He specifically said he doesn't worried about money because he makes his owe so he focuses on character. If she had the same attitude she could date the same way; forcing on character, attraction and compatability not money.

She also wouldn't be willing to be a side for money if she had her owe ambition.

 

[Wiseborn]

She said that a man that doesn't make double what she makes is broke. Which means she is broke. She even said in the beginning that she doesn't make much money.

The whole discussion she focuses a lot of attention on combining incomes.

If she just focused on getting the type of money she wants for herself this wouldn't even be an issue. He specifically said he doesn't worried about money because he makes his owe so he focuses on character. If she had the same attitude she could date the same way; forcing on character, attraction and compatability not money.

She also wouldn't be willing to be a side for money if she had her owe ambition.

Money is relative but I understand what you're saying, That kind of blew pass me because living overseas (including europe) shows me no american is really broke. The US is the only place in the world where it's weird to not have a car (except New York City) or your own place as soon as you get your first Job. (or even to have a job in the first place)

When I went to London and saw people taking the bus to the club I was like WTF. I told chicks that you could fine as shyt but if you told a chick to go back to his mother's flat in a nigh bus (this was way before Uber) a chick would laugh in his face. Dude's on her financial level would simply cut costs where they could.

But point taken if she made "double her salary" that would put her in a better position. But dating wise that would be worse because she'd just raise her expectations. Being a side bytch is a mentality. Even in the "third world" women don't go for it.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Money is relative but I understand what you're saying, That kind of blew pass me because living overseas (including europe) shows me no american is really broke. The US is the only place in the world where it's weird to not have a car (except New York City) or your own place as soon as you get your first Job. (or even to have a job in the first place)

When I went to London and saw people taking the bus to the club I was like WTF. I told chicks that you could fine as shyt but if you told a chick to go back to his mother's flat in a nigh bus (this was way before Uber) a chick would laugh in his face. Dude's on her financial level would simply cut costs where they could.

But point taken if she made "double her salary" that would put her in a better position. But dating wise that would be worse because she'd just raise her expectations. Being a side bytch is a mentality. Even in the "third world" women don't go for it.

The post is about her satisfying her own money ambitious and focusing on dating for character. The change in mindset is explicitly stated.

 

[Wiseborn]

The post is about her satisfying her own money ambitious and focusing on dating for character. The change in mindset is explicitly stated.

As a Man I don't see a problem, If she wants to be a side for rich nikka be a side for a rich nikka. Hoe up or Blow up. She understand that nikka with options won't take her seriously but she's complaining about that.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

As a Man I don't see a problem, If she wants to be a side for rich nikka be a side for a rich nikka. Hoe up or Blow up. She understand that nikka with options won't take her seriously but she's complaining about that.

Ok

You seem to have a really hard time staying on topic.

 

[Wiseborn]

Ok

You seem to have a really hard time staying on topic.

No I disagree with her. I mean If money is the most important thing to her then she should go with that. What she's saying is If men weren't so fukked up I could marry the man that I love but I can't because the dude I dealt with fukked me over so now all men have to pay.

Her feelings are not men's fault and besides she doesn't even really believe that. It is the text book definition of Hoe babble, saying what she feels in the moment then trying to get dude's to apologize for it.

It's not men's fault that she can't find a man with double her salary, The bytch needs to get a better job and cut costs.

 

[HARLEM AL]

So black men take responsibility for the black community by saying "fukk the community I gotta focus on myself"? Your loyalty = abandoning the black American community to go play house in Brazil Gen Z is all fukked up because of the lost nikkas who raised them

Black men don’t run the black community. The women do. You know this nikka, Stop it. You think you can force bytches to fukk with someone that is functional.

Why am I not surprised a bytch dap this stupid ass post.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Black men don’t run the black community. The women do. You know this nikka, Stop it. You think you can force bytches to fukk with someone that is functional.

Why am I not surprised a bytch dap this stupid ass post.

I know plenty of "bytches" fukking with functional black men, which is why I can't buy into your woe is me bullshyt. If you were functional you wouldn't be looking to run to Brazil

 

[HARLEM AL]

I know plenty of "bytches" fukking with functional black men, which is why I can't buy into your woe is me bullshyt. If you were functional you wouldn't be looking to run to Brazil

The fukk are you talking about? who the fukk said i was going to brazil? my son is 18 and my daughter is about to be 15. My family is already made.........


You young nikkas are goofy

 

[HARLEM AL]

Culture is key. If you think he’s going to find a woman that feminine and one that wants family faster here than in Brazil you’re lying. A bold face one at that.

Now women are women, there’s fukk shyt with women no matter what culture. There is a difference when it comes to black American woman and the one that has culture. The key is keeping them on their soil. You bring them here and they are going to end up like the American ones here.

This is what I said in my initial post. How you got that stupid ass idea I do not know.