If she's not submissive, don't date her. Simple

[KinksandCoils]

A modern woman on any continent is capable of living alone, so tell me why they would enter a relationship in the first place where they're under the thumb of a man soley out of fear? Why would families concede their daughters to males who only have to offer them fear?

Do feminine women only exist in iran or something? How do you explain africans, asians or eastern europeans? You sound dumb

people can be forced into marriage. Where you been breh? Do u not know about how women get treated around the world or are you trapped in a bubble? Fathers have killed their daughters before because of dis honoring the fam.

 

[Jimi Swagger]

Bruh even same sex couples have one partner assuming the role of dominant and the other as submissive in both male or female relationships. You'll find that dynamic WAY more across all sexual orientations than you do a true 50/50 so I don't even understand why yall nikkas play yourself with this bs. As if woman can't contribute and give input while in her lane. Listen to yourselves. You talk like all wives are chained to stoves with their mouths taped shut.

I think you missed the point where I said that (healthy) relationships are consultative, no one is totally dominant/submissive and all parties are complimentary and that gender roles are dead. Just my observational experience coming from a 4 generation black nuclear household. I don't understand which lanes are designated for women and women so enlighten me.

 

[Kenny West]

people can be forced into marriage. Where you been breh? Do u not know about how women get treated around the world or are you trapped in a bubble? Fathers have killed their daughters before because of dis honoring the fam.

Thats an aspect of some cultures, keyword: SOME. Definitely not the standard around the world fohwtbs. There's women being mistreated in the US with way more freedoms. Again, there are "submissive" women in more places than the middle east; but it's no surprise you hop right to the most extreme example. so who's the one living in the bubble?

I think you missed the point where I said that (healthy) relationships are consultative, no one is totally dominant/submissive and all parties are complimentary and that gender roles are dead. Just my observational experience coming from a 4 generation black nuclear household. I don't understand which lanes are designated for women and women so enlighten me.

The dominant and submissive roles are complimentary tho. Maybe the crux of it is we need to just find better words for to describe this.

As for the last sentence, gender roles.

 

[Elle Driver]

A modern woman on any continent is capable of living alone, so tell me why they would enter a relationship in the first place where they're under the thumb of a man soley out of fear? Why would families concede their daughters to males who only have to offer them fear?

Do feminine women only exist in iran or something? How do you explain africans, asians or eastern europeans? You sound dumb

Because that's the culture, to give away their daughters once they are of age lol. They go from the fear of their father to the fear of their husband. Feminism isn't an American thing, in fact staunch feminists are found in more developing countries because they have no power in making even the simplest decisions in their life. Travel around and you'll see. It's particularly bad in the Middle East, they're really about honor and not bringing shame on the family. You do something they deem shameless, you're subject to get killed.

 

[Jimi Swagger]

Thats an aspect of some cultures, keyword: SOME. Definitely not the standard around the world fohwtbs. There's women being mistreated in the US with way more freedoms. Again, there are "submissive" women in more places than the middle east; but it's no surprise you hop right to the most extreme example. so who's the one living in the bubble?



The dominant and submissive roles are complimentary tho. Maybe the crux of it is we need to just find better words for to describe this.

As for the last sentence, gender roles.

Quit being evasive and answer the question directly, sans emojis breh. Define lane and roles and where do they come from?

 

[↓R↑LYB]

@bdizzle is right but you nikkas are too emotional to admit it. Get out your feelings young nikka let's get it

Women will naturally fall in line with a man that's bout somethin and ain't taking no bullshyt. When you carry yourself a certain way, and a woman really recognizes it, you got a real ride or die companion on your hands. I've had women stand by me when a lot of so called 'bout that life' nikkas folded. You can't get that from her unless she knows you're built a certain way, knows you're strong, and knows you're gonna do whatever it takes to make YOUR LIVES better.

A lot of you nikkas is built like a box of Peeps easter candy and wondering why your woman so unhappy

These young nikkas nowadays don't wanna learn nothing .

If you get a hold of a chicks mind and she really trust and believe in you, she'll blindly follow you to the end of the earth. Women actually want male leadership, bu they want leadership from someone they trust and respect.

 

[Kenny West]

Because that's the culture, to give away their daughters once they are of age lol. They go from the fear of their father to the fear of their husband. Feminism isn't an American thing, in fact staunch feminists are found in more developing countries because they have no power in making even the simplest decisions in their life. Travel around and you'll see. It's particularly bad in the Middle East, they're really about honor and not bringing shame on the family. You do something they deem shameless, you're subject to get killed.

What about far east asia, most of europe, south america, africa?

You know....the majority of the world.

It's funny yall are calling this fear but I bet it wouldn't come out that way from the horses mouth. I sincerely doubt most women around the world are with their husbands solely due to the threat of violence. Uniquely american viewpoint that every non-western female assumes wifely duties for the fear of getting killed for it.

Quit being evasive and answer the question directly, sans emojis breh. Define lane and roles and where do they come from?

My dude, I said gender roles. I answered you straight up. I'm not gonna elaborate on what they are seeing as we're in a 18 page thread on it and I'm about to leave anyway.

 

[Jimi Swagger]

My dude, I said gender roles. I answered you straight up. I'm not gonna elaborate on what they are seeing as we're in a 18 page thread on it and I'm about to leave anyway.

Because you have nothing to offer and now answer. User Cam's pointer finger to good use. I will stick to my great great grandparents model while you speak on theory.

 

[Londilon]

Didn't he say he was too young to appereiate it and has learnt.

Marry every girl you meet brehs.

If he was too young to marry then he was too young to be in a relationship. He should have stayed single and dated casual.

 

[Elle Driver]

What about far east asia, most of europe, south america, africa?

You know....the majority of the world.

It's funny yall are calling this fear but I bet it wouldn't come out that way from the horses mouth. I sincerely doubt most women around the world are with their husbands solely due to the threat of violence. Uniquely american viewpoint that every non-western female assumes wifely duties for the fear of getting killed for it.


My dude, I said gender roles. I answered you straight up. I'm not gonna elaborate on what they are seeing as we're in a 18 page thread on it and I'm about to leave anyway.

Nobody said it's due to the threat of violence, but yes, it's the same in South America, Africa, and East Asia. A lot of these women have no choice, and a lot of them end up getting married to gain a better position in their lives (something you guys demonize women here for doing calling them gold diggers) or they do so because they have no choice and are simply forced into a marriage without their consent. Suffice to say, they'd have more of a reason to be a feminist than the rest of us, but that wouldn't fit y'all "foreign women" narrative.

 

[YeLovesBoston]

fukk her rights

 

[UpAndComing]

I'm still confused. Why should woman submit to a man and perform wifely duties to a man that isn't her husband?

You do realize that exact same situation is called simping when men give random women the wifey benefits?

I cook also, and have been since I was 14. I cooked all the time with her, and cook together with my current girl. I also do my own laundry

Cooking and cleaning to perfection is a trait that ALL wives and girlfriends should have, plain and simple. Just like providing for your girl is what I did for her. Why the assumption that I didn't?

This "She's my personal slave" angle is getting tired

 

[feelosofer]

An overly submissive woman is not healthy a woman that can respectfully challenge you is more valuable to long term growth.

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

You nikkas should just choose a different word to describe these women you speak of.

'But but but thats not what submissive means'

Either that or you do want women you can control and just too p*ssy to admit it.

Here's how I describe it. It's really no more complicated than this for me

submissive ( avoids conflict, doesn't mind doing what your told, super compassionate, and love making your partner happy)

 

[Prodigital]

I love it when a girl disagrees playfully, and gives in when she knows im serious. Some of these thots just never had a normal relationship with anyone of the opposite sex, so theyll never be socially satisfying unless youre the type of nikka that loves overt submission

If she dont make me a meal, i dont get mad, i make a meal for both of us and get the head anyways. But i know she got me tmrw. Stop assigning women schedules and rules.

But in the real, ive got a good girl. A lot of dudes dont have the esteem to deal with one, thinking they deserve thots.