Dap and repY’all making this complicated as fukk
If a woman is really feeling you
It doesn’t matter where you go
Who pays
She just wants to be in your presence
If these are just quick smash and dashes
Telling her let’s meet at *insert coffee/bar*
If she shows up
Then you fukking with a real one
If she flakes
Saved yourself some money and time
And proceed to hunt at the bar
Work smarter not harder
If you don't want to pay for dates....
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I wouldn't advise a man to wait on a woman to ask him out.
But, I also don't understand the big deal about paying for a date??
Thing is, a man who pays has control over what he spends on a date.
Any date can start off as a coffee or libations date. If there is mutual spark established, then the date can extend to getting some food. Just go somewhere that is relatively inexpensive or reasonably priced.
There are a lot of cool spots to meet, greet as well as activities that cost little to no money.
The purpose is to see if there is any chemistry, not to feed someone.
But, I also don't understand the big deal about paying for a date??
Thing is, a man who pays has control over what he spends on a date.
Any date can start off as a coffee or libations date. If there is mutual spark established, then the date can extend to getting some food. Just go somewhere that is relatively inexpensive or reasonably priced.
There are a lot of cool spots to meet, greet as well as activities that cost little to no money.
The purpose is to see if there is any chemistry, not to feed someone.
^^^
Its okay with whoever its okay with... it aint that complicated.
If its not okay with you to pay for dates... dont pay for dates.
But if the next nikka could really care less about paying for dates... he will probably pay for dates
This forum is not a good barometer on standard dating practices.
Hungerpain
Banned
I only go out with friendly Pawgs who don’t mind paying for their own shyt or even mine sometimes.
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Jubilado
Y’all making this complicated as fukk
If a woman is really feeling you
It doesn’t matter where you go
Who pays
She just wants to be in your presence
You're referring to a woman that either
A). Already knows you and likes you
B) Has an agenda e.g. Already knows she gonna fukk you.
Not some chick you're just meeting and doesn't fit either if those yet
Taadow
The StarchBishop™️
Naw bruh, here’s what you do:
Tell her look “imma come slide through and pick you up on Friday @7:30” (please say the thirty)...
Before you go over there, hit the ATM and take out $100.
When you get there @ 8, and she open the door - look at what she’s wearing.
Okay - now based on what she’s wearing, pull out the correct amount of cash.
- if she looks like she put in some effort to look good, and looks nice: take out the whole amount.
- if she looks like she put in some effort to look good, but looks like a hoe: $80
- if she looks like she actively tried to look like hoe for you: take out the whole amount.
- if she looks like she put in some effort to look good, but her style is tacky: $60
- if she looks like she’s wearing the same chit she had on all day: $40
Hold the money up and tell her “this is all the money I feel like spending tonight.”
If she’s just a Dinner Hoe, (1) you only go eat and you don’t spend that much time. Plus (2) you pick what restaurant you wanna go to, so you don’t even have to spend that whole amount.
If she actually wants to spend time with you, she’ll stretch tf out of that money.
This makes it into a game for her. Women love games. It will keep her present and engaged the whole time
instead of being on the phone. You might get to 3 or 4 places. She will budget and edit herself - she will feel she’s paying (lol)! She will say things like “how much we got left?” We. Yeah.
If she feelin’ it, she’ll often use the last bit of money at the L.I.Q., and you figure out what you wanna do from there. If she’s Wifey Material, she won’t even spend all of your money. Keep her.
Tell her look “imma come slide through and pick you up on Friday @7:30” (please say the thirty)...
Before you go over there, hit the ATM and take out $100.
When you get there @ 8, and she open the door - look at what she’s wearing.
Okay - now based on what she’s wearing, pull out the correct amount of cash.
- if she looks like she put in some effort to look good, and looks nice: take out the whole amount.
- if she looks like she put in some effort to look good, but looks like a hoe: $80
- if she looks like she actively tried to look like hoe for you: take out the whole amount.
- if she looks like she put in some effort to look good, but her style is tacky: $60
- if she looks like she’s wearing the same chit she had on all day: $40
Hold the money up and tell her “this is all the money I feel like spending tonight.”
If she’s just a Dinner Hoe, (1) you only go eat and you don’t spend that much time. Plus (2) you pick what restaurant you wanna go to, so you don’t even have to spend that whole amount.
If she actually wants to spend time with you, she’ll stretch tf out of that money.
This makes it into a game for her. Women love games. It will keep her present and engaged the whole time
instead of being on the phone. You might get to 3 or 4 places. She will budget and edit herself - she will feel she’s paying (lol)! She will say things like “how much we got left?” We. Yeah.
If she feelin’ it, she’ll often use the last bit of money at the L.I.Q., and you figure out what you wanna do from there. If she’s Wifey Material, she won’t even spend all of your money. Keep her.
paperbag
Death to the demoness Allegra Geller
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Keep thinking you're Future
Not you op, I know you don't want to speak to me
Keep thinking you're Future
Not you op, I know you don't want to speak to me
WORD that in person 1 on 1 is essential to get a feel of who she is and what her worth is....plus it takes away a lot of the awkwardness and tense feelings of that first date.....The key is to be prompt and sure about it though cause they will passively question your intentions...
Honestly just pay breh it makes thing so much less complicated....Plus if she's really down she will gain respect 4 you and potentially offer up for the next date...If you don't have the means or unsure about certain things just be honest and let her know you want to keep things simple...TBH that is the ultimate test if she's really down or not...But that fear of rejection is a muthafukka ...
Or any practices.
LebronsHairline
AKA Chief Green Leaf
Terrible advice