"If you make $80,000 you have no business marrying a woman that makes $35,000"

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

That's a female mindstate. And what happens when my career minded wife can't work due to pregnancy?

i think it depends on if she really "career minded". my sister worked up to the day of her pregnancy and only took a few weeks off. a lot of my zoom calls have high stakes career women with their kids in the back, wfh changes a lot of things.

choose wisely

 

[CHICAGO]

No men have never preferred this

DUDE YOU HAVE CARDI B IN
YOUR AVI, PLEASE DONT SPEAK
ON MANLY ISSUES.


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[Luke Cage]

I wasnt being a grammar nazi. I was commenting on your nihilism. "Eventually?"

50% is big enough number i feel comfortable treating it as inevitable. but i edited my post because, i should point out thats more often the case with a first marriage. alot of people just rush into it when they too young.
not saying you should never get married. but you should take your time to do so and take precautions.

 

[Mowgli]

Overly arched eyebrows. This woman obviously thinks she's more important then her man. She's done

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

Looking at the replies not many listened to the vid.

 

[intra vires]

Y'all love to talk about building wealth but don't understand the value of high dual incomes within a family structure in 2021.

I’m probably going to be in the minority here but I actually care a lot about my partner’s net worth / socioeconomic status

Why do think they don't seem to care about this? I'm just trying compare notes.

 

[Rick Fox at UNC]

Thats 115k household for 2 people
Average of 12k a month combined

What the fukk are you talking about?

 

[Luke Cage]

Y'all love to talk about building wealth but don't understand the value of high dual incomes within a family structure in 2021.


Why do think they don't seem to care about this? I'm just trying compare notes.

people would just rather smash a dime, than a 4 with 6 certs.

 

[hatealot]

I’m probably going to be in the minority here but I actually care a lot about my partner’s net worth / socioeconomic status

I don't see how that is even a minority thought in this day and age. Anyone not concerned about their partners income are frontin

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

LMAO

MEN HAVE NEVER CARED ABOUT
HOW MUCH THEIR WIFE MAKES
AND ACTUALLY PREFERRED HER
TO A BE A STAY AT HOME MOM.

HE DOESNT SPEAK LIKE
A HETEROSEXUAL MAN.

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He speaks like a person whose been the lead counsel in many divorces

 

[hatealot]

If we are of similar age and she is only making 30k a year then that is a reflection of her life decisions. Because at a certain point your work experience over time should warrant a higher salary. That's a red flag for me.

You telling me , you in your 30s and you can only command 30k a year? Nah , something off. You don't got atleast at minimum of 5 years of work experience to apply for a better job?

 

[King Poetic]

Black people are finished

And majority of generation X and down has ruined black relationships and marriage

What’s with all this he need to make this/ she needs to make this shyt comes from..

nikkas so quick to talk about older blacks but older blacks before 1970 was married, raising kids for the better , working and taking care of the home and no problems

then the 90s, 2000s and up nikkas mindset of relationships is all about them and their own needs and no focus on unity …

too many Jada pinkett and will smiths out here and not enough grant hill and Tamia

 

[Mike Nasty]

He speaks like a person whose been the leaf counsel in many divorces

Yes he's speaking as a divorce attorney.

This thread is a classic "no one clicked, but everyone replied".

 

[number21]

Dude is just talking.

 

[Ugo Ogugwa]

Broke nikka thread