"If you make $80,000 you have no business marrying a woman that makes $35,000"

[Steel]

Which is the easiest path to wealth startup tech company or high finance?

or become a software engineer and try your best to get into a faang role. Microsoft just gave one my boys 250k but turned it down because he got a higher offer elsewhere.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Men gotta let go of this sole provider mentality. Not even our prehistoric ancestors were on that shyt. And in today’s society most people is BROKE regardless of the plethora of 6cert 6figure Coli unicorns. So you better be clocking some of these chicks for trying to pass off p*ssy as translating to tangible value. Only p*ssy I know paying bills is on a hoe. So unless you running a brothel, men need to raise their standards beyond ass and titties.

But…BUT

It’s understandable why some dudes think like this b/c our society is instilling mixed signals in them. Women still want to be provided for AND are now hyper materialistic. But even as they are making their own money, they want their money to be for play play. And scoff at traditional roles too.

Something’s gotta give.

First off, I think a lot of Americans need to stop
hyperconsumerism. 70k should be more than enough to live decently along with wifey’s 30k if ya’ll know how to budget. And if you can’t make it off 100k in your city then move because this shyt is getting outta control. You don’t need every new car that comes out. Learn to cook at home. Fukk lashes and weaves and designer bags. A lotta that shyt looks stupid and them designers don’t even like blacks. Fukk living in million dollar cities. Fukk that PS5 . Learn to cut back and save. Grow ur own damn food.

And men need to learn to put aside their pride and work with women as fellow human beings instead of choosing up on broke bums with fat asses just b/c they are trying to leverage money for control in their relationships or being led by their dikks.
If I can get women to be less materialistic and men to be less arrogant and archaic, I think we could make some shyt shake.

Or you can continue to kill yourselves working 80+ hrs a week just so you can say you got a baddie and risk losing it all if shyt goes left. A lot of these issues come from people wanting to get married for validation, rather than building legacies.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

I agree fully

 

[Rell84shots]

Simps aren't going to understand the point of this message. Women who make high salaries often look for men who make more or equal to them. This country has convinced men to care more about women's hearts than their finances, and that's what leads to successful men getting their pockets ran when they get divorced.

 

[Nigerianwonder]

Did yall even watch the video? He doesn't say you shouldn't marry someone making 35K. He just said make sure to get a prenup if there is a large income gap.

Your wife earnings potential is important for those in the middle class but its not the most important factor guys look for in wife. Plus the difference in lifestyle isn't that much if you make 80k and your wife makes 35k or say 60K. A couple making 115K combined is not living much different than a couple making 150k combined.

Peace of mind >> Money. If your woman doesn't bring you peace it doesn't matter how much you make. I've seriously dated several female doctors and it was a terrible experience. If your woman brings your peace you got a winner.

And from my experience and what I have seen, high powered high earning career women are quicker to divorce and leave cause they are not dependent on you and less likely to be submissive.

 

[Nigerianwonder]

Simps aren't going to understand the point of this message. Women who make high salaries often look for men who make more or equal to them. This country has convinced men to care more about women's hearts than their finances, and that's what leads to successful men getting their pockets ran when they get divorced.

Women initiate divorce most of the time whether they are career women or not.

And no man wants to marry a woman who is competing with him. Men like family oriented feminine women not masculine women. A womans income doesn't make her a good catch to a man. Women with high salaries will divorce and run your pockets quicker than a woman who is dependent on you.

 

[Mr. Glass]

Did yall even watch the video? He doesn't say you shouldn't marry someone making 35K. He just said make sure to get a prenup if there is a large income gap.

Your wife earnings potential is important for those in the middle class but its not the most important factor guys look for in wife. Plus the difference in lifestyle isn't that much if you make 80k and your wife makes 35k or say 60K. A couple making 115K combined is not living much different than a couple making 150k combined.

Peace of mind >> Money. If your woman doesn't bring you peace it doesn't matter how much you make. I've seriously dated several female doctors and it was a terrible experience. If your woman brings your peace you got a winner.

And from my experience and what I have seen, high powered high earning career women are quicker to divorce and leave cause they are not dependent on you and less likely to be submissive.

And why would I want her to be dependent on me? Lol.

 

[Mr. Glass]

Women initiate divorce most of the time whether they are career women or not.

And no man wants to marry a woman who is competing with him. Men like family oriented feminine women not masculine women. A womans income doesn't make her a good catch to a man. Women with high salaries will divorce and run your pockets quicker than a woman who is dependent on you.

Why do you nikkas turn a woman making good dough into some competition? If you’re married to her, why aren’t you happy she’s successful?

It just sounds like you nikkas are afraid of a woman have agency and options. If you’re that nikka, she respects you regardless, and you respect her.

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

Call me corny but I feel things like occupation, salary, assets are man made stuff I don’t just a woman or any person off man made things more so who they are as a person, do they have kind heart and a beautiful soul

 

[Nigerianwonder]

And why would I want her to be dependent on me? Lol.

Women naturally want men to lead them. That's why they don't like dating down. And even when they do date down they still expect the man to shoulder the bulk of the financial load. I'm cert gang and well into 6 figures and have dated doctors making twice as much as me. They still wanna be wined and dined like all women. The difference is they got expensive taste so you spend more money doing those things cause they can afford to do it themselves so it aint as special to them and takes more to impress them. Ive been there and done that. Waste of money. Never again.

 

[Nigerianwonder]

Why do you nikkas turn a woman making good dough into some competition? If you’re married to her, why aren’t you happy she’s successful?

It just sounds like you nikkas are afraid of a woman have agency and options. If you’re that nikka, she respects you regardless, and you respect her.

Women make it a competition. Men don't. Thats why we dont care when they talk about all their degrees. Career success doesnt have anything to do with a woman being a good wife or mother. Thats all it comes down to. Nobody saying they are not happy their wife has monetary sucess. We are saying its just a bonus and not a main factor of what it is to be a good wife, mother, and partner.

Cause often that career success comes at the expense of family. That's just a fact of what happens in most high paying careers. I personally would only marry for family. I work hard to support a famliy so my wife wont have to work hard and can focus on family and kids. If a woman prioritizes career over family I wont be marrying her. Its that simple. But if you like women like that then do you.

 

[Mr. Glass]

Women naturally want men to lead them. That's why they don't like dating down. And even when they do date down they still expect the man to shoulder the bulk of the financial load. I'm cert gang and well into 6 figures and have dated doctors making twice as much as me. They still wanna be wined and dined like all women. The difference is they got expensive taste so you spend more money doing those things cause they can afford to do it themselves so it aint as special to them and takes more to impress them. Ive been there and done that. Waste of money. Never again.

im 6 certs gang too, live in LA, and I’m not saving a female. She better be in my income and social class range. They’re laughing at us behind our backs when we save them.

how many handsome, 6’2, 6 figure black men are there? Why would i go above and beyond for p*ssy? Make them meet you halfway.

 

[Mr. Glass]

Women make it a competition. Men don't. Thats why we dont care when they talk about all their degrees. Career success doesnt have anything to do with a woman being a good wife or mother. Thats all it comes down to. Nobody saying they are not happy their wife has monetary sucess. We are saying its just a bonus and not a main factor of what it is to be a good wife, mother, and partner.

Cause often that career success comes at the expense of family. That's just a fact of what happens in most high paying careers. I personally would only marry for family. I work hard to support a famliy so my wife wont have to work hard and can focus on family and kids. If a woman prioritizes career over family I wont be marrying her. Its that simple. But if you like women like that then do you.

I respect it. I doubt I’m having kids. If I marry, I’m marrying for my own enjoyment.

 

[SheWantTheD]

If you guys actually watch the video, he says that if you make 80k and your woman makes 40k you should get a prenup before getting married.

 

[UberEatsDriver]

A 30k a year woman is new information away from making 6 figures. My lady was only making 48k 2 years ago now she is making like 6k a week doing bank negotiations.

I don’t think the video is about women who make 30k and have aspirations to be better sir.