The only man I would cook for and clean up after who isn't providing is my son just like any mother would but
I feel since a lot of men didn't have a male figure in their home, they don't know how to be men, so when they look for a wife instead of looking for a partner they're looking for a mother. Any man who feels a woman should cater to him without returning the favor because "that's a woman's job" is a prime example of this mentality.
P.S. Again not talking about any specific male posters here