If you marry a woman without her completing a 1 year probationary period consisting of...

[Nintendough]

(Pointless) Rhetoric.

When you learn that you can't plan people, nor predict them or their behavior, you'll see why you're wrong. Not saying your plan is 100% failure but it's very from factual or common sense. Anyone can act or play a part for short term. That doesn't make them marriage material. You are saying someone is worth marrying because they can pretend for a bit by your standards and that your willing to risk your current financial standing along with your financial standing for the rest of your life off of a couple of months-a year.

Obviously you can't read, when you learn that simple skill you will learn precaution doesn't equal control or an attempt at control.


Taking precautions as a man to protect himself is called common sense. Well let me correct myself, its actually "good sense" since it isn't that common. When an investment is being made, the good sense approach is to use a probationary period to evaluate and at the least give yourself certain points to build a foundation off of while still being flexible in case of a sudden change.



You can now proceed to talk in circles non-related to the knowledge that im charitable enough to feed you for female and simp daps my son.

 

[Remote]

Its a pet peeve and deal breaker.

It's up there for me.
Far and away the biggest one for me is women's failure to be direct.
Everyone in the world claims to not be afraid to speak their minds but nobody ever does it when it matters. They only do it for petty opinions and bullshyt.

 

[Diondon]

If a woman got engaged why would she not move in with her fiancee that she's potentially walking down the aisle with in 6 -12 mnths?
What does she have to hide?
And don't give me that bullshyt milk analogy
This is 2014 not 1814. Women been poppin p*ssy.

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

People can date for 2 years and still not know a damn thing about each other.
Hell, that's probably why most marriages don't last long these days to begin with.
Didn't Chris Rock have some standup bit about how when you date someone, you aren't meeting THEM, you're meeting their REPRESENTATIVE?

If people are in relationships for years and can honestly say they don't know anything about their partner, then they haven't given an honest effort to find out who they are. If you're with someone and aren't willing to open up, what are you in a relationship for? I don't see how living together would change that.

 

[No_bammer_weed]

Feminism is probably the worst thing that ever happened to womankind. Turned potentially loving people into screaming man hating banshees. fukk I look like trying to marry a woman with a chip on her shoulder always competing with me trying to prove some pointless shyt. To these feminists men aren't viewed as partners or lovers they're viewed as enemies. A normal chick will do her part and I'll do mine

Bitter rants like these, which are powered by ignorance, are always tough to read. Pretty sad that you havent had the ability to create normal, healthy, loving relationships with women, and instead create crude caricatures of the opposite sex. Dont know how far that will get you in life.

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

If a woman got engaged why would she not move in with her fiancee that she's potential walking down the aisle with in 6 -12 mnths?
What does she have to hide?
And don't give me that bullshyt milk analogy
This is 2014 not 1814. Women been poppin p*ssy.

Being engaged isn't a legal contract like marriage is. If we've been together for years, we can wait another 6-12 months to move in together.

 

[Torrential]

Bitter rants like these, which are powered by ignorance, are always tough to read. Pretty sad that you havent had the ability to create normal, healthy, loving relationships with women, and instead create crude caricatures of the opposite sex. Dont know how far that will get you in life.

I don't know how you got that from what I wrote but you do you pleighboy

 

[Remote]

If people are in relationships for years and can honestly say they don't know anything about their partner, then they haven't given an honest effort to find out who they are. If you're with someone and aren't willing to open up, what are you in a relationship for? I don't see how living together would change that.

Many men and women get along with each other just fine, and have feelings without actually risking their vulnerability.
This is why you have so many men and women who are serial daters, or constantly single.

But some of them are together for long enough, playing that same game, that they get married because it just FEELS like the thing to do.

When the divorce or break up happens, is anyone really surprised?

 

[GoPro]

Yeah. Because people who live together don't get cheated on and cheating only happens at late night dinners :

If you don't know your woman's eating habits, her cleaning habits, etc. and you're thinking about marrying her so you move in together, you don't really know your woman in the first place and should not be considering marrying her period. Plus these everyone changes it up when they want. Some people just luck up in it all.

And how exactly would you know those habits if you didn't live together first? Its far easier to pretend parttime than it is fulltime. I can't see a logical reason for you to debate this except you just want to be argumentative.

 

[Diondon]

Being engaged isn't a legal contract like marriage is. If we've been together for years, we can wait another 6-12 months to move in together.

So because you're not legally protected by a "contract" you feel you will lose something? Go deeper with this.

 

[Nintendough]

Bitter rants like these, which are powered by ignorance, are always tough to read. Pretty sad that you havent had the ability to create normal, healthy, loving relationships with women, and instead create crude caricatures of the opposite sex. Dont know how far that will get you in life.

There is nothing sad about a man being aware of his surroundings.

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

Many men and women get along with each other just fine, and have feelings without actually risking their vulnerability.
This is why you have so many men and women who are serial daters, or constantly single.

But some of them are together for long enough, playing that same game, that they get married because it just FEELS like the thing to do.

When the divorce or break up happens, is anyone really surprised?

If you're playing games, whether you decide to live together or not won't make a difference.

 

[Remote]

If you're playing games, whether you decide to live together or not won't make a difference.

The older you get, the more you look around, the more you realize a lot of people play games.
They just lie to themselves about it.

 

[Rawtid]

It's up there for me.
Far and away the biggest one for me is women's failure to be direct.
Everyone in the world claims to not be afraid to speak their minds but nobody ever does it when it matters. They only do it for petty opinions and bullshyt.

Example?

 

[GoPro]

Being engaged isn't a legal contract like marriage is. If we've been together for years, we can wait another 6-12 months to move in together.

You asked for examples of why cohabitation is necessary, now I'm asking you to explain why you wouldnt want to move in with your fiancé prior to marriage. If its for "religious reasons", then