this thread is going to turn in who is the biggest victim and please feel sorry for me the most
Exactly...
No doubt! And just because you were raised in a middle class, wealthy or rich environment in which you had certain advantages other blacks didn't have is still no guarantee that you'll be just as or more successful than your parents. One's own drive, determination, personal responsibility & good decision making also is a factor in maintaining or gaining prosperity as well.
Well tbh...considering the microagressions and macroagressions blacks face on a whole (systemic racism, colorism, discrimination, prejudice, institutionalized racism, harassment, intimidation) to say that certain black people in those situations have it easier is assinine. The global society pumps out racist rhetoric and stereotypes that marginalized black men and women mentally more than physically which in my honest opinion can impede personal progress regardless of finances. That's why I said what I said.
You're trying to live life...A normal life. Have a stable job to provide food clothing and shelter for yourself and others...and there are knowingly forces put in tTe way due to race that can hinder the essentials to a "normal" existence as a functioning member of society. Even the little things (dating, social climate, enjoying life with as little stress as possible) can become absolute problematic cause racism causes unnecessary stress on the mind and body from other people to oneself...has even shown to cause physical problems.
Other minority groups don't even have it like that. They weren't indoctrinated into a global system borne from their enslavement and colonization into one where they're supposed to compete at the same level of a dominant population that essentially had a 400 year head start and more resources at their disposal than anyone else.