“If your man is only protecting and providing you’re still a single mom” - AceMetaphor

[Wiseborn]

He knows how to get clicks technically he's right but it's coming from a wrong place.

But since "Single Moms are great"isn't that what he wants?

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Threads like these and some of the responses in here shows that society really doesn’t care about men’s mental health like they claim to.

A man (especially black) is expected to be perfect and if the woman FEELS like he’s not up to par, he’s less than and needs to try harder.

So now you have men out here getting stressed the fukk out and dying earlier than they should’ve from health issues or blowing their own brains out.

Then all of a sudden it’s “men should open up”.

But when we do open up (podcasts, forums, etc.) we are told we are being whiny, effeminate little bytches.

And the cycle continues.

Exactly

Shows they really don’t give af…

I try to look at every possible scenario that I can imagine when trying to solve a problem… some of those thoughts are dark but nobody truly gives a fukk. Nobody asks why he was drinking himself crazy, only that he was a drunk. Nobody asks why he was doing drugs, just call him a junkie.

Nobody ever wonders what it psychologically does to a man/men who are always the blame, always the problem, always responsible for your misery, etc. Always not good enough. Not being able to have no accountability for ANY of your actions is a luxury.

I never even expected them to care though, that’s my thing. I’m a black man and often times thought of as less than that

 

[Uncle Trill]

At this point everybody just be single

 

[TheGreatMTB]

Breh, every parent I know of a 0-4 year old child is fukking stressed out and sleep deprived to a degree that isn't matched by hardly any job outside of the ones with purely insane working hours. And that's talking about TWO parent households, not even single parent. The 24/7 attention and constant intrusions on every aspect of life that come with raising a little kid are unparalleled. Suggesting that's just the job the mom signed up for, and not what the dad signed up for, is begging the question.

I have no idea what single parents you know who are living "relatively stress-free lives" unless they're paying a ton in childcare, their kids are much older and taking care of themselves, or they're basically practicing child neglect.

I don't know what topic you're debating me about to be honest. I said stay-at-home mothers...you're talking about single mothers. I'm talking about women who have working husbands and stay at home to raise their child.

I specifically said the fathers should be engaged in the child's life, but the mother will lead the childrearing because that is the main job of a stay-at-home mother...I also said if they're both working, they should have equal childrearing responsibilities.

If a stay-at-home mother is not willing to take the lead on raising the child, there is no point in her being a stay-at-home mother. There's no benefit to it, she might as well work and split all the household work/chores/childcare equally.

 

[HARLEM AL]

LMAO, No one in here disagrees with this. But don't act like we ALL have it bad with women or we are submissive because we can "cover more ground" in this relationship shyt. Not all women are delusional and ungrateful.

Are ya'll actually into the women you are referring to in your life? If thats the case, NONE of this shyt should be a problem. No wonder you're divorced.

Nah lil nikka that won’t work.

But just like I thought you were a bytch. “Are you int the women in your life”. Yeah lil nikka im in their life and in every bytch in your family.

 

[The Prince of All Saiyans]

what

 

[5thbornpowerseed]

This guy is usually a panderer* but I actually agree with this.

If you have children with your wife it's your job to raise them too. Your son needs his father's influence, your daughter needs her father's influence. You should be nurturing and growing your children together.

It's not just a woman's job to raise the children you both made together.

Sometimes I think people are generally really fukkin stupid.
This is one of those times.

Do nikkas really think their saying some earth shattering shyt talking about help mom out around the house? Did these topic really need a whole break down, passionate soliloquy and comment section?

Next video is about wearing layers cause it’s cold outside.

 

[YouMadd?]

nikka this shyt was over 10 years ago

She was a 22 year old spoiled chick who looked up to thots and had simps ass nikkas do and pay for everything and I definitely wasn’t that.



And Idgaf what your white chick does bruh.. I was damn near married having the same thing you described happen with my last chick

Okay so what’s the problem? What’s your angle in this thread because we seem to be in agreement then.

 

[Professor Emeritus]

I don't know what topic you're debating me about to be honest. I said stay-at-home mothers...you're talking about single mothers. I'm talking about women who have working husbands and stay at home to raise their child.

You claimed that stay-at-home mothers lead relatively stress-free lives and suggested their lives were much easier that a working man. I replied:

Breh, every parent I know of a 0-4 year old child is fukking stressed out and sleep deprived to a degree that isn't matched by hardly any job outside of the ones with purely insane working hours. And that's talking about TWO parent households, not even single parent.

 

[Roger king]

This is just clout chasing and bait, its design to get clicks and interactins thats all there is to it

 

[maxamusa]

First thing I noticed was Byrd bran breh had no ring on his finger. FOH with that hoe babble

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Okay so what’s the problem? What’s your angle in this thread because we seem to be in agreement then.

Did I say there was a problem?

Every experience is a learning experience and a part of life…

That moment in time taught me who I am as a person.. what I will and won’t accept.

Understand, I’ve been through a lot more than what I’m saying on here. Even my bad choices are pretty goood choices

 

[karim]

In 2023 what makes you stand out as a good partner to your women is having good communication skills, and having empathy,

The funny thing is that despite the clishés woman are actually horrible at this.

 

[BaggerofTea]

The demonization of man is going to reach a boiling point.

Once this economy hits the shytter and folks gotta fend for themselves, a reality check is going to be in store for A LOT of people.

 

[TheGreatMTB]

You claimed that stay-at-home mothers lead relatively stress-free lives and suggested their lives were much easier that a working man. I replied:

yes...who do you think has a more stressful life....someone who works and raises a child or someone who doesn't have to work and can focus on raising their child? There's a reason so many women prefer to be a stay-at-home mom at least when the baby is first born.