“If your man is only protecting and providing you’re still a single mom” - AceMetaphor

[HARLEM AL]

Any man worth a damn isn't going to have a problem with securing his house AND pouring into his children as much as possible. He's supposed to do that.

What's submissive about spending more time with your children?

Whats wrong with getting in touch with your feelings and mental wellness?


Too many of us are weak. Anytime we hear anything that we don't like we get incendiary, start name calling, and flip out like the stereotypical irrational women we can't stand instead of being sober minded and addressing the topic.

Kinda like what you're doing in this thread.

Nah you submissive. And that’s ok.

Like I said a black man bust his ass take care of his family and it’s never enough. There’s always that wha aboutisms. You young nikkas don’t listen to these nikkas at all. Take care of your family if you choose to have one. If that ain’t enough leave that bytch. Straight up. Don’t you go jumping through hoops trying to prove yourself. fukk em.

 

[YouMadd?]

I bolded "her" because in my experience it's not a two way street. A lot of women say they want the man to open up and communicate, as the post I was replying to suggested, but really they just want you to listen too and empathize with them, with no reciprocity.

Well this is a perfect way to eliminate a bad partner IF she isn't fulfilling needs that you've communicated to her while you are fulfilling her needs then you sir are in an imbalanced relationship and she probably doesnt care about you.

Seems like the people in this thread who disagree with me, get treated like shyt by the women in their life. Couldnt be me...

 

[HARLEM AL]

I bolded "her" because in my experience it's not a two way street. A lot of women say they want the man to open up and communicate, as the post I was replying to suggested, but really they just want you to listen too and empathize with them, with no reciprocity.

Right, that nikka open up and that broad is going to leave his ass for you for a nikka like who he was.

 

[Astroslik]

If you’re argument is, the video and thread are not worthy of being made due to the numbers being small, I agree. But it’s a discussion thread, so I’m discussing

Yeah you a passive aggressive bytch. I didn’t even get “aggressive” with you, I asked a simple question. You’re soft and can’t even have a intellectual discourse without ad hominem attacks. Just played some golf with my father by the way. Don’t project your failures onto me.

 

[YouMadd?]

Nah you submissive. And that’s ok.

Like I said a black man bust his ass take care of his family and it’s never enough. There’s always that wha aboutisms. You young don’t listen to these nikkas at all. Take care of your family if you choose to have one. If that ain’t enough leave that bytch. Straight up. Don’t you go jumping through hoops trying to prove yourself. fukk em.

LMAO, No one in here disagrees with this. But don't act like we ALL have it bad with women or we are submissive because we can "cover more ground" in this relationship shyt. Not all women are delusional and ungrateful.

Are ya'll actually into the women you are referring to in your life? If thats the case, NONE of this shyt should be a problem. No wonder you're divorced.

 

[YouMadd?]

Yeah you a passive aggressive bytch. Can’t even have a intellectual discourse without ad hominem attacks. Just played some golf with my father by the way. Don’t project your failures onto me.

I wasn't referring to you, pal.... But if the heels fit, put them bytches on ,friend

 

[Bumblebreh]

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She is speaking truths. For a marriage to work, both genders have to be invested.

 

[YouMadd?]

Right, that nikka open up and that broad is going to leave his ass for you for a nikka like who he was.

"opened up" lmao. I feel bad for some of yall, never seen a fruitful relationship in their lives.

 

[TallMan_J]

Pandering at its finest. Black Women (not all, but too many) are the easiest to pander to. You can get rich by doing so. If I didn’t have morals and self respect, I’d do the same thing.


Women listening to this nonsense will remain single, bitter, lonely and miserable. Just look at the comments. They’ve been fooled and bamboozled so many times that I’ve lost count. Silly birds didn’t learn a thing from that Derrick Jaxson dude. He was the king of pandering.

 

[Astroslik]

I wasn't referring to you, pal.... But if the heels fit, put them bytches on ,friend

You boys move like women. It’s quite telling. I can tell some of ya’ll didn’t grow up with strong men in your lives.

 

[ReggieFlare]

I mean, dude is not wrong fundamentally but:

1. He’s pandering.
2. He’s talking as if it’s common for men to have zero interaction with their children.

 

[Elim Garak]

Why y'all keep posting this dude?

 

[Ineedmoney504]

I showed my BM one his videos to laugh at his pandering. She ended up following him

You are who this post is about lil bro. You think you can just work and not help with shyt for your kids. you fukked boy

 

[UpNext]

Median black household makes 45,000.

If you find a singular black man making 150k+ a year in median American city money, just stfu and count your blessings. Goddamn. Folks really doing everything in their power to marginalize providing in a society where most these mfs will never even own a house unless someone gives them one.

 

[TheGreatMTB]

Child rearing is far more than an 8-hour job, especially during the first 4 or so years. How would you feel if the mother did 100% of the child rearing work while the father was at work, then the father did say 50-60% or more of the work when he got home?

most people making the income for their spouse to stay at home are working more than 8 hours pure work shift. That's before you factor in the commute to get to and from work. I'm not saying the father shouldn't be involved in their child's life but if you're a stay at home mom that's the job you signed up for. You exchange the stresses of a normal job to raise a child, and most stay-at-home moms I know live relatively stress-free lives. They swear they're stressed out to hell but when you watch them you struggle to see what they're talking about.