“If your man is only protecting and providing you’re still a single mom” - AceMetaphor

[Dash_97]

This guy put up a video criticizing women one time and they went in on him and he hasn’t done it since Whenever he makes a video that could apply to women, he uses words like “people” to make it more general but he makes sure to call men out all the time.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

This guy put up a video criticizing women one time and they went in on him and he hasn’t done it since Whenever he makes a video that could apply to women, he uses words like “people” to make it more general but he makes sure to call men out all the time.

Didn’t a pastor recently try to go in on women and his congregation numbers dropped exponentially???

Found it:



And then:


I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, never be solely dependent on women for your coins. And if you do, don’t bite the titty that feeds you.

 

[Jean Jacket]

Those type of women don't want any accountability and all of the control.

If a woman ever tells you that she's a single mother and you pay bills and take care of your responsibilities...reconsider what kind of woman you're dealing with.

It's not you.

 

[5n0man]

I think a bigger problem I've been noticing lately are men who aren't providers expecting to be treated like they are. I've met quite a few men who were bringing in less money than their girl but still expected her to take care of all house duties.

I don't understand that logic.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

I think a bigger problem I've been noticing lately are men who aren't providers expecting to be treated like they are. I've met quite a few men who were bringing in less money than their girl but still expected her to take care of all house duties.

I don't understand that logic.

This is why I’ll always advocate for women not dating down. Either date a similar level or date up.

No woman will ever truly be happy being the main breadwinner. And then be expected to do all house duties?

That’s on her if she’s dumb enough to shack up with a man like that.

 

[KidJSoul]

Maybe get your lazy ass kids to help out and you won’t be so stressed? A lot of these kids don’t do shyt.

In my house EVERYBODY helps out including our youngest who is only 9. Cooking, cleaning, laundry, yard work, trash, etc. No free rides around here. And we don’t wanna hear shyt about being tired from school or sports or whatever.

I will snatch up everybody’s phone/tablet and turn off the Wi-Fi think I’m playing!

A family is a BUSINESS and like all businesses everyone has their part to play. Even when our kids were little they had to pick up and clean up and SHUT UP.

Parents first, kids last has always been our motto. If it wasn’t for us they wouldn’t even be here. Y’all letting toddlers ruin your marriages smh.

This needs to be plastered on every single discussion about parenting and house labor on the internet

Make your kids do some of their chores. Make the kids do the dishes occasionally, clean their rooms, clean their bathrooms, do the laundry occasionally, fold laundry, and make their beds everyday

It'll be good for the parents, and good for the kids to learn discipline.

 

[KidJSoul]

I think a bigger problem I've been noticing lately are men who aren't providers expecting to be treated like they are. I've met quite a few men who were bringing in less money than their girl but still expected her to take care of all house duties.

I don't understand that logic.

Yeah it's tough. I guess they feel like "nah, if she likes me she's going to do it regardless" but then, it's still dumb because they probably lack other provider traits (like leadership, maturity, wisdom, etc.) Which they always ignore

Are you protecting the household? Are you carrying the burden of making the tough decisions and being reliable? Are you the emotional rock? Do you have a vision or purpose?

Because if you aren't, you can't expect your wife to put up with this arrangement

Too many guys don't get this or refuse to accept this

 

[shopthatwrecks]

Does this guy have any kids

he got a

 

[Zero]

Another black podcast talking about relationships

It's absurd at this point

 

[Mowgli]

he got a

Dead ass?

 

[5n0man]

Yeah it's tough. I guess they feel like "nah, if she likes me she's going to do it regardless" but then, it's still dumb because they probably lack other provider traits (like leadership, maturity, wisdom, etc.) Which they always ignore

Are you protecting the household? Are you carrying the burden of making the tough decisions and being reliable? Are you the emotional rock? Do you have a vision or purpose?

Because if you aren't, you can't expect your wife to put up with this arrangement

Too many guys don't get this or refuse to accept this

Sadly alot men these days are missing those traits. The type of dudes I'm talking about expect to go home after work and play call of duty with a hot meal ready for them. Their woman will be bringing in more money, making sure the bills get paid, getting the kids up and ready for school, cooking and cleaning when she gets home, and alot of dudes have no problem with this arrangement. It's like they feel like just bringing home a check should be enough.

 

[DaHNIC82]

And this bozo about to make it EVEN harder for single women

 

[richaveli83]

No matter what black men do, it's never enough.

 

[DaHNIC82]

Didn’t a pastor recently try to go in on women and his congregation numbers dropped exponentially???

Found it:



And then:


I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, never be solely dependent on women for your coins. And if you do, don’t bite the titty that feeds you.

Jakes been doubling down if anything. Salute to him

 

[KidJSoul]

Sadly alot men these days are missing those traits. The type of dudes I'm talking about expect to go home after work and play call of duty with a hot meal ready for them. Their woman will be bringing in more money, making sure the bills get paid, getting the kids up and ready for school, cooking and cleaning when she gets home, and alot of dudes have no problem with this arrangement. It's like they feel like just bringing home a check should be enough.

I never understood these dudes. And the lack of self awareness.

Are they too afraid to confront themselves, so they just ignore it and let the relationship run its course and find a new gf?

Because if your wife earns more than you, and does more housework than you... you gotta make up for it. Unless your content just bouncing from relationship to relationship.