If you're a parent and can offer nothing to your child in their adult life, you've ultimately failed

[TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?]

I know you’re a virgin fakkit hence the anger on here 24/7 but stop quoting me please.

You're telling us your parents paid for your education,but you have been unemployed and on coke since March 2020
What good did it do?
What they need to do is pay for your suicide

 

[JP_614]

You know for me I had both parents growing up I posted on another thread my dad was a plumber. I wish he would’ve taught me more about the trade or anything maintenance wise for that I’m talking simple shyt like changing a tire or brakes or some shyt. I have a mother finical background great with money. I wish she would’ve taught and drilled in my head the importance of saving and investing at a early age. While I wish the would’ve done more in those areas they’re still great parents. I think parents especially ours need to better educate them and teach them the importance of saving, cooking, small maintenance things inside and outside the house. Then as you get older he guide you when your ready to buy a home car etc. I can’t get my thoughts in order but sometimes I wish I had better guidance in life but I don’t get that cause my relationship and how I don’t speak to my parents as much.

 

[Mowgli]

I had to work for everything I have now and received zero handouts from my parents. I do OK. But, I just think, what if I had some sort of nest egg or inheritance that could catapult me to the next tax brackets? Hell, even a property? Land?

That's the mistake a lot of people make, not focusing on generational wealth at all causes stagnation to your lineage. Without keeping this in mind every single new adult released into the world, start on square one. It's not in the child's best interest.

Now I grew up with both a mother and father in a relatively middle class stable lifestyle but it's just still not enough. I'm competing against people that have old / long money fueling their ambitions or basic life.

Don't even get me started with grandparents. If your grandparents cannot pass something on you might as well not even meet your fukking grandchildren, otherwise what's the point of you? My grandparents left me ZERO and left my mother and her siblings with debt and anxiety taking care of them in their final years.

I know the circumstances were different back then. But for Christs sake, start building that nest egg or something as soon as your child is born. Pay for their school, down payment for a house, something that can give them an edge rather than starting all over again.

I feel selfish feeling this way. And I even lowkey resent my family for this. It's a complex range of emotions.

But I'm curious how y'all feel about it.

how many kids do you have.

I hope you aren't childless

 

[Koba St]

You're telling us your parents paid for your education,but you have been unemployed and on coke since March 2020
What good did it do?
What they need to do is pay for your suicide

Shame yours didn’t pay for some white bytch to fukk you so you wouldn’t become some angry incel virgin fakkit stalking random people on the internet.

 

[TinFoilSnapBack]

I agree with OP. I don't understand the idea of bringing souls into this world knowing damn well they're gonna struggle like hell, and most likely be a wage slave.

 

[Boris Reznikov]

Shame yours didn’t pay for some white bytch to fukk you so you wouldn’t become some angry incel virgin fakkit stalking random people on the internet.

 

[who_better_than_me]

Nah my name did all she could for me.

It’s up to me as an individual to add on to it. I’m doing for my kids the best I can. I got them both their own investment portfolio that I continue to build but the real issue is trying to teach them the real values of life. I had an account for my son that he could touch after he turn 18 but I took that back and just put it under my account because I need to realize his head is right before I hand him over all that money. You can’t jsut give your kids everything without teaching them how to keep it and build it. Because I can see now my son would jsut take his portfolio and sell everything without the implications of capital gain, spend it all up and ultimately off worst than before.

I seen this a lot in white families. One guy was. Sad because he kept a old GTO in crisp condition to pass down to his son. . Shyt was probabaly worth at least $50000 in its condition. Son wrecked it in Les than a year. Seen another daughter inherit the house her grandmother left her and she sold to one of those I’ll buy your house guys who have advertisement boards at the stop light. Took that money and spent it up in one summer. Grandma spent her whole life paying off that house, gone the first year she pass it down.


It’s not your parents responsibility to just hand anything over to you. They already handed you your life. The best thing they can give you is knowledge and power to become a better person.

 

[TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?]

Shame yours didn’t pay for some white bytch to fukk you so you wouldn’t become some angry incel virgin fakkit stalking random people on the internet.

nikka stop making up shyt because I called you out
You proved Op's point by stating your education was paid for dummy
Now you're deflecting like a homo
Dumb hideous Afric00n with dreams of dating Australian women


I don't care about you or your life nikka
Here I'll prove it

**Ignored for life**

 

[The Realist Perspective]

how many kids do you have.

I hope you aren't childless

I don't have any children. I'm preparing for that now

 

[Houston911]

This nicca is complaining about grandparents who lived in a time where they couldn’t use public bathrooms not giving him material shyt

man up

 

[Houston911]

You're telling us your parents paid for your education,but you have been unemployed and on coke since March 2020
What good did it do?
What they need to do is pay for your suicide

wait is this for real?

 

[Pirius Black]

How do you know your parents don't have insurance policies OP?

 

[old pig]

How do you know your parents don't have insurance policies OP?

you gonna have this ungrateful dude plotting on his parents

 

[Pirius Black]

you gonna have this ungrateful dude plotting on his parents

You right. OP said his grandparents were worthless since they left nothing, so parenticide for the insurance money is probably the kinda comeup he needs and would be cool with in order to compete with the cacs in his circle.

For what its worth, I agree that parents should do everything possible to help their children secure the best footing possible in life. Maybe all your parents could do was to give you a middle class lifestyle, you're gonna have to carry that baton forward.

 

[Matt504]

Black people shouldn't have children until they're at least 30.