If you're avg looking or ugly you need to drop the ego & stop getting @ random chicks. Find ur niche

[DrX]

Jay z would like to have a word with you

And flavor flav also

Tell this to the hoes because a man can boss up and become desirable through money or status

jayz is the niche posterboy

hes a rich famous urban artist at the top of his game and his wife is the same thing.....

 

[Weaver31]

You don't gotta be good looking to be successful at approaching women. Y'all nikkas mentals is all fukked up

He has good bits and pieces in his post....but ur right. I see mismatched couples out here all the time...and sometimes the more unattractive one don't have money or a stellar personality and charisma. Sometimes its just being in the right place at the right time.

The OP is smart but he does come off as emotionally scarred and unbalanced at times. But he makes some great and relevant posts when u read thru the bits and pieces of his post. I wonder who hurt him tho...the women or people who hurt him left a lasting impression.

 

[Doobie Doo]

thats why yall run into problems...random ppl are meant for each...u have to have common interest

if u know your lane...u can get a chick that understand you, have things in common, legitimately want to be with you and y'all can have positive vibes

instead of just getting with some random person.....

if you're into biking and shes into biking i guarantee yall get along better

I'm trying to fukk, hobbies and other shyt that determine compatibility are for relationships

 

[DrX]

its all ego, if youre avg u need to work on other things

can I compete with a tall handsome muscular guy off of physical appearance? nope...and I know that and Im not a hater...i find my strengths

ok looks and height and esp money aint going to get me no females...even tho i think im ok looking, but im not making no pussies wet from psychical appearance alone

but what I do have is a high level of intelligence, im funny, im charismatic and I have artistic talent ....so instead of trying to compete with fly nikkas I now know I nee to stay in my lane and become the man their

U gotta be like andre miller. post nikkas up, drop dimes, have a low turn over ratio, play defense, dive on the floor for loose balls. Stop trying to be T-mac and dunking on nikkas.

 

[Uitomy]

The best thing to do is stop giving a shyt period and stop planning so hard on talking to women, you can't tell who the fukk they really are at first anyway so if they look pretty and you feel like trying them try, that's it, you never know what these girls like so who really cares?

 

[DrX]

I'm trying to fukk, hobbies and other shyt that determine compatibility are for relationships

thats the other problem...women are automatically guarded and think we want sex. But if they know you're serious about your passion. Itll disarm them and make them feel more comfortable

because women want sex too but imo they want to feel feel comfortable and trust their partner unless you're a attractive dude then yeah they'll fukk the shyt out of u with no stipulations

 

[FreedS[ohh]lave]

its all ego, if youre avg u need to work on other things

can I compete with a tall handsome muscular guy off of physical appearance? nope...and I know that and Im not a hater...i find my strengths

ok looks and height and esp money aint going to get me no females...even tho i think im ok looking, but im not making no pussies wet from psychical appearance alone

but what I do have is a high level of intelligence, im funny, im charismatic and I have artistic talent ....so instead of trying to compete with fly nikkas I now know I nee to stay in my lane and become the man their

U gotta be like andre miller. post nikkas up, drop dimes, have a low turn over ratio, play defense, dive on the floor for loose balls. Stop trying to be T-mac and dunking on nikkas.

Yup like I tell my ugly dude who tries to dress fly to attract chicks. The type of women who are into that look are gonna go for the dudes much better looking then u

 

[DrX]

The best thing to do is stop giving a shyt period and stop planning so hard on talking to women, you can't tell who the fukk they really are at first anyway so if they look pretty and you feel like trying them try, that's it, you never know what these girls like so who really cares?

thats my point. If you're in your lane. That ll naturally come and they'll be legit excited to be in your presence. The key for a happy men is to have a happy women. What men wouldn't want a excited bubbly happy good vibe female

 

[DrX]

Yup like I tell my ugly dude who tries to dress fly to attract chicks. The type of women who are into that look are gonna go for the dudes much better looking then u

right....if a chick is into fly dudes. They want a legit fly dude, not a pretender. Thats why he needs to find a lane.

 

[Doobie Doo]

thats the other problem...women are automatically guarded and think we want sex. But if they know you're serious about your passion. Itll disarm them and make them feel more comfortable

because women want sex too but imo they want to feel feel comfortable and trust their partner unless you're a attractive dude then yeah they'll fukk the shyt out of u with no stipulations

Because we do.

 

[BigMan]

 

[Wildhundreds]

How would you know you're out of your lane unless you shoot your shot?

You telling people don't shoot your shot?

Some women are more "stuck up" depending on the area you live in.

You are more prone to get a bad chick in LA than Chicago. Stop painting with broad brushes.

 

[damn_ese]

date a fatty with a cute face, then be like

"damn you're so beautiful"

she'll be like

"how? im a fat monster, im not beautiful!"

you get up right in her chipmunk face and say

"you are gorgeous! both inside and outside dammit!"
"i fell in love with a diamond that society has brainwashed into believing she isn't!"
now turn slighty to the side and in a low tone, whisper "damn you society! . . . . damn you to hell!"

(cue the rocky training theme)

she is inspired by your sudden need to work out and encouraging her to be your gym partner

she starts a diet and working out, before you know it

your overweight investment is starting to deliver dividends

she will forever see you as the only man that stood by during her land monster phase

she will suck yo dikk, no problem!

 

[DrX]

Because we do.

the point is...woman want to feel comfortable around you. If you're just some JBO sexually horny deviant you'll turn them off but if you're cool and actually into something legit they feel more comfortable

Photographers get laid all the time...women feel comfortable with them, they know they're into something legit and not just some random guy with jordans on lusting for a quick nut..because hes horny from watching 6 hours of pornhub the other night

this advice isn't for getting laid tho specifically tho...im talking about meeting cool women that u can have a good time with....sex and all that other stuff will come naturally between to consenting adults

 

[DrX]

How would you know you're out of your lane unless you shoot your shot?

You telling people don't shoot your shot?

Some women are more "stuck up" depending on the area you live in.

You are more prone to get a bad chick in LA than Chicago. Stop painting with broad brushes.

u can shoot it, just dont cry foul if they reject u or use you.....thats the problem....all of us wasnt made to have "bad bytches" the ig hoes...but thats ok because u have pretty women that are into certain things...u have to find your lane and interact with them

im figuring that out with age

if im a artist why would i try to holla at the chick with the gucci outfit on and big booty? its pointless...why not go to a art function and talk to a artsy chick that will actually have something in common with me?