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I watched this a couple weeks ago and he is not saying that if you're the breadwinner it gives you the greenlight to cheat. He did not once say Cheating was Okay.

He said men with resources and options explore them, so if you want a high value man with resources, options and lots of women chasing him he may very well exercise those options.

A lot of the women that call into his show want a man that makes at least six figures, and KS tells them they have a better chance staying with their husband then divorcing him and trying to find another six figure man that will marry them. And he says this because the women are older, already have children, and an older man can't provide them with things they haven't already experiences (vacations, purchasing a home together, etc).

He also says these women should try and work it out with their husband before leaving because the dating game is tough, and the grass may not be greener on the other side.

Honestly, after watching a good amount of his videos I don't think he's a bad guy. Do I agree with everything he says? No. But he's giving these women the harsh truth they don't wanna hear or accept, and yes there are exceptions but we are talking in generalities.

Now is he milking this for all he can because it's bringing him views, clicks, likes and overall more money? Yes, but most would.

He told her she should work out an arrangement to allow him to cheat because he is a HVM and she's too old to do better. If that's not him telling her to greenlight his cheating idk what is.

KS leaves out something VERY important in these conversations which is PROXIMITY. If your friends, family and social circle have money you MORE THAN LIKELY will easily find someone who has money.

His go to tactic is to try to shame and scare women into desperation.

I live in the richest state in the country, in the richest county in the state which is surrounded by 3 or 4 of some of richest counties in the country.There are tons of HVM or potentially HVM around and "HVM only date/marry XYZ types of women" is such bullshyt. They have the same shytty dating habits as other types of men. They usually just deal with people IN THEIR CIRCLES.

KS leaves that part out A LOT. Yes a lot of the women who call in are delusional and need a reality check. But his perspective is very limited and narrow.

My good friend is rich. Money has been in her family for at least 3 generations on both sides. She is awesome but can get just as ratchet as anyone else. She is married to a HVM and all her female (3) siblings are married to HVM and not 1 of them is the picture of the women that KS paints. She has 2 children with her husband and I know if they broke up tomorrow she would have zero problems getting another HVM because that is the only men she knows and she's drop dead gorgeous.

KS is milking the fact that BM enjoy watching BW get shamed. So he creates a small narrow definition of "acceptable" and then uses that strict definition to shame any woman who doesn't fit into that tiny box. shyt he even lowkey shames women who do fit in that box.

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I agree with this but the only thing that’s weird is we got dudes who shame women for having easy options in regards to sex (It’s easier for women to have sex and they have to put less effort to get it) and would rarely defend them “Well, she had so many options so she was bound to cheat”.

But when affluent men start having access to all these options, it’s so easy to understand or justify the cheating mindset.
:ohhh::russ:I never even thought about it like that...u right. Dudes readily admit that chicks have more sexual options so by male logic, if cheating is tied to options, women should be fukking errbody. Same dudes will get some options, start feeling themselves and act like the very hoes they tried to shame.:deadmanny:

Why not just stay out of a relationship? Be happy, single and get with whoever you want when you want. :manny:
 
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No one is leading me anywhere.

Anyone who greenlights promiscuity within a marriage is a clown. There is literally NOTHING positive that can result from cheating on your wife. Not one damn thing.





You missing my point, babe.

I'm saying... maybe I have it wrong but it seems like you started this thread to get some understanding of the male psyche.

I'm saying... if you really want to understand how us men think, then engaging with a man who thinks like a woman isn't going to help with that.

You may disagree with the things that I and @DatNkkaCutty or @WesCrook or @the bossman say but we always gon keep it 100 with you.

If you want to understand and find out where men stand, you have to discuss it with the men who actually think like men.

And I promise you... even the brehs in here that are saying they would never cheat... even if a man decides that he wouldn't cheat, we ALL understand the thought process on why a man would do it.
 

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:ohhh::russ:I never even thought about it like that...u right. Dudes readily admit that chicks have more sexual options so by male logic, if cheating is tied to options, women should be fukking errbody. Same dudes will get some options, start feeling themselves and act like the very hoes they tried to shame.:deadmanny:

Why not just stay out of a relationship? Be happy, single and get with whoever you want when you want. :manny:
Then Kev tried to shame the lady talking about she shouldn't get anything from the 6 year marriage she's been in because she doesn't wanna be with a cheater.

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I can't
 

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You missing my point, babe.

I'm saying... maybe I have it wrong but it seems like you started this thread to get some understanding of the male psyche.

I'm saying... if you really want to understand how us men think, then engaging with a man who thinks like a woman isn't going to help with that.

You may disagree with the things that I and @DatNkkaCutty or @WesCrook or @the bossman say but we always gon keep it 100 with you.

If you want to understand and find out where men stand, you have to discuss it with the men who actually think like men.

And I promise you... even the brehs in here that are saying they would never cheat... even if a man decides that he wouldn't cheat, we ALL understand the thought process on why a man would do it.
I understand and appreciate that.

Maybe I am wrong but I don't think you ever answered the question in the OP
 
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:ohhh::russ:I never even thought about it like that...u right. Dudes readily admit that chicks have more sexual options so by male logic, if cheating is tied to options, women should be fukking errbody. Same dudes will get some options, start feeling themselves and act like the very hoes they tried to shame.:deadmanny:

Why not just stay out of a relationship? Be happy, single and get with whoever you want when you want. :manny:







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babe... women don't have "options".

It ain't options if all men would do you. If you a half decent looking woman, most men are gonna smash. in fact, I take that back. You can be a 2 on a scale of 1 to 10 and most men are gonna smash given the opportunity.

That's not called having "options".

The definition of "option" is:

"a thing that is or may be chosen."

Given the opportunity, us men would choose ALL of y'all, there's no "maybe" so therefore, it ain't having "options".
 
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I understand and appreciate that.

Maybe I am wrong but I don't think you ever answered the question in the OP






I believe in polygamy. that's why I didn't answer the initial question.

I don't practice it at this point in time, but I would in the right set of perfect circumstances.

so being that I believe in polygamy, then to me, it ain't cheating. In my perfect scenario, it wouldn't be entertaining someone for the purpose of sex. It would be entertaining her for the purpose of being in a relationship with her too.
 

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:ohhh::russ:I never even thought about it like that...u right. Dudes readily admit that chicks have more sexual options so by male logic, if cheating is tied to options, women should be fukking errbody. Same dudes will get some options, start feeling themselves and act like the very hoes they tried to shame.:deadmanny:

Why not just stay out of a relationship? Be happy, single and get with whoever you want when you want. :manny:
that logic applies to men not women.

I already went over why they're viewed different. It's a nonsense comparison. No one respects anything that comes easy. Casual sex is not easy for men. It is easy for women.

You ever see male prostitutes walking the streets and women trying by to pick them up? No.

Being a woman many men would fukk means nothing. Dime a dozen. A "problem" a lot of women have.

Being a man many women would fukk is a rarity on the contrary.
 
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