I don't even know who you are.
Like literally. I've never seen your name on this entire site and I been here for years
Most men are with the woman they're with because she is the best he can do at that point in his life.
I dont believe in a narrow window of perfection. The folks that are on this online space that do have that slim tiny window of perfection as their ideal, I believe, are men who lack experience with women period. Which is why their views on women are so limited and short sighted and unrealistic.
I value imperfections in a woman whether physically or philosophically or mentally or whatever. I'm imperfect myself so why hold her to some ethereal unrealistic measuring stick?
I dont follow Kevin Samuels nor do I believe he's a good "role model" for men. One breh on here said it best. Kevin has "auntie swag"
So I'm not looking to an obvious zesty dude for advice and it's kind of alarming that so many do.
But in a way, I understand it. There's an increasing level of frustration between men and women - on both sides.
But someone like Kevin is able to come along, pepper in some things to make men feel good while simultaneously calling into question the worthiness of women. And with that explosive collide of ideas, a following is born.
It's almost genius. Women listen to him because women seek validation. And the more a man does NOT validate women, the more women seek it. So they are intrigued by what Kevin says because its almost as if he's issued a challenge to women's ego. He's telling women that they are not worthy so it almost seems like every woman that speaks to him is hoping to be that one worthy woman? I don't know. Thats my theory but I don't listen to him to know for sure.
And of course men love to listen because Kevin gets the opportunity to tell women to their face what thousands and thousands of frustrated men would like to say to yall.
A summed up version of "you want us men to be perfect? You aint perfect ya damn self. How you aint a virgin and been giving ya p*ssy away to all these men but expect to get the cream of the crop when you're ready to settle down? You passed over all the good men who wanted to make you an honest woman and instead went for dudes that were no good, you're not young anymore and a lot of you are out of shape, so why should we listen to what you want?"
It's a place of anger, a place of grievance, and that's what it seems Kevin has been able to tap into. He's the mouthpiece for the frustration of many men.
First off if you think women aren’t on par with men then it’s not worth a conversation.
The point I was making was specifically calling some men out on their hypocrisy to claim that they cheat due to increased sexual opportunity, as if that’s an excuse to have a lack of self control. If it is, then anybody who has multiple opportunities would be justified, right?
Welp, as you’ve stated, women have multiple sexual opportunities so by the “I got sooo many opportunities to fukk that I can’t control myself” logic, women should be fukking everything too.
Bottomline is cheating is a choice and it’s about selfishness and a lack of self control. All this overemphasis on gender differences to avoid being able to respect your partner in a committed relationship doesn’t fly.
If you can’t treat your partner the way you wanna be treated, you not high value, you not marriage material, you not relationship material: you are a liability. (Not you specifically but in general)
That’s my litmus test for a good partner. I don’t ask anything of my friends, family and lover that I’m not willing to do for them to the best of my ability. I expect the same from them. And if I’m gonna cut out good dikk, good vibes and interactions from other men, then my partner needs to be willing to do the same with other women.
But you’re free to have your hot take on this. I can respect it even if I vehemently disagree with it
It didn't. He told her to try to save her marriage even if that meant going to the extent of creating a lane for him to have sex with other women with her knowledge and permission. And her having sex with someone on the side too.
If you don’t believe in equality, it’s a null and void conversation.
After a while, motivators/gender shyt just sounds like excuses to me. You can use it in friendships, family interactions. Romantic relationships. Because at the end of the day, regardless of “motivations” if you don’t have the restraint to respect your partner, you don’t need to be in a relationship IMO.
He also told her to create an arrangement so he could cheat.
If you as a man don't want a monogamous relationship than don't enter into one. Don’t promise your god, your friends, family and children you will be faith if that's not your intention.
Aren't ya'll supposed to be the ones running the show? If ya'll are the leaders why are you not saying what it is up front instead of sneaking around on some low life liar shyt?
Pretty much this. You gotta take him with a grain of salt. He's really milking gender wars though. The fact that people are eating it up is scary though.Relationships are built on chance, coincidence, proximity like you said. Meaning that a man can say all he likes is short women and next thing you know he with a tall women.
That's what happened with me. Always been attracted to short chics and then wound up getting with a tall woman, who is almost as tall as me.
We saw that Kevin dont even follow Kevin's rules after all that talk about not getting with single mothers and then when he thought that Sixthegoddis was interested, he threw that rule out the window. Why? Cause he was attracted to her.
Rules mean nothing and that goes for either gender.
I've never paid attention to the rules that women spout. My woman said she thought she was gonna get with a 6 ft tall light skinned dude but I'm 5'8 dark chocolate. So there goes that rule huh?
Lol it doesn’t really work like that...if you gon cheat, you gon cheat whether she makes zero or whether you driving a whip she bought you.More women should agree to be the bread winner. Then men won't have the means anymore to cheat.
Problem solved.
Breh know he wrong for that travesty on the top of his noggin
