If you don’t believe in equality, it’s a null and void conversation.After a while, motivators/gender shyt just sounds like excuses to me.
Either you can treat somebody the way you wanna be treated or you can’t even if you don’t consider them your equal. If you don’t wanna be cheated on, don’t cheat. That’s why the golden rule is so lovely. It cuts through the bullshyt.
But you just do you, Imma do me. Everybody wins.
He's kicking that old school knowledge right there and I might be inclined to somewhat agree.
I think something that has been lost over the decades is the fact that marriage is a business. Yes its love, emotions etc but its also an arrangement that is meant to benefit both sides.
Traditionally the woman is taken care of and provided for while the man gets to have someone to procreate with and who is gonna raise his seed.
Back in medieval days kings got with women to continue their line. All that love stuff? Yeah ok we'll worry about that later. In the meantime can she have healthy babies? And same with the women. Is he a man of means, can he protect and provide? Okay cool we'll worry about that love stuff later.
I think that while we shouldn't necessarily swing the pendulum back TOO far, that there are some important lessons that we can take from that.
To me, love is an emotion, it can't be scientifically measured so its an intangible. I can learn to love someone. If I become friends with her and we mesh well and grow close, I will grow to love her.
These are the hard truths that women don't be wanting to hear but it may do yall well to take it back to old school for a minute. All this waiting on this perfect man to come along aint working out for yall any more than the men who are waiting on this perfect woman to come along.
Yall folks better quit trippin and just learn to be friends and see if each other has important TANGIBLE qualities that can make a long distance relationship work, see if you can develop a friendship and if you can, build on that.
That's my suggestion. But yall aint ready for that yet tho
So your cool with having a life with someone who has no affection for you? Your talking about friendship. He has never said a thing about that.
Going for a man just purely based off of what he can do for you as a woman is what gold diggers and sugar babies do.
Any other time ya'll would shyt on those types of women. Now its the ideal model for a wife? Stop
Again, how you can men claim to be leaders when they don’t have the heart to even be honest? What is the point of going through the motions and building something when the lies will eventually catch up with you and destroy everything you built. Just seems like a cowards way to approach the situation.
So your cool with having a life with someone who has no affection for you? Your talking about friendship. He has never said a thing about that.
Going for a man just purely based off of what he can do for you as a woman is what gold diggers and sugar babies do.
Any other time ya'll would shyt on those types of women. Now its the ideal model for a wife? Stop
It’s not claiming to understand men or a desire to not want to understand them. I’m simply dismissive of anyone who thinks I’m beneath them. That transcends gender. Someone who doesn’t respect me as an equal doesn’t deserve my regard or analysis. In fact, I would encourage people to never entertain those who view you like that in a serious way. There’s not a lot to talk about if a common baseline of mutual respect can’t be established.
The destruction of the feminine divine in Western culture and its replacement with homosexual religious cults (men worshiping only male deities) that have been perverted into male-oriented rule is an open secret amongst a lot of evolutionary biologists, and historians, and anthropologists in spite of what people have been led to believe but I’m not gonna get into that b/c we not ready.Relationships are built on chance, coincidence, proximity like you said. Meaning that a man can say all he likes is short women and next thing you know he with a tall women.
That's what happened with me. Always been attracted to short chics and then wound up getting with a tall woman, who is almost as tall as me.
We saw that Kevin dont even follow Kevin's rules after all that talk about not getting with single mothers and then when he thought that Sixthegoddis was interested, he threw that rule out the window. Why? Cause he was attracted to her.
Rules mean nothing and that goes for either gender.
I've never paid attention to the rules that women spout. My woman said she thought she was gonna get with a 6 ft tall light skinned dude but I'm 5'8 dark chocolate. So there goes that rule huh?
