Ight I'm learning now... Being a Nice Guy is no way to Win

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

I just gave up. On women. On love. On everything...except money.

I'd rather focus on financial security. Everything and everyone else isn't worth the headache. I'm sick and tired of playing games only to lose.

Fuck love I'm tired of trying. My heart big, but it beat quiet.

 

[Lo-Co]

im not good with the game. honestly. as i look back in disgust, i was the overly romantic type. i was happy doing it. but fell flat on my face because i didn't know what i was doing.. i wasn't a "nice guy" persay. i liked being friendly to everyone. but people took advantage of that. im near my wits end when it comes to dating. so i just focused on myself. i know i can probably date one day. but id be fine if i was single for the next decade.

 

[Nighthawk]

If shes giving u mixed signals its cuz the other breh shes talking to is doing something better than u at the moment. Wait your turn; These ho's are for everyone. As long as u play it cool she'll come back around

 

[Nighthawk]

And another the thing, the problem with u nice guys is yall overthink too much. Stop thinking about what ur gonna do and how to act in the presence of the bytch and just go with the flow. spontaneity is key

 

[Nomadum]

And another the thing, the problem with u nice guys is yall overthink too much. Stop thinking about what ur gonna do and how to act in the presence of the bytch and just go with the flow. spontaneity is key

Definitely do.

 

[jking23258]

I just gave up. On women. On love. On everything...except money.

I'd rather focus on financial security. Everything and everyone else isn't worth the headache. I'm sick and tired of playing games only to lose.

I feel the same way breh I'm like whats the point of dealing with flaky women period

 

[Allergic2Latex]

Talked to a homie today to tell him about the shortie I told y'all about. explaining how she be sending mix signals with the whole she seem interested 1 day next day she on some cold shyt. my homie said some shyt that make me go ....... my homie said "You be trying to solve women like Math problems. you too nice and you over think shyt. just focusing on one will have you thinking she on some shyt"



And real talk, I've noticed in the past that being an a$$hole always work. chicks would stay on me, but the minute I go Mr.Gentleman and shyt and all of a sudden I get that instant friendzone treatment like "Oh yyyeeaa?". so now I know what I have to do

Got to pretend to be an a$$hole until I get in.

women like high level math breh's, only Asian's understand them easily

You just realized this now?

 

[Still Benefited]

You nikkas ever think you fukkin with the wrong broad?
Continue being nice if ur nice. She don't respond then leave the bytch alone

Simple mathematics

You can fake to get her for a minute maybe but if you this stuck already I don't think you need to get the puzzy breh...More false hope is not what you need right now....I would tell you to fake your heart out if it didn't sound like it was gon be bad for you in the long run

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

I'm a Gentlemen's a$$hole

Same

I call my self the Kindest a$$hole in the world

 

[4North1Side2]

Talked to a homie today to tell him about the shortie I told y'all about. explaining how she be sending mix signals with the whole she seem interested 1 day next day she on some cold shyt. my homie said some shyt that make me go ....... my homie said "You be trying to solve women like Math problems. you too nice and you over think shyt. just focusing on one will have you thinking she on some shyt"



And real talk, I've noticed in the past that being an a$$hole always work. chicks would stay on me, but the minute I go Mr.Gentleman and shyt and all of a sudden I get that instant friendzone treatment like "Oh yyyeeaa?". so now I know what I have to do

Got to pretend to be an a$$hole until I get in.

women like high level math breh's, only Asian's understand them easily

Women are quite easy to understand, your just inexperienced like alot of dudes are.

Mixed signals are bad signals, your just wasting your time and sanity.

It seems that every dude these days likens themselves as "a$$holes", but in reality alot of these dudes are insecure males trying to make up in areas they severely lack. Don't be them, your much better than that..

Focus on yourself and continue to better yourself in every facet of life and you will find getting women becomes easy.

Constantly read up on everything so you atleast have an idea of pretty much everything that way you was always have something to talk about or contribute to an conversation.

Appreciate yourself.

Have an sense of humor and laugh at yourself.

Don't let anyone walk over you. Nice guys do finish first but spineless guys do not finish at all.

Eat healthy and work out enough where a women can instantly tell that you work out no matter what type of clothes you have on.

Wear clothes that compliment your body type. Not too baggy but not too tight.

Learn that you are just as much as a prize as these women think they are.

If a woman isn't cooperating with you, drop her immediately and go ghost with no explanation. (one word replies, long periods of getting back to your call/text, flaking out on dates etc)

It's really that simple.

 

[Anti-Anime]

Quite possibly one one of the worst analogies I've ever read

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Women like confidence. We can smell a self conscious man a mile away. It's not about being mean or nice. You can be anyway you want as long you have confidence; which means having standards and checking people when they come at you side ways. Don't allow people to disrespect you or your time. Women go wild for it b/c so few men have it.

 

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

Masking who you are will not get you the woman you need. Most guys aren't worth dealing with so it'll be best if you separate yourself from the wolves.


Do you genuinely feel like this or is this just a coping mechanism?

I honestly genuinely feel this way.

I've never had that much success with women...or people in general. 30 years old and never had anything close to a serious girlfriend. I'm just not that type. I get mad when I see happy couples or couples in general cause I know that will never be me. This country's not for me. I hate the way the people are. And the fact that I got to be one of "those" people to even succeed at things like general happiness, relationships, whatever. Like I only know how to be me and it seems most people don't like that. Sometimes I wish I was never born here or alive in general. This existence of constant loneliness is hellish...but the only thing I know. So I embrace it. It makes me a stronger person.

I just don't care anymore.

 

[50CentStan]

You supposed to slap a chick the first time you meet her, so then in the future she never gonna say "you dont treat me like you used toooooo"

 

[beanz]

im nice and i won