Only issue I have here is that she’s embracing traditional values of her culture and family but doesn’t want to abide by the other side which would call for her father to arrange a marriage on her behalf.
Seems to me that you can’t “halfway” through customs and cultural traditions and complain when you only get half results. I don’t think anyone with a brain would deny her her rights to her own virginity and wanting to wait for marriage. But its 2022, she’s 35 living in AMERICA where sex is as casual as brunch and she thinks she’s going to find someone OUTSIDE of her culture whose going to wait? shyt don’t work like that.
Also she should have done a better job explaining what made the men she dated “jerks” because the examples she gave sounded like men simply and politely exercising THEIR rights than jerks. One dude even told her he straight up wasn’t what she was looking for and bounced. He didn’t lie or sell her a dream he kept it real. Thats not a jerk thats an honest and respectful individual.