All people love attention to varying degrees. However the higher you've been placed on a pedastal, the more attention and validation u need to maintain mental stability. Basically the attention u get has to match the social value you've been given in ur head. If it doesn't then u have to face urself and it's not so pretty.
What this means for white women is that they will go to great lengths to attain attention. Racism, passive-aggression, outright aggression and then playing victim, false allegations of sexual harrassment/assault, lies period, adopting blk babies, hating on non-blk women, relishing in c00ns worshiping them, then calling c00ns out for more attention as a conscious white female, cultural appropriation...I mean the list goes on and on.
What it means for you is that every interaction is analyzed by them subconsciously as an opportunity to get attention. I've seen white women turn something as simple as a black man opening the door for them into him allegedly desiring her or watching her. I've seen white chicks literally put themselves in precarious positions just so they can have a #metoo story.
So u need to remain cordial but distant even to the ones who seems "mad cool" and "totally isn't like that". When gossip comes, be as positive as possible and try to record conversations.
Them: "I hate how condescending he is."
You: "Gee I never noticed!" (Leave!)
Never share ideas and keep all details of personal life private. If u have to go to business outings, always drive ur own car, never get drunk, always have an early escape excuse. Don't discuss politics and if u do, record the conversation.