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Alright Op I'm 30+ black male and I have had my fair share of up and downs in the game . I hope this helps. I know the coli at times is a cesspool but I'm give some advice. What you do with it is up to you.
1. BODY GAME : Hit the weight room if you don't already. Women like a man that is health and in shape. I will go as far as to say that it add a half a point or two to your looks . Clean up your diet the older you get it gets harder. I don't know what age you are but start right now. Take Michael B Jordan it's a reason why women go see Creed . Not matter how you may feel about Michael B Jordan you can't say the nikka isn't in shape. Women like a man that is in shape . PERIOD . You should want to be health anyway .
2. LOOK IN THE MIRROR: A lot of men's problems can be solved by being honest with themselves. I'm talk about myself for a bit. I like to make a women laught so I watch a ton of stand up comedy and I have a good crude sense of humor. What I'm not good at is the charisma game. Thats because I'm such a introvert. I'm type of nikka that I don't like people but I want the best for everybody. That mean I need to get out my comfort zone and just talk to more people. Address what your weakness and be honest about them. Take accountable and responsibility as a man cause you not going to meet too women that do .
3. APPROACH: Approach women this is what helps strength your mouthpiece. You will get over your approach anxiety. Listen to women learn HOW to listen . Remember the best way to have a great conversation is building a a great life it will give a ton to talk about. I have two threads I want to get off one of those threads is approaching a 100 women and post it journal style in the "lil gems dealing with women threads". Don't be scared to approach and take your lumps its apart of the game.
4. MENTORS/MALE FRIENDS : If you don't already get you some male friends that will hold you accountable and you talk to about what you going threw as a man. Find guys that are doing good in life and seem like they don't put up with much shyt. Find some that will help pick you up when you down.
Find you a mentor and don't be scared to ask to be mentored. I will get into my mentors later but the one is Titus unlimited I have a conference with him next month. Get around some positive and great men.
5: WOMEN'S NATURE : First understand that women go threw things and as you develop as a man you'll know when to have empathy and when to call a women out on her bullshyt. When you learn and study women's nature you'll learn to take your ego out of dealing with women. Ego for most men is the weakness cause they dont know how to you use it and harness it like a should . The nature of a women is deep especially when you hear them talk about sex....oh boy. Its a thing called a sexual underworld you'll stumble upon this the longer you stay in the game. I'll leave it at that. Women nature can and will blow you away.
6. FASHION: Step your fashion game up. This will add half a point to your looks. I plan on hooking back up my stylist. O have been fortunate enough that my uncle was an ex pimp and was raised around women. I started reading GQ when I was 15. Fix your style and it helps a lot like when you have different styles it helps you move in many different worlds. A man's style is very underrated. Don't sleep on it style game.
7: BUILD YOUR WORLD : What type man do you want to be? What do you stand for ? What type of legacy do you want leave behind ? What is your dream car? What does your dream house look like ? Were do you want live when it's all said and done ? What type of women you want in your life ? So you want to be married one day ? Are you an open relationship type ? Or are you into polygamist or polygamy ? What type of money are you aiming to make ? Figure YOUR world out you and will answer many question about yourself. Things will just fall into place.
My YouTube mentors: Rom wills I'm in his secret group I talk to him a lot.
ARC (Allen Rodger Curry) Mr Mode one I'll leave it at this.
BGS is the conscience he know a lot about OUR black people . He has manly principles that are spiritual in nature.
ATHLEAN-X - He lifts weight with knowledge and wisdom. You'll like him he is the best to me on YouTube when it comes lifting weights.
Kevin Samuels: is the style guy for us brothers style is underrated like I said said style game is underrated .
StephisCold: is for young dudes you'll le him
Hopefully this helps man. Remember when you get to a point in the game were you comfortable share some wisdom with brothers that need it . It helps that means it is less nikkas hating and cock blocking or dirty macking.
Don't be scared of black women yeah it can be warlike dealing with them but it's some cool sisters out here. Funny thing is if you get good at dealing with black woman ....other races of women is easy to talk to and deal with. In my experience.
BOUNS: A beautiful sister that I love to listen to is
Kendra D:
1. BODY GAME : Hit the weight room if you don't already. Women like a man that is health and in shape. I will go as far as to say that it add a half a point or two to your looks . Clean up your diet the older you get it gets harder. I don't know what age you are but start right now. Take Michael B Jordan it's a reason why women go see Creed . Not matter how you may feel about Michael B Jordan you can't say the nikka isn't in shape. Women like a man that is in shape . PERIOD . You should want to be health anyway .
2. LOOK IN THE MIRROR: A lot of men's problems can be solved by being honest with themselves. I'm talk about myself for a bit. I like to make a women laught so I watch a ton of stand up comedy and I have a good crude sense of humor. What I'm not good at is the charisma game. Thats because I'm such a introvert. I'm type of nikka that I don't like people but I want the best for everybody. That mean I need to get out my comfort zone and just talk to more people. Address what your weakness and be honest about them. Take accountable and responsibility as a man cause you not going to meet too women that do .
3. APPROACH: Approach women this is what helps strength your mouthpiece. You will get over your approach anxiety. Listen to women learn HOW to listen . Remember the best way to have a great conversation is building a a great life it will give a ton to talk about. I have two threads I want to get off one of those threads is approaching a 100 women and post it journal style in the "lil gems dealing with women threads". Don't be scared to approach and take your lumps its apart of the game.
4. MENTORS/MALE FRIENDS : If you don't already get you some male friends that will hold you accountable and you talk to about what you going threw as a man. Find guys that are doing good in life and seem like they don't put up with much shyt. Find some that will help pick you up when you down.
Find you a mentor and don't be scared to ask to be mentored. I will get into my mentors later but the one is Titus unlimited I have a conference with him next month. Get around some positive and great men.
5: WOMEN'S NATURE : First understand that women go threw things and as you develop as a man you'll know when to have empathy and when to call a women out on her bullshyt. When you learn and study women's nature you'll learn to take your ego out of dealing with women. Ego for most men is the weakness cause they dont know how to you use it and harness it like a should . The nature of a women is deep especially when you hear them talk about sex....oh boy. Its a thing called a sexual underworld you'll stumble upon this the longer you stay in the game. I'll leave it at that. Women nature can and will blow you away.
6. FASHION: Step your fashion game up. This will add half a point to your looks. I plan on hooking back up my stylist. O have been fortunate enough that my uncle was an ex pimp and was raised around women. I started reading GQ when I was 15. Fix your style and it helps a lot like when you have different styles it helps you move in many different worlds. A man's style is very underrated. Don't sleep on it style game.
7: BUILD YOUR WORLD : What type man do you want to be? What do you stand for ? What type of legacy do you want leave behind ? What is your dream car? What does your dream house look like ? Were do you want live when it's all said and done ? What type of women you want in your life ? So you want to be married one day ? Are you an open relationship type ? Or are you into polygamist or polygamy ? What type of money are you aiming to make ? Figure YOUR world out you and will answer many question about yourself. Things will just fall into place.
My YouTube mentors: Rom wills I'm in his secret group I talk to him a lot.
ARC (Allen Rodger Curry) Mr Mode one I'll leave it at this.
BGS is the conscience he know a lot about OUR black people . He has manly principles that are spiritual in nature.
ATHLEAN-X - He lifts weight with knowledge and wisdom. You'll like him he is the best to me on YouTube when it comes lifting weights.
Kevin Samuels: is the style guy for us brothers style is underrated like I said said style game is underrated .
StephisCold: is for young dudes you'll le him
Hopefully this helps man. Remember when you get to a point in the game were you comfortable share some wisdom with brothers that need it . It helps that means it is less nikkas hating and cock blocking or dirty macking.
Don't be scared of black women yeah it can be warlike dealing with them but it's some cool sisters out here. Funny thing is if you get good at dealing with black woman ....other races of women is easy to talk to and deal with. In my experience.
BOUNS: A beautiful sister that I love to listen to is
Kendra D:
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