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Youseenmywork said:
Alright Op I'm 30+ black male and I have had my fair share of up and downs in the game . I hope this helps. I know the coli at times is a cesspool but I'm give some advice. What you do with it is up to you.

1. BODY GAME : Hit the weight room if you don't already. Women like that is health and in shape. I will go as far as to say that it add a half a point or two to your looks . Clean up your diet the older you get it gets harder. I don't know what age you are but start right now.

2. LOOK IN THE MIRROR: A lot of men's problems can be solved by being honest with themselves. I'm talk about myself for a bit. I like to make a women laught so I watch a ton of stand up comedy and I have a good crude sense of humor. What I'm not good at is the charisma game. Thats because I'm such a introvert. I'm type of nikka that I don't like people but I want the best for everybody. That mean I need to get out my comfort zone and just talk to more people. Address what your weakness and be honest about them. Take accountable and responsibility as a man cause you not going to meet too women that do .

3. APPROACH: Approach women this is what helps strength your mouthpiece. You will get over your approach anxiety. Listen to women learn HOW to listen . Remember the best way to have a great conversation is building a a great life it will give a ton to talk about. I have two threads I want to get off one of those threads is approaching a 100 women and post it journal style in the "lil gems dealing with women threads". Don't be scared to approach and take your lumps its apart of the game.

4. MENTORS/MALE FRIENDS : If you don't already get you some male friends that will hold you accountable and you talk to about what you going threw as a man. Find guys that are doing good in life and seem like they don't put up with much shyt. Find some that will help pick you up when you down.





Find you a mentor and don't be scared to ask to be mentored. I will get into my mentors later but the one is Titus unlimited I have a conference with him next month. Get around some positive and great men.

5: WOMEN'S NATURE : First understand that women go threw things and as you develop as a man you'll know when to have empathy and when to call a women out on her bullshyt. When you learn and study women's nature you'll learn to take your ego out of dealing with women. Ego for most men is the weakness cause they dont know how to you use it and harness it like a should . The nature of a women is deep especially when you hear them talk about sex....oh boy. Its a thing called a sexual underworld you'll stumble upon this the longer you stay in the game. I'll leave it at that. Women nature can and will blow you away.

6. FASHION: Step your fashion game up. This will add half a point to your looks. I plan on hooking back up my stylist. O have been fortunate enough that my uncle was an ex pimp and was raised around women. I started reading GQ when I was 15. Fix your style and it helps a lot like when you have different styles it helps you move in many different worlds. A man's style is very underrated. Don't sleep on it style game.

7: BUILD YOUR WORLD : What type man do you want to be? What do you stand for ? What type of legacy do you want leave behind ? What is your dream car? What does your dream house look like ? Were do you want live when it's all said and done ? What type of women you want in your life ? So you want to be married one day ? Are you an open relationship type ? Or are you into polygamist or polygamy ? What type of money are you aiming to make ? Figure YOUR world out you and will answer many question about yourself. Things will just fall into place.

My YouTube mentors: Rom wills I'm in his secret group I talk to him a lot.


ARC (Allen Rodger Curry) Mr Mode one I'll leave it at this.



BGS is the conscience he know a lot about OUR black people . He has manly principles that are spiritual in nature.


ATHLEAN-X - He lifts weight with knowledge and wisdom. You'll like him he is the best to me on YouTube when it comes lifting weights.


Kevin Samuels: is the style guy for us brothers style is underrated like I said said style game is underrated .

StephisCold: is for young dudes you'll le him


Hopefully this helps man. Remember when you get to a point in the game were you comfortable share some wisdom with brothers that need it . It helps that means it is less nikkas hating and cock blocking or dirty macking.

Don't be scared of black women yeah it can be warlike dealing with them but it's some cool sisters out here. Funny thing is if you get good at dealing with black woman ....other races of women is easy to talk to and deal with. In my experience.

BOUNS: A beautiful sister that I love to listen to is

Kendra D:
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Damn this might be one of the most well put together post I have seen here. I don't need the game but for the cats lacking! :salute:



Also that quote about

"Build a team so strong that they don't know who the leader is" considered that quote stole!

Dapped and repped for the cats that need it!
 
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Meh said:
Tonight's results:

1 number(she lives in another state and has 4 kids). And she gave her number to other dudes.

2 dances

Curved 13 out of 15 times. Self esteem shot.

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Check Websites like Meetup.com sites to find people (women) or black women with similar interests or on professional organizations,anime, spiritual,yoga groups, political, non profit etc.

You don't need to have the intentions or pressure to "date" rather just "Network" . Why created pressure. Joining a group with the same interest hobby will alleviate that awkward feeling because you all are connected immediately based on interests,hobbies.

PLUS it's more fun exploring different interest groups building your own tribe of folks.


DO NOT BOTHER TALKING TO HOODRATS not worth the headache. DO NOT LOWER YOUR STANDARDS OR DUMB YOURSELF DOWN TO ANY OF THESE CHICKS

YOU ARE YOUNG SO DON'T COMPROMISE IF A CHICK LIKES YOU BUT SHE HAS TONS OF BAGGAGE.

TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU BEING YOUNG AND SINGLE TO GET YOUR CAREER PURSUITS GOING FOR YOURSELF ALSO

Also do some travelling outside your city....
Youseenmywork has some great points too.
 
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Coco Loco said:
He's handsome.


OP it's just your confidence. You are attractive so that's a huge plus. Make sure you don't have body odor, are well groomed and don't say anything corny. Just be yourself. If they don't like you being yourself, fukk them.

Don't over think it. It'll show. An edible gummy or two might help you relax lol
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:deadmanny: :laff::laff:
 
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old_timer said:
it can be ruffruff,, brehbreh

:lupe: a black woman is like that movie Aliens
she smiles ,, giggling to put you at ease
just when you start to appreciate her company :ehh:
BAM!!! :krs:a reptilian head busts out of her chest
and then you're busy struggling to survive:whoa:
plotting out a course to escape back to the mothership
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This thread is absolutely fukking hilarious :laff:
 
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Youseenmywork said:
Alright Op I'm 30+ black male and I have had my fair share of up and downs in the game . I hope this helps. I know the coli at times is a cesspool but I'm give some advice. What you do with it is up to you.

1. BODY GAME : Hit the weight room if you don't already. Women like that is health and in shape. I will go as far as to say that it add a half a point or two to your looks . Clean up your diet the older you get it gets harder. I don't know what age you are but start right now.

2. LOOK IN THE MIRROR: A lot of men's problems can be solved by being honest with themselves. I'm talk about myself for a bit. I like to make a women laught so I watch a ton of stand up comedy and I have a good crude sense of humor. What I'm not good at is the charisma game. Thats because I'm such a introvert. I'm type of nikka that I don't like people but I want the best for everybody. That mean I need to get out my comfort zone and just talk to more people. Address what your weakness and be honest about them. Take accountable and responsibility as a man cause you not going to meet too women that do .

3. APPROACH: Approach women this is what helps strength your mouthpiece. You will get over your approach anxiety. Listen to women learn HOW to listen . Remember the best way to have a great conversation is building a a great life it will give a ton to talk about. I have two threads I want to get off one of those threads is approaching a 100 women and post it journal style in the "lil gems dealing with women threads". Don't be scared to approach and take your lumps its apart of the game.

4. MENTORS/MALE FRIENDS : If you don't already get you some male friends that will hold you accountable and you talk to about what you going threw as a man. Find guys that are doing good in life and seem like they don't put up with much shyt. Find some that will help pick you up when you down.





Find you a mentor and don't be scared to ask to be mentored. I will get into my mentors later but the one is Titus unlimited I have a conference with him next month. Get around some positive and great men.

5: WOMEN'S NATURE : First understand that women go threw things and as you develop as a man you'll know when to have empathy and when to call a women out on her bullshyt. When you learn and study women's nature you'll learn to take your ego out of dealing with women. Ego for most men is the weakness cause they dont know how to you use it and harness it like a should . The nature of a women is deep especially when you hear them talk about sex....oh boy. Its a thing called a sexual underworld you'll stumble upon this the longer you stay in the game. I'll leave it at that. Women nature can and will blow you away.

6. FASHION: Step your fashion game up. This will add half a point to your looks. I plan on hooking back up my stylist. O have been fortunate enough that my uncle was an ex pimp and was raised around women. I started reading GQ when I was 15. Fix your style and it helps a lot like when you have different styles it helps you move in many different worlds. A man's style is very underrated. Don't sleep on it style game.

7: BUILD YOUR WORLD : What type man do you want to be? What do you stand for ? What type of legacy do you want leave behind ? What is your dream car? What does your dream house look like ? Were do you want live when it's all said and done ? What type of women you want in your life ? So you want to be married one day ? Are you an open relationship type ? Or are you into polygamist or polygamy ? What type of money are you aiming to make ? Figure YOUR world out you and will answer many question about yourself. Things will just fall into place.

My YouTube mentors: Rom wills I'm in his secret group I talk to him a lot.


ARC (Allen Rodger Curry) Mr Mode one I'll leave it at this.



BGS is the conscience he know a lot about OUR black people . He has manly principles that are spiritual in nature.


ATHLEAN-X - He lifts weight with knowledge and wisdom. You'll like him he is the best to me on YouTube when it comes lifting weights.


Kevin Samuels: is the style guy for us brothers style is underrated like I said said style game is underrated .

StephisCold: is for young dudes you'll le him


Hopefully this helps man. Remember when you get to a point in the game were you comfortable share some wisdom with brothers that need it . It helps that means it is less nikkas hating and cock blocking or dirty macking.

Don't be scared of black women yeah it can be warlike dealing with them but it's some cool sisters out here. Funny thing is if you get good at dealing with black woman ....other races of women is easy to talk to and deal with. In my experience.

BOUNS: A beautiful sister that I love to listen to is

Kendra D:
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How you forget AMS??

:mindblown:

#FTHTS
 
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I prolly know her. She prolly wants white men or non Haitian men. And I love my ADOS women.

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I guarantee you don’t know her. She only been here in Charlotte for 6 months, moved here from philly. She’s beautiful. She’s never dated a wm before. I don’t know how she feels about Haitian men, but she likes African brehs, Jamaican brehs, Afam brehs, so she’d probably fukk with you too. I actually know a few brehettes that I could match you with out in this area. :smugbiden:
 
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Pressure said:
He in Charlotte? He might as well get his pawg on. :russ:

black women in Charlotte are approachable from my experience. shyt most of the time they just come up to me.

I'm not a good wingman though. I'm greedy. Plus I got a son, so they know my genes are great. :shaq:
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Your pawgset too?! Should of known lol.



That’s cold that you would be greedy in this dire situation. You already eatin help this breh out. Your not in a drought, plus you fukk with pawgs, he wants bw.

So you showing hoes pics of your son that’s how you moving out here?

:ld:

That shyt does work.

:lupe: I bet I’ve seen you around before.
 
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CarmelBarbie said:
Edibles aren’t good for people with anxiety, actually marijuana in general can sometimes make anxiety worse. I know a few brehs that had to stop for that reason. Hell edibles made me so fukking paranoid I had to go to the hospital. Granted I ate too much but idk if he should take them.
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Agree with this.
please dont recommend op drugs people.
you dont wanna go down that road at all
 
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