I'm terrified of BW.

[HarlemHottie]

@Meh, I think you look better than that mugshot guy. nikka look like a alien.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Tonight's results:

1 number(she lives in another state and has 4 kids). And she gave her number to other dudes.

2 dances

Curved 13 out of 15 times. Self esteem shot.

Sheesh


Damn. I’m sorry... can’t imagine that. Where did you go to approach women though, and what kind were you approaching?

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

You are either a troll or care way too much. It's not that serious

 

[Pressure]

That’s cold that you would be greedy in this dire situation. You already eatin help this breh out. Your not in a drought, plus you fukk with pawgs, he wants bw.

I fukk with all women.

So you showing hoes pics of your son that’s how you moving out here?

He's in my Facebook profile picture. I love my son. :Melowhat:

That shyt does work.

It does shift the conversation
:Perdwerd:

I bet I’ve seen you around before.

I'm not out in the streets as much these days, but there's a good chance. :Bigwow3:

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Check Websites like Meetup.com sites to find people (women) or black women with similar interests or on professional organizations,anime, spiritual,yoga groups, political, non profit etc.

You don't need to have the intentions or pressure to "date" rather just "Network" . Why created pressure. Joining a group with the same interest hobby will alleviate that awkward feeling because you all are connected immediately based on interests,hobbies.

PLUS it's more fun exploring different interest groups building your own tribe of folks.


DO NOT BOTHER TALKING TO HOODRATS not worth the headache. DO NOT LOWER YOUR STANDARDS OR DUMB YOURSELF DOWN TO ANY OF THESE CHICKS

YOU ARE YOUNG SO DON'T COMPROMISE IF A CHICK LIKES YOU BUT SHE HAS TONS OF BAGGAGE.

TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU BEING YOUNG AND SINGLE TO GET YOUR CAREER PURSUITS GOING FOR YOURSELF ALSO

Also do some travelling outside your city....
Youseenmywork has some great points too.

Good advice. Don’t join Charlotte singles on meetup though. I have a few friends that were in that specific one and got stories of STDs being passed around and ratchet hood behaviors.

I used to be on meetup, brehs would hit me up, and send me messages like it was a dating site. Whatever you do, don’t do that op. It’s mad thirsty lol

Can you date someone at work? That’s what I’ve been on lol... Every company has different policies though.

 

[Balla]

Man up and have some cajones.

Got me fukkin rollin

 

[Pressure]

Sheesh


Damn. I’m sorry... can’t imagine that. Where did you go to approach women though, and what kind were you approaching?

Sound like Breh in the club in his 30s trying to pull up on these youngings.

As we age we gotta adapt. :camumm:

 

[CarmelBarbie]

I fukk with all women.


He's in my Facebook profile picture. I love my son. :Melowhat:



It does shift the conversation
:Perdwerd:


I'm not out in the streets as much these days, but there's a good chance. :Bigwow3:

You fukk with all women? Says every defensive breh I know that mostly fukks pawgs.

I love my son too, relax. Me and you need to have play date.

you would’ve approached like others have, if you really had seen me and my girls though. So on second thought, probably not.

But go on and take @Meh out next time your out breh. Show him how it’s done.

 

[intruder]

I can't talk to them unless I'm tipsy or drunk in a social setting like a club. Otherwise I can't even have daily convo with them without internal anxiety. The internet don't count. Other races of women? They don't scare me, because I'm not attracted to them like that. So I don't really seek the validation of other races of women. But I care too much about BW opinions of me. I'm doomed to be alone forever....

When i first moved to the U.S. i used to be intimidated by them (AA women) even tho i was interested in them. Their rep and brashness can make a young breh feel some type of way when you first come across black american women. But once you get used to them they are a lot like jamaican women: Seem confident and talk mad shyt but but once you get past all the fronting they're nice and sweet women.

First one i fukked with was one from Oregon names Shantae who had just moved to Miami. I was 21 and she was 24 and we worked together. Finally went out together and ended up fukking on the first date.
Then i met Trina and that woman shook my world.
Again Shante was nice and sweet from the go but Trina comes across as the stereotypical black american woman. But again once you get though all them layers of "fronting" they put up as their defense mechanism, she was a nice sweet young woman but just talks mad shyt. We never really "dated" like that but spent a lot of time together and were fukking damn near every day. I been hooked on AA women since to the point where i seldom dated my own kind (Haitian women)
I miss her
We recently found each other again on FB and been talking. I went to Miami last month and was trying to link up but she cancelled at the last minute.

 

[Mindfield333]

I just want to leave these here

Ww like that are rare ad not even worth mentioning. Op has the right idea

 

[Hiphoplives4eva]

Tonight's results:

1 number(she lives in another state and has 4 kids). And she gave her number to other dudes.

2 dances

Curved 13 out of 15 times. Self esteem shot.

nikka get the fukk outta here. How are you 30 and still acting like this? I sympathized with you because i assumed you were in high school. I was similarly shy in high school and got real nervous around women. If you're still this weak, work on yourself FIRST.

Get off the coli and go work out. Join a fighting group. Get your testosterone levels up.

Or you might be gay? Perhaps bussy may be your style?

Either way, shyness can't be the reason a 30 year old man is still acting awkward around women. something your not telling us.

 

[Mindfield333]

@Bryan Danielson @Pressure @alexander. @Tribal Outkast @Mindfield333

Any of you good at being a wingman? @Meh is a Charlotte breh. Go out with him, coach him, etc.

Man I really don’t even go out like that unless I have a very specific aim ... I try to be efficient with my time these days but I wish I could help the OP out. I’m passing out pink slips myself... starting to draft now tho.

 

[Calmye]

Any negative perception that any BW has of me is crippling.



Why am I like this?

This is me

 

[Mindfield333]

nikka get the fukk outta here. How are you 30 and still acting like this? I sympathized with you because i assumed you were in high school. I was similarly shy in high school and got real nervous around women. If you're still this weak, work on yourself FIRST.

Get off the coli and go work out. Join a fighting group. Get your testosterone levels up.

Or you might be gay? Perhaps bussy may be your style?

Either way, shyness can't be the reason a 30 year old man is still acting awkward around women. something your not telling us.

Y’all gotta stop this lmao

 

[AAKing23]

Shouldn't have posted this here nikkas just gonna clown you and give you generic ass advice


"You just gotta man up"

"You just gotta approach"

"You gotta work out and get a haircut"