Damn no kiss! U better looking than me. You need therapySome of the things I've gone through and my own psychosis is so comical, that I can admit anything zaney and get away with it because ppl think I'm just trolling. And not anything crazy or illegal or dangerous, but silly things like having not kissed a girl, or never having gone on dates. When I say these things in the coli or IRL everyone thinks I'm trolling. But it's all so comically true.
To be fair. Me and a breh I was dating at a time ate the entire brownie, and when I say brownie I mean 12 servings between the two of us. Plus I drank a whole bottle of wine. I kept eating them because I didn’t know at the time that the high doesn’t happen right away. When that shyt hit, I was dead breh. I was tweaking the fukk out. Hearing shyt, seeing shyt that wasn’t there, every other minute going in and out of reality, even voices sounded weird, my heart was racing. I took three cold showers to snap out of it but anyone who’s taken edible will tell you it’s a high that lasts. The breh I was with, was fine. No reaction. Breh been smoking weed like a true pot head for years. I told him to take me to the hospital, he threatened to dump me over it because I had been taken to that same hospital for drinking too much in the past, had a bad record at the hospital for overnight stays.
He was over it. Anyway the nurses were low key clowning me the whole time I was there. The high lasted, i was in a paranoid tweaking state for damn near 24 hours. It was the worst.
I haven’t touched weed since.
Biscayne
Ocean air
I was approaching average looking women. I wasn't shooting outside my league. I love the average everyday black woman. The type of BW I'm attracted too is extremely varied. Evem the woman with for kids was a beautiful woman. But she looked like your average auntie. I'm not one who tries to approach IG models and women waaaay outta my league.
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black women have always been nice to me even some ratchets.
its ur approach
shows most of yall not black nor never been around black women
Cel 510 kid ados forever
Veteran
Disagree... I grew up in all black areas like 90% and I could understand why some black brehs are terrified of bw dating wise.
Plenty of black women usually from shytty backgrounds will roast you, clown you, give you the stank face and make it KNOWN they are talking about you. Hell they do it to each other.
bytches from other races- just hide it better
That only hurts when you come at them sincerely,why would you ever approach a strange woman sincerely?
Biscayne
Ocean air
Interestingly enough, I do all 3. Workout, keep a fade, and I stay approaching. And stay getting curved. BW just don't F with me..Shouldn't have posted this here nikkas just gonna clown you and give you generic ass advice
"You just gotta man up"
"You just gotta approach"
"You gotta work out and get a haircut"
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Interestingly enough, I do all 3. Workout, keep a fade, and I stay approaching. And stay getting curved. BW just don't F with me..
Damn I’m sorry... I hate when brehs say this about Bw, it’s hard to offer advice too because I’m not a man, so I’m not sure what the problem is. What’s your type? I know you said average, but just curious.
Worthless Loser
Blackpilled
Well that's a problem. Black women are height freaks. Might have to suck it up and change your interest to Dominican or Puerto Rican chicks.Nah breh, far from 6ft. I'm 5'7. About 5'8 in Timbs.
I am a gym dude tho.
I don't think there's an easiest race to approach in that circumstance.
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A1aaa
Respectful Fade Runner & Card Puller
if you were 18-21, I'd chalk it up to being a late bloomer. At 30, this is unacceptable.It might be helpful to step away from thecoli for a while and have some introspection on life as a whole and tangible things you can do to "reset".
The healthiest way to develop normal relationships with people is to just get out there and live. By using this forum/internet as a crutch for social interaction, where many people propagate borderline caricature views on the world and women, you may be internalizing and projecting that negatively.
I'd also say, be with who likes you for you and call it a day if she has the qualities you want. Black men already have the burden of the world on our shoulders more than any other group. Feeling shamed to date a girl based on coli-esque criteria is possibly why you're in this predicament.
Also, it would probably be in your best interest to get therapy. Good luck.
You don’t like bw do you.