People in here claiming black women are the nicest to approach and easiest to start a conservation with? They (the non ratchets) are just as rude as every other race. No need for the fake black pride. That's not a knock on black women. It's just how women are in general.
I can see why the OP has an issue, but you shouldn't care what anyone thinks of you. It causes you to behave in a way that impresses other people who don't give a shyt about you. When you care what other people think of you, you become a slave to an image, a slave to an expectation, a slave to a personality. None of which truly represents you.