I'm terrified of BW.

[How Sway?]

It's not trolling. It's so comically sad and unusual and against type of what is usually posted on here, that there's no way it couldn't come across as trolling.

bw can be harsh. They wont hesitate to call you out or tell you about yourself esp if shes a chick from the hood...

And let's not even get into their deep seated contempt for brothas.( not all but cmon let's be real)

And any sign of 'corniness' or quirkiness is a turnoff to a bw.

Only thing I can tell you is get outside your head, own your personality, and dont try to be something that you're not.

And dont take it too seriously. Women will never admit to it but that scares alot of them off.

And if all that fails then you need to just come to the other side my friend

 

[iBrowse]

I guarantee if you tried to talk to a chick off an edible (don't eat too goddamn much lol) you'll see how easy it is and how much mental clarity you'll have. Also, don't put them on a petal stool. They're human just like you. They're also probably a little nervous too.

If you do build up the confidence and get shot down, DO NOT LET IT DISCOURAGE YOU! Try again.

Fixed :lefrancis:and don’t get @Meh to be dependent on substances for confidence. He still needs impulse control.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Oh @Meh is 5ft7? I think I’ve found the issue. Women in general are fussy over height but (in my experience) Black women are super duper particular about dating short men.

Unless you’re rich, extremely good looking or have an outstanding personality, you’ll struggle a lot more with BW being vertically challenged. I know some super simps are gonna swoop down and attack me for besmirching black women, but I’m talking from observation.

Like @Youseenmywork said, work on yourself and be more social. You haven’t even had a girlfriend before. Start off there and hopefully you’ll grow as a person socially.

 

[pickles]

It is kind of sad that some of you are encouraging breh to date white women instead.


I guess white supremacy won for some of y'all.

 

[Coco Loco]

I'm just saying

 

[Balla]

struggle

Oh @Meh is 5ft7? I think I’ve found the issue. Women in general are fussy over height but (in my experience) Black women are super duper particular about dating short men.

Unless you’re rich, extremely good looking or have an outstanding personality, you’ll struggle a lot more with BW being vertically challenged. I know some super simps are gonna swoop down and attack me for besmirching black women, but I’m talking from observation.

Like @Youseenmywork said, work on yourself and be more social. You haven’t even had a girlfriend before. Start off there and hopefully you’ll grow as a person socially.

He never had a gf either? I guess I missed all the details, I wonder why he didn’t date other race women at all.

Anyway, every time I hear that height is an issue I always think back to the short ass dudes I’ve seen dating bw.

Some were hood af and some were soft, but idk I’ve seen real short nikkas do decent.

Just gotta holla at short bw.

 

[Youseenmywork]

I got sooo much to say about black men dating outside the "race" it not even funny . I'm come.back to this shyt later ....

 

[ThrobbingHood]

He never had a gf either? I guess I missed all the details, I wonder why he didn’t date other race women at all.

Anyway, every time I hear that height is an issue I always think back to the short ass dudes I’ve seen dating bw.

Some were hood af and some were soft, but idk I’ve seen real short nikkas do decent.

Just gotta holla at short bw.

The short ones be the worst when it comes to height requirements.

I’m picky when it comes to height too (ideally no shorter than 5ft7) but as a tall breh, I think that’s reasonable. There are women who barely scrape 5ft2 who only want to date brehs 6ft4 and above.

I can understand why because they have a complex about being short themselves and don’t want short kids. Kinda the same with dark skinned color struck men/women who only date those lighter/non-black so their children don’t suffer the same colorism they did.

 

[Rozay Oro]

@Meh you live alone? Have a decent paying job?

 

[Balla]

The short ones be the worst when it comes to height requirements.

I’m picky when it comes to height too (ideally no shorter than 5ft7) but as a tall breh, I think that’s reasonable. There are women who barely scrape 5ft2 who only want to date brehs 6ft4 and above.

I can understand why because they have a complex about being short themselves and don’t want short kids. Kinda the same with dark skinned color struck men/women who only date those lighter/non-black so their children don’t suffer the same colorism they did.

Idk breh, I’ve seen some tiny dudes get chicks man. I see it a lot, maybe they provide money or they have game, but I’ve seen it.

I mean short girls is what short dudes got, don’t no one want any tall bytches lol.

 

[Mtt]

Good advice. Don’t join Charlotte singles on meetup though. I have a few friends that were in that specific one and got stories of STDs being passed around and ratchet hood behaviors.

I used to be on meetup, brehs would hit me up, and send me messages like it was a dating site. Whatever you do, don’t do that op. It’s mad thirsty lol

Can you date someone at work? That’s what I’ve been on lol... Every company has different policies though.

i see what you mean. I was thinking more in line of interests groups within meetup groups not directly for dating. For example, there are black professional organizations, anxiety shy people meet up, startup companies meetup groups, entrepreneur meetup groups, etc........

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Idk breh, I’ve seen some tiny dudes get chicks man. I see it a lot, maybe they provide money or they have game, but I’ve seen it.

I mean short girls is what short dudes got, don’t no one want any tall bytches lol.

I never disputed they did. And as I said, they’re either on the same level economically/physically with that woman, or they’re exceptional in some department.

Now, If we’re talking about women who are 6/10 facially, have decent bodies, good careers and no children... they’re the ones who are going to be fussy. Most women have options regardless of status, but the kind of women I just mentioned will be super fussy.

 

[Bumblebreh]

It is kind of sad that some of you are encouraging breh to date white women instead.


I guess white supremacy won for some of y'all.

natural selection lame brehs go for lame pawgs

 

[Professor Emeritus]

he’s 30

Maybe I can't tell, I'd pegged him at 25-26 max with that posting.

 

[Balla]

I never disputed they did. And as I said, they’re either on the same level economically/physically with that woman, or they’re exceptional in some department.

Now, If we’re talking about women who are 6/10 facially, have decent bodies, good careers and no children... they’re the ones who are going to be fussy. Most women have options regardless of status, but the kind of women I just mentioned will be super fussy.

Damn that’s tuff