I'm terrified of BW.

[ultraflexed]

Did a BW embarrass you in front of a group of people? Or her friends?

Nicca EVERY black Male has went through this at least a few times growing up

 

[Biscayne]

He never had a gf either? I guess I missed all the details, I wonder why he didn’t date other race women at all.

Anyway, every time I hear that height is an issue I always think back to the short ass dudes I’ve seen dating bw.

Some were hood af and some were soft, but idk I’ve seen real short nikkas do decent.

Just gotta holla at short bw.

Short ass midget bw curve me all the same.

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

I guarantee if you tried to talk to a chick off an edible (don't eat too goddamn much lol) you'll see how easy it is and how much mental clarity you'll have. Also, don't put them on a pedestal. They're human just like you. They're also probably a little nervous too.

If you do build up the confidence and get shot down, DO NOT LET IT DISCOURAGE YOU! Try again.

Put me on to this edible game breh Ive been struggling lately

 

[Bootzilla]

I just want to leave these here

source of first

 

[Biscayne]

Nicca EVERY black Male has went through this at least a few times growing up

You still killin it in the gym?

Maybe I can't tell, I'd pegged him at 25-26 max with that posting.

I developed late.

 

[Biscayne]

And the Longhorns just lost to OU.



Horrible weekend so far.



And I'm hungover...



And I spent so much money at the bars/lounges last night...



Lesson learned. I need to take off this clown makeup.

 

[godliness]

Stop puttinf bw on pedestals, they are no better than any other race. You might even find a better deal with non black women. So keep your options open. Lmao @ you calling ados women queens. I guess bro.

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

Stop puttinf bw on pedestals, they are no better than any other race. You might even find a better deal with non black women. So keep your options open. Lmao @ you calling ados women queens. I guess bro.

some brews want to stay black and don't get off to other races

 

[ultraflexed]

I have to have a whole script before I even talk to a BW. Hell, I'll walk to the bathroom 5 times in a row to put on chapstick, lotion, sanitizer, check my nose, check to see if my face is dry before I can walk out and assist black female coworkers. Some brother saw that I was ashy today(I had just washed my hands) and he offered me lotion, and my heart almost sank because I thought

If he noticed I was ashy, imagine all the BW who I conversed with noticed the same thing.



It's not that I didn't have my own lotion, I just washed my hands previously..

Breh you cant be afraid of rejection breh, it's like being afraid to drive to the hoop because you cant shot free throws


Practice making free throws....meaning shoot your shot...you might get 10 no's but you only need 1 yes, you'll get better regardless of the results but you gotta shoot

Stop acting like Simmons from philly and take the fuccin three pointer.....lol

 

[2Quik4UHoes]

Bruh, you scared of a woman?

Edit: read the op, just relax and talk to them like normal human beings. Black women are by far the most fun women to talk to and flirt with imo.

 

[godliness]

some brews want to stay black and don't get off to other races

I'm just giving breh the real. nikkas on the coli like to act like BW are gods or something and the truth is they are the furthest thing. If he wants to keep it black then awesome. I'm just saying he has options and should use all of his options

 

[#1 pick]

We all go through this shyt my nikka

I didn't but I'll say I had bouts of shyness in the past. A lot of times it was simply due to I wasn't ready

 

[pickles]

OP changed his avi to a clown.


Is he a clown clowning us?


I think so.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Good advice. Don’t join Charlotte singles on meetup though. I have a few friends that were in that specific one and got stories of STDs being passed around and ratchet hood behaviors.

I used to be on meetup, brehs would hit me up, and send me messages like it was a dating site. Whatever you do, don’t do that op. It’s mad thirsty lol

Can you date someone at work? That’s what I’ve been on lol... Every company has different policies though.

Rule number 4 don't shyt were you eat. Don't date or fukk women you work with. If shyt goes sideways you have to look at them everyday . To me men that is fukking women on they job lack discipline. Take from a breh that is in the military. Women be thinking I'm stuck up or gay cause I don't want to fukk them . I'm coo with that thoe call me what you. Seen too much BS pop off on jobs from the time I was 17 . OP don't sleep with women on your job.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Reading through the responses in this thread(and other threads too), I’ve noticed quite of a few of you have some negative generalizations about black women when it comes to dating. Some are even encouraging him to date outside his race even when he already stated his preference.

Smh... black women really just cant win on this site.

I wonder how prevalent this thinking is in reality. If it’s as bad as it is on here, then I see why black women are constantly disrespected or criticized while other races of women are treated with more leniency when it comes to their behavior.