I'm terrified of BW.

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I think in your case you just haven’t met the right one. You seem like a good breh. I wish I could help, I hate that you’ve had some bad experiences with some bw. I promise you we all aren’t like that though. I’ve never tried to clown or embarrass a breh. I’m always careful about that. I know how much courage it takes to approach. Some bw are picky and whatnot, but there are those that would love a breh like you. From what you’ve posted, brehettes thatve worked with you are interested. I feel like maybe dating is like finding a job. You don’t give up if your unemployed you keep putting those applications in, no matter how many interviews you tank or rejection emails you get. You don’t give up, because eventually the right job is going to come right on time. That’s what I would say. Keep putting yourself out there. Don’t take rejection personal. And if you want the counselor I told you about or to ever talk inbox me.
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Why u change you pic ? Lmao

And why u ain’t get at the other race hoes then? You try mixed chicks?

And what do black women say when they curve you?
@Meh why you change your avi lol
Because yesterday I took a huge L with those 13 curves. I got drunk and just went home. So I felt like a clown all day today.

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Reading through the responses in this thread(and other threads too), I’ve noticed quite of a few of you have some negative generalizations about black women when it comes to dating. Some are even encouraging him to date outside his race even when he already stated his preference.

Smh... black women really just cant win on this site.

I wonder how prevalent this thinking is in reality. If it’s as bad as it is on here, then I see why black women are constantly disrespected or criticized while other races of women are treated with more leniency when it comes to their behavior.

This thinking is not prevalent in real life, because the clowns on here who are typing these negative things about BW are incels. Incels are clowns and lames irl, but they are also deadly because the majority of mass shootings are done by incels.

These incel clowns are fans of this guy Kentv:


@Frank Grimes is an incel

I have no problem with BW, I eat pretty well in a city with a low Black population (LA).
 

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That only hurts when you come at them sincerely,why would you ever approach a strange woman sincerely?

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Facts I learned when I was younger- Like I dont know what type of character a woman has so a stranger can never hurt my feelings.

I Always approach women with the mindset of "its just a game or chase, just to fukk with their heads"- afterwards is when I determine whether she has a good character or not.
If you approach women based on looks - you can't possibly assess whether shes a good person or not, so there should be no sincerity in your actions unless you've known the girl and seen certain personality traits that make you want to sincere with her.
 

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Because yesterday I took a huge L with those 13 curves. I got drunk and just went home. So I felt like a clown all day today.

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You might need to just give it a rest to break that losing streak. Or like others have said try your luck with other races of women. I figure you don't have much to lose at this point. The more options you have the higher your success rate. Especially in a diverse city like Charlotte.
 

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Damn, I thought you were young but you mid 30s. You say you hit the gym, and got curb 13 times in one time.

A full month of that is why cats bounce out to other race of a women.

Cats will say this and that but breh it's time to open to other options.
 
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This site has opened my eyes to this. Seeing how a lot of bm feel about bw. We have to deal with too much from this world and then deal with this from our men. They pushing him straight to nonbw so easily. But let a bw do the same type of encouraging. Brehs speak about how bw have no loyalty, well I can see why. These younger gen bw exploring all their options these days, and I’m glad for them. Don’t give your loyalty to these men who think so negatively of you, think better of other women plus they encourage brehs that actually want us to pawg, paag, palg too. Then these brehs wonder why bw be so through with them and against them and have these attitudes. But I digress. I love bm but this site has exposed me to shyt that I really didn’t think was the case. Oh well.
Is that a chicken or egg thing? These dudes feel this way because BW mistreated them.
You can't knock them for being human. Don't make this about yall and what yall go thru lmao
 
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Damn, I thought you were young but you mid 30s. You say you hit the gym, and got curb 13 times in one time.

A full month of that is why cats bounce out to other race of a women.

Cats will say this and that but breh it's time to open to other options.

Lmao now he’s mid 30s? I thought he was 30? How do y’all know how old this dude is?

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Is that a chicken or egg thing? These dudes feel this way because BW mistreated them.
You can't knock them for being human. Don't make this about yall and what yall go thru lmao

Everyone’s been mistreated by someone. But to be real this is a forum. shyt is really not that personal or deep for me.I’m out at a friends house sipping on something and feeling good. I’ve never struggled with bm, and get so much love from the bm In my life, and bm in general. Always have. That’s all that matters to me, that and the Op already knows he can always contact me . hope your having a good Saturday night, the coli. :blessed: Tipsy on my way to drunk.
 
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