Having been raked over the fiery coals in past relationships and interactions with black women, I can understand the reluctance and even outright desire to not interact with them at all. Me and my sister did not have a good relationship with my mother, an even worse one with my grandmother..I don't enjoy fruitful relationships to this day with a majority of the women in my family save a remote few. My interactions with black women in my old age are very good indeed versus when I was younger and highly destructive..I said black women. Not biracials. There's a difference.. Get mad if you want, I give zero fukks.
Yet in still, I enjoy a productive relationship and family with a black woman and have produced children from this relationship. How? For one.. As I got older, I realized that I was using a crutch in saying "It's them, not me." giving myself an out to not examine my own faults and thus bypassing points of growth. Wherever there's failure, there's points for perspective and tools for correction.. We should not be scared of rejection, we should not be scared to interact, we learn what we are and what we ultimately want by how we interact and the success and failure of these communications. You want a black woman but you don't know what you want.. You're moving blindly. Other races are an easy out because those relationships are not based on substance primarily but out of a need to fulfill physical desire but it's otherwise empty. You have to ask yourself what do you want, what are my issues and if there are issues, how do I correct them before I even attempt to go forward in engaging.
Tipsy on my way to drunk.
You're a hypocrite and just made a big ass excuse
