I used to be like that. I simply couldn't approach black women because when they reject they always have to be extra. They wanna clown you in front of everyone or be extra loud so everyone in their circle could hear. And it fractures whatever confidence you have. I'm #uglygang but that doesn't stop me from shooting my shots with women. But black women is the most difficult.
Some of the things I've gone through and my own psychosis is so comical, that I can admit anything zaney and get away with it because ppl think I'm just trolling. And not anything crazy or illegal or dangerous, but silly things like having not kissed a girl, or never having gone on dates. When I say these things in the coli or IRL everyone thinks I'm trolling. But it's all so comically true.
op your Haitian? I have a Haitian friend your age that is single. No pressure though. Get some counseling breh. You’ll be okay.
You thinking too much young G. Listen sit back, relax, and talk to them. You pigeon holding all black women. Don't do that breh. Do black women have a guard up? Yes. But they are the MOST caring women too. I'm married to a Latina woman. Latina women are flirtatious and maybe easy to approach, but they can be the most difficult women to be in a relationship with. But that's not all Latina women. All I'm saying is that u have cultural things that are engrained, it's hard to break those barriers. But if u push hard enough they can fall. Just never compromise urself or lose who u are for any woman.
Soft thread. But the only way past it is through it. Strike up a conversation with a black woman every day and have a harsh penalty in place for every time you chicken out. Gotta get out of your head because your thoughts aren't doing you any favors.
How can you even consider yourself to be a strong black man and your afraid of black women This shyt is comedy central
