I'm terrified of BW.

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I guarantee if you tried to talk to a chick off an edible (don't eat too goddamn much lol) you'll see how easy it is and how much mental clarity you'll have. Also, don't put them on a pedestal. They're human just like you. They're also probably a little nervous too.

If you do build up the confidence and get shot down, DO NOT LET IT DISCOURAGE YOU! Try again.
I've gotten high maybe 3 times in my life. I kinda wanna try an edible.
 
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fear from where you came and
who the creator intended for you breh.
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Even when BW have approached me IRL and have shown interest, I couldn't decipher whether it was real or if it was just small talk. I've had women tell me that I'm standoffish and that they tried to talk to me. The other day, a black woman at work asked me if I was ex military. She said she seen me walk in the hallways many times and noticed how I walked. I asked her if it was a good or bad thing, and she said it could be either/or. Mind you, I've never noticed her. She was very attractive too. I didn't know what to say after that. I wanted to flirt with her, but I didn't know if what she told me was just a general passing statement, or if it was a signal to kinda pursue and shoot my shot. This is all part of me being afraid of getting the wrong signals mixed up. So even if a BW is genrally showing intrest, in that very moment I'll convince myself that she actually isn't interested and that I should just keep it moving. The worst fear for me, is me confusing general small talk with a black woman with "choosing signal". I don't wanna have a convo with a sista and come away from the convo like

YEAH, She's totally feeling me.

But in her head she's like

I hope this nikka doesn't think I'm feeling him..

That would cripple me.
Breh u should never care what a woman is thinking, this is about YOU, what YOU want to get out of this.

She could be thinking she wants nothing with u but WHO CARES, u will win her over with your charm, u should be counting on that and if u don’t it’s cuz u have a CONFIDENCE issue and u need to get over that ASAP.

I used to be KINDA like u, as I got older I just got more confident.

Read the Art of Seduction... it will help u.
 

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Confidence and game close the deal.

U cant get p*ssy without a mouth piece u no matter how u look
This is true. I have a friend who is a "pretty boy." Many women dig him but he don't even notice plus he is always shy as shyt.
 

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Don’t be afraid about BW opinions of u in public because through my dating experience in my whole 37 years on this earth, a lot of BW be fakin the funk the most once u get them alone and talk with them

Now My dating experience with the single women without kids they know they will have the power over u if u simp and try your hardest to talk to them cause they know they have options cause many don’t have baggage


Now the black women with kids they put on that I’m a strong independent mother who don’t need a man in my life cause me and my kids will be alright..Total bullshyt from my experience

I dated tons and I mean tons of single moms with that attitude, but boy behind closed doors it’s a different story if u tell them u not interested and decide to move on... they would break down crying to me saying nobody wants them or they will never find anyone.., and these are women 30 to 45 I dated,,,

All in all be yourself and roll with a sister who likes u for u
 
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