In your opinion who struggles more in modern dating

Men or women

  • Men

    Votes: 119 60.4%
  • Women

    Votes: 20 10.2%
  • Both struggle equally

    Votes: 58 29.4%

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Ahadi

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I’m tryna think of a man I know who has it together (either looks wise or money wise) who struggles with women and I can’t think of a single one

I’m not gon name names, but we have a guy on here who wears bugle boy jeans and fila sneakers and he has good looking women begging him to give them a chance :hubie:

he didn’t play sports in school either, he was on the swim team
How was he able to get a good looking woman begging for him?
 

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That's the point a number of men have 0 options.
Too black and white:
0 options at what stage of life?
0 options for what? Non-commitment sex? A relationship?
0 options when they aren’t putting in effort to meet women?
 

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Too black and white:
0 options at what stage of life?
0 options for what? Non-commitment sex? A relationship?
0 options when they aren’t putting in effort to meet women?
You're throwing a lot of intangibles that aren't in the original post.

Based on OP's post there are dudes who have 0 prospects despite trying.
 

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So it's equal? Or nah?

For what? Relationships or casual sex?

Women obviously get casual sex easier on average

Unattractive men who are willing to be in a relationship have options as long as they’re realistic. I think they have it easier than their female counterparts
 

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For what? Relationships or casual sex?

Women obviously get casual sex easier on average

Unattractive men who are willing to be in a relationship have options as long as they’re realistic. I think they have it easier than their female counterparts
Why do you think this would be?
 

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Why do you think this would be?

Cuz there are more women looking for relationships than men

Women can get casual sex from men that wouldn’t be in a relationship with them and men can get relationships with women who wouldn’t have casual sex with them
 

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Cuz there are more women looking for relationships than men

Women can get casual sex from men that wouldn’t be in a relationship with them and men can get relationships with women who wouldn’t have casual sex with them
So there is sum balance based on supply and demand, yes?
 
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