In your opinion who struggles more in modern dating

Men or women

  • Men

    Votes: 119 60.4%
  • Women

    Votes: 20 10.2%
  • Both struggle equally

    Votes: 58 29.4%

  • Total voters
    197

Ohene

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Nope and oddly enough men these days love to victimize themselves just as much as women do , if not more so.
As I said, it’s women and not even close. Chicks literally getting their eyes bitten out, attacked, sexually harassed, stalked all kinds of shyt. And men just mad that the women they feel entitled to fukking don’t want them.
I’m empathetic to how hard it can be to cold approach but when men go full retard and ignore the reality of dating dangers and pitfalls for women I have to pump brakes.
Did you know several tech companies are clamoring to make software with protection features for female daters online b/c thry recognize how crazy some of these jokers are out here?
I’ll see if I can find the article

and women are no threat to men?

how many men have been set up by women?
how many men have ended up dead messing with a woman who was cheating on her man or some shyt
how many men have ended up dead because a woman was out of pocket and they chose to defend her, or another man defended their women against them?
how many men have lost fortunes over women?
how many men have committed suicide over the indiscretions of women?
how many women have given men diseases?
how many women have seduced men only to be running game and their pockets in the process?
how many women have trapped men with children despite knowing said men want nothing to do with them?
how many women have lied about men hitting or raping them, causing them to go to jail for decades

shut the fukk up.
 

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women control the access to sex .. it’s easy even for below average and even ugly chicks to get sex anytime they want.. cause nikkas will fukk anything

men control the access to marriage .. but it’s hard to find a woman that’s marriage material today


/thread...however I answered both if I had to pick an answer it's women
 

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You're throwing a lot of intangibles that aren't in the original post.

Based on OP's post there are dudes who have 0 prospects despite trying.
Those aren’t intangibles, it’s nuance:

0 prospect for casual sex: Those are the breaks.
0 prospects for a meaningful relationship/marriage while putting in effort: I don’t think the number of mean in this situation is a massive number
 

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Those aren’t intangibles, it’s nuance:

0 prospect for casual sex: Those are the breaks.
0 prospects for a meaningful relationship/marriage while putting in effort: I don’t think the number of mean in this situation is a massive number
Is there a way to know?
 

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I don’t believe. If anyone has tangible evidence otherwise then happy to be take a look at it.
I've been looking for it tbh but I only can find dating site info and it shows women respond less than men on those sites. But that's been known for years.
 

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I've been looking for it tbh but I only can find dating site info and it shows women respond less than men on those sites. But that's been known for years.
Which is proof of nothing :manny:

But that’s the point. Running to find statistics and social media post is fruitless as it applies to the individual. “Relationships” are not black and white.
 
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As a Coli relationship breh…Women

Most men go through a lot of years where we only want sex. Even when we are ready for a serious relationship, we’re still pursuing the sex women. When women are ready for marriage, most men in that age range 25-30 are still in the sex phase, and haven’t gotten to where we want to be financially.

Women have a biological clock. Men can wait until we’re 35 to start thinking seriously about marriage. Women can’t.

Plus, and the Coli isn’t going to like this, but most black men were not raised in 2 parent households, and weren’t raised to be husbands.

And keeping it real real, a lot of us want the maximum from a woman, while giving the bare minimum. Women waste a lot of time with the wrong person trying to make them into what we want them to be.
 
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