In your opinion who struggles more in modern dating

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and women are no threat to men?

how many men have been set up by women?
how many men have ended up dead messing with a woman who was cheating on her man or some shyt
how many men have ended up dead because a woman was out of pocket and they chose to defend her, or another man defended their women against them?
how many men have lost fortunes over women?
how many men have committed suicide over the indiscretions of women?
how many women have given men diseases?
how many women have seduced men only to be running game and their pockets in the process?
how many women have trapped men with children despite knowing said men want nothing to do with them?
how many women have lied about men hitting or raping them, causing them to go to jail for decades

shut the fukk up.

Ya’ll love getting hoemotional and triggered over the damn truth. YOU shut the fukk up and stop whining. All the shyt you listed, men have done to women AND more. Now what?
Goofy ass

 

[Scaaar]

Dating in my 30s hasn't been bad at all. But my perspective is different. I've been married, divorced and had a child before so I'm complete on that part. I have a stable roster so I just chill for the most part. They usually hit me up when they're horny and I choose to go beat or give them a raincheck when I don't feel like it. Other than that I just chill and travel.

But honestly it just comes down to choosing the chics that choose you. If they're making you jump through hoops or prove your value just move on to the next one. It's way to many women out here to get caught up on one that is playing around. The dating market is bad mostly because women are still being rewarded with attention even when they show you off rip they're not interested. Just keep approaching, be honest Abt your intentions and then move accordingly.

 

[Scaaar]

No one is denying male trauma but men DEFINITELY dismiss real issues women have in dating. Many Men are hella inconsistent, entitled and horrible to deal with—but hate facing their own issues and just want to blame chicks for that.
Won’t work. Dating is hard for everyone but it’s always been harder for women just by virtue of our physical vulnerability and a lot of the shytty little rules men have created in our society. But it’s even worse with men b/c while men can spend a milennial talking shyt about anything with a vagina, dudes aren’t even open to criticism. They think accountability is only for women and never for themselves.

There definitely is accountability issues on both sides. Its weird watching the red pill brehs that think they're entitled to any woman just because they have a decent paying job. Having a job doesn't make you a good man or partner. Just like being beautiful doesn't make you a good woman. It's more than comes into an actual sustainable relationship than that. But most people only dwell on that surface level attraction. That's why everyone is always chasing or thinking there's a better option out there than wahts in front of them.

 

[kaldurahm]

Men struggle, but I'd prefer to have the male struggle than the woman's struggle to be honest.

At worst, I'm not getting any attention/no buns, or I'm being called names/harassed.

At worst a woman is being harassed, stalked, assaulted .. dating as a man sucks but it's also summed up as

 

[kaldurahm]

Dating in my 30s hasn't been bad at all. But my perspective is different. I've been married, divorced and had a child before so I'm complete on that part. I have a stable roster so I just chill for the most part. They usually hit me up when they're horny and I choose to go beat or give them a raincheck when I don't feel like it. Other than that I just chill and travel.

But honestly it just comes down to choosing the chics that choose you. If they're making you jump through hoops or prove your value just move on to the next one. It's way to many women out here to get caught up on one that is playing around. The dating market is bad mostly because women are still being rewarded with attention even when they show you off rip they're not interested. Just keep approaching, be honest Abt your intentions and then move accordingly.

That's another thing that you pointed out age. Now I don't believe 35+ women are washed or anything like that, but things do get better for men as they age and become stable. I think dating at 27 which is still trash for the most part, is still way better than when I was dating at 21. 21 year old me would've loved to get little success I have now.

 

[Scaaar]

That's another thing that you pointed out age. Now I don't believe 35+ women are washed or anything like that, but things do get better for men as they age and become stable. I think dating at 27 which is still trash for the most part, is still way better than when I was dating at 21. 21 year old me would've loved to get little success I have now.

Breh That's the one thing that I know is a fact! Once I hit 30, it really did just get easier. I became the older dude that has unlimited age range in options based on what I feel like. But I think the biggest thing was that I phased out of chasing pu$$y. Once you've had a good amount you realize it's all the same. It's basically just the woman's effort and y'all mutual attraction that makes sex enjoyable. Once you get to that mindstate you just enjoy life and women choose up. Its up to me if I choose to deal with them