Insecurities

[IronFist]

Insecurities are just a way to discourage you from trying. If you think something isn't in your grasp , idealistically it normal to find reasons not to attempt it to save yourself from falling flat on your face.. Individuals are conditioned physicology and emotionally (heart/mind if you will) wise to feel failure as a sense of displeasure, discontent or inadequacy. I think if we are going thru something of that nature, we need to retrain our mind that failure is life's way of helping you figure something out.

Your doubts boil down to fear of failure and are a justification of why you think you cant excel at something. So to prevent that lost you/we don't try because it won't happen anyway.

So last part to it is this retrain your brain to except failure as an opportunity to become better.


Canibus- A wise Man sees Failures as progress

 

[Rawtid]

I've found the only time my insecurities cause a problem is when I start dealing with a guy on more than a friend level. I don't know what to do about it though except just be single forever.

 

[IronFist]

I've found the only time my insecurities cause a problem is when I start dealing with a guy on more than a friend level. I don't know what to do about it though except just be single forever.

I think both men and women go thru this sort of thing. I would necessarily use the term insecurity, however, when i one needs that reassurance.

 

[Rawtid]

I think both men and women go thru this sort of thing. I would necessarily use the term insecurity, however, when i one needs that reassurance.

My issue is definitely insecurity but I believe I understand what you're trying to say.

 

[Illuminatos]

One of my insecurities is my lack of direction in life.
I have all of the drive in the world if I put my mind to it,
but I don't like anything enough to focus on it professionally.
I honestly have no idea wtf im doing and im 26.
I have always been a free spirited kinda person and I feel
that adulthood stifles that.
Either you conform to the way things are
or you dont and you get left behind.

That's ME!!

 

[Remy Danton]

Insecurities are just a way to discourage you from trying. If you think something isn't in your grasp , idealistically it normal to find reasons not to attempt it to save yourself from falling flat on your face.. Individuals are conditioned physicology and emotionally (heart/mind if you will) wise to feel failure as a sense of displeasure, discontent or inadequacy. I think if we are going thru something of that nature, we need to retrain our mind that failure is life's way of helping you figure something out.

Your doubts boil down to fear of failure and are a justification of why you think you cant excel at something. So to prevent that lost you/we don't try because it won't happen anyway.

So last part to it is this retrain your brain to except failure as an opportunity to become better.


Canibus- A wise Man sees Failures as progress

well stated my fellow TPC breh.

I've found the only time my insecurities cause a problem is when I start dealing with a guy on more than a friend level. I don't know what to do about it though except just be single forever.

I think both men and women go thru this sort of thing. I would necessarily use the term insecurity, however, when i one needs that reassurance.

yeah, i get what you saying i think everybody goes through this, upon freshly getting in a relationship. i know i did when i start dating my GF

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

That's ME!!

good to know im not the only one

 

[Illuminatos]

good to know im not the only one

I'm 19 so I maybe got a couple more years but time is ticking. If this Accountant thing don't work out idk what imma do.

 

[Rawtid]

I'm 19 so I maybe got a couple more years but time is ticking. If this Accountant thing don't work out idk what imma do.

Stripper!!

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

I'm 19 so I maybe got a couple more years but time is ticking. If this Accountant thing don't work out idk what imma do.

do you wanna be an accountant for money or interest? and i could lie and say it gets easier or better, but it doesnt.

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

I've found the only time my insecurities cause a problem is when I start dealing with a guy on more than a friend level. I don't know what to do about it though except just be single forever.

I felt this way for a while until I realized that nikkas ain't shyt No offense to you men in here, but there's no one out there that is that special. I'm more concerned with whether I like the person or not as opposed to vice versa.

 

[Illuminatos]

Stripper!!

I can't dance for shyt or move my body in erotic ways.

 

[King Poetic]

Trust my biggest thing

I trust nobody even if they are trying to help me out.. i'm always thinking negative about what is this person main objective

 

[Milk N Cookies]

Prob my biggest one is my sexual orientation. In public I constantly make the assertion that homosexuality is a sin. But if you all can keep a secret - once my fat wife is asleep, I slip out of the house undetected and make a trip up to the nearest truck stop.



John Henry Hoeven 2016,

If youre serious, thats some real deep sh1t you told us. Hope things work out either way.

 

[Raava]

My insecurities about how I look, I am able to deal with them because I know how to hide them perse. I am very self conscious which I have stated before but If you saw me out you wouldn't know it. Due to being in a lot of activities growing up where I had to perform in front of people, I can "turn on" my personality. I am not fake, still myself but just having to be sociable or put myself out there when necessary so I don't hold myself back as much as I usually would. I also don't let it keep me from going out and doing things. It's weird.

Only when someone deals me one on one it starts to show in certain situations.