I feel you. I still believe you gotta find someone who's compatible and actually likes you, though. If you miss the chance of being happy because of their race then you're not fully living your life.
This is why I struggle with it so much Luna. My last girlfriend was Italian. She and I were best friends. We were trying to have a baby, lol it was a lot of fun! I told her I was scared because she doesn't know what it's like to be black. And she doesn't know what her kids will and I experience on a daily basis.
When I told her what I experienced she seemed shocked and started crying. I wasn't comfortable having kids with her after that. When I talk to black women about my thoughts they understand my position and support me.
The interracial families I know are weird. The kids are only black on certain holidays and one month out of the year. Other than that they identify as Jewish or Christian and really step away from their African heritage. again, I can only speak from what I've experienced in my suburban bubble.