Introverted brehs how the fukk do you get by

[Lord_nikon]

I'm getting literal shyt for not trying to converse during work.
shorties telling I'm to quiet and end up ghosting
my family constantly bickering about how I don't talk to them

y'all extroverted bruhs got it good

It work I try to transform myself into another person or go sit in my car to get away.
Women and family, just text them

 

[Starboy52]

Honestly... it's not that bad.

Make time for people every now and then, then they can't REALLY say anything when you disappear for 3-5 days after work/family time to keep to your own devices. At least that's how it works for me. I come out of the cave for a little while, hang out, then come back and read/write some shyt.

 

[philmonroe]

Done in which way? I'm part of a society and help run the committee and the seminars, that's a hard social skill there. You tryna force a narrative that you subscribe to or someone close to you and think it's one size fits all

Im not trying to force shyt. I believe what I believe and you the same. I didn't say you have to subscribe to my views so don't know what your talking about. Without knowing you it is one size fits all as far as online goes. Of course I could be wrong and if I am it won't be the first time.

 

[King Poetic]

America has become a lot of introverts in real life and extroverts online

 

[philmonroe]

Ehh I'd say it's moreso about being more in control about what you want to talk about than awkwardness. Online I pretty much speak on the topics I want to, when I feel like speaking on them. IRL there's often a lot of idle chatter and small talk, which is really really draining to me. Also, people tend to put more thought into what they say in a serious nontrolling discussion online, whereas IRL you freestyle and thus the level of conversation is a little bit lower

I can understand control and still disagree. I still think it's about awkwardness because irl when it's stuff I don't care about for whatever reason I just roll or sit around for a few to see if something else I'm into comes up. If it doesn't I just roll. Not that hard my man. I don't think people put more thought online they just cheat and use Google whereas irl you can do that but like you said it's more freestyling. Offline folks will be like gtfoh with all the google shyt and to speak for yourself without that.

 

[philmonroe]

That's cuz the terms been b*stardized online.

Introvert/Extrovert just describe how social interactions affect ones energy.



All that extra shyt about being shy, not talkative, hating small talk, etc has nothin to do with it. Yet we got people out here with antisocial personality disorders talkin bout "See, I'm introverted "

Yeah I agree but like you said online it's made out as something it's not. I also have to be real I don't get either term because talking or not talking to cats irl doesn't affect my energy one way or another. I don't know what I am lol.

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

Without knowing you it is one size fits all as far as online goes.

guess I'm just another entity without an identity

 

[I Really Mean It]

Extroverts are people who talk a lot and have nothing to say. Introverts are people with a lot to share, but no one worth telling it to. I'm fairly introverted, though I go out and socialize on the weekends. In this age where so much of my identity defines my every move, living in an openly white supremacist state , it's difficult for me to find common ground and associate with anyone who is not intensely aware of what we live in and doing everything they can to combat the spiritual and psychological damage it has inflicted upon us. If you're a dude that's easily amused by bullshyt and just wants to get turnt up and fukk bytches, I don't fukk with you. If you're a female who craves the attention of followers on your Instagram and takes your behavioral cues from the Kardashians and Cardi B, I don't fukk with you. If you're a whitewashed c00n who thinks we live in a post-racial society and surrounds yourself with white friends, I don't fukk with you. If you're a wench who enunciates her words like a white girl and has no problem giving it up to white daddy, I don't fukk with you. I only rock with real brehs and brehettes who broke free from the Matrix. Unfortunately, there aren't a lot of them where I live. So, I'm usually dolo.

 

[puppetmaster]

View yourself as a scarce resource, not a recluse

This. This. And this.

 

[philmonroe]

That's due to the amount of attention focused on extraverts and the social pressure put on Introverts to be more like them.

This country is geared towards extraverts and those of us who don't conform to that standard are looked at like some sort of anomaly.

That's the reason we keep seeing this same thread almost every other month.

Fukk that.

There's nothing wrong with us. We don't need to be 'fixed'. We don't need to interact with people. Matter of fact, the less we interact with people, the better off we are. Small talk is for small minds and there is far more of interest to us in our own minds than what the majority of extraverts have to say.​

No offense fam but unless your famous nobody really gives a fukk about you outside of family and a few friends. That goes for me too so don't think I'm singling y'all out. People in the "minority" of anything are going to be looked at differently doesn't matter what it is. That's just human nature my man.

I think what makes y'all look wild is y'all come online and start this stereotyping that funny enough you're tired of others doing y'all. It makes y'all seem envious that y'all can't be like them. Also going by the threads here I can't tell y'all have more to talk about than regular "extroverts" cause all the stuff I see on here for the most part I've saw discussion of offline too.

 

[philmonroe]

guess I'm just another entity without an identity

If I don't know you offline it's one size fits all just like most here do "extroverts" in these threads.

 

[Shorty K]

I can understand control and still disagree. I still think it's about awkwardness because irl when it's stuff I don't care about for whatever reason I just roll or sit around for a few to see if something else I'm into comes up. If it doesn't I just roll. Not that hard my man. I don't think people put more thought online they just cheat and use Google whereas irl you can do that but like you said it's more freestyling. Offline folks will be like gtfoh with all the google shyt and to speak for yourself without that.

That's low vibration to me and what I'm talking about with the level of conversation to be lower. If somebody is googling and dropping some real shyt that they found on google, idc where they got it from they just dropped some real shyt. I actually like that this person took the time out their day to do some research and spread some knowledge when responding to me as opposed to just opening their mouth and speaking nonsense with confidence the way 90% of extroverts do.

 

[philmonroe]

That's low vibration to me and what I'm talking about with the level of conversation to be lower. If somebody is googling and dropping some real shyt that they found on google, idc where they got it from they just dropped some real shyt. I actually like that this person took the time out their day to do some research and spread some knowledge when responding to me as opposed to just opening their mouth and speaking nonsense with confidence the way 90% of extroverts do.

Nah that's wack because anybody can do that. That's Milli Vanilliing the discussion. I want to people to put themselves out there not be a p*ssy that is only using google. I don't respect that shyt. Now sometimes if we are taking something that truly needs googling cool but everything like how most do it online hell no.

 

[Shorty K]

Nah that's wack because anybody can do that. That's Milli Vanilliing the discussion. I want to people to put themselves out there not be a p*ssy that is only using google. I don't respect that shyt. Now sometimes if we are taking something that truly needs googling cool but everything like how most do it online hell no.

This is why I don't like talking to people like that as I've gotten older. Most people do think like you where finding a source from an accredited scholar to back up what they say with years of research is somehow wack, a nikka like me is stimulated by shyt like that.

 

[Jimmy Two-Times™]

You will NEVER be the preferred personality type for 98% of the people you meet in your lifetime. You HAVE to be prepared and ready to do EVERYTHING solo and enjoy your freedom, peace and quiet and solitude.
Put on an act and show out when you wanna get laid, but then kick them to the curb if they can't get on board.
YOU ARE IN CONTROL!!!!
Life is your game...Make it what you like and desire.