philmonroe
Superstar
Sounds like it's one or two people (even though you made it plural) you dislike and or are jealous of and you made that everyone black.
Introverted brehs how the fukk do you get by
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philmonroe
Superstar
I think this is why "introverts" like coming online cause they can say wild shyt that wouldn't fly offline without getting clowned.
ManfromNYCest.1900s
Banned
Honestly, it is very hard especially for me as a college student. People tend to either gravitate towards me or they spew negativity to me. I always just say the Serenity Prayer and remind myself the situation is temporary.
I Really Mean It
Veteran
I'm just going off my own experience in the workplace. The extroverts, those who wanted to engage with people and were hardly ever the type shy from speaking their mind, exhibited c00nish traits. They would always be the first to joke with the white coworkers and never find fault with management. They'd engage in the petty small talk that generally meets every morning, be it sports or politics, always playing it safe and couching their words so that there's never any interpretation by white coworkers that they're a real breh. I have this theory, I guess. Extroversion is really overcompensation for anxieties that result from being black in hostile territory. It's a defense mechanism.
I Really Mean It
Veteran
- Talk during convo that you can relate to
- Being funny is a plus to avoid awkward encounters
- Who gives a shyt if you don't want to hang out or be a chatty patty
- Who gives a shyt if you don't want to open up to a gang of people
- Be you
I used to be hardbody introverted and still am, but I learn to have a balance to avoid being a complete shut in. It sucks when folks judge when they don't truly know that maybe just maybe...folks just want to be to themselves
philmonroe
Superstar
Yep but of course you'd frame it in a way to make yourself look like you're sooo above it and better than everyone. You aren't fooling anyone my manJealous of some bootlickers?
that aint got nothing to do with him being an introvert...what he said just doesn't make sense
Rell Lauren
Banned
Turn the charm on when convenient. Give them a slice and then go back into your personal space, making them beg for more. Rinse. Repeat.
Yep. When I feel like talking at work, this is pretty much it. I pretty much don't give a fukk about anyone I work with, so I very rarely put it on display.
Well said.
My family understands me. I'm very direct and short when I talk. I like my personal space. My only problem is that I'm in my head too much. Beyond that, I don't care about what anyone thinks about my lack of social activity.
philmonroe
Superstar
Nobody really cares y'all cats stay trying to exaggerate smh. Cats aren't harassing quiet dudes on some hang with us. Stop it. You might get a pity invite that cats know you going to turn down or something but the vast majority of people too worried about themselves to be worried about what a mute is or isn't saying.I used to be hardbody introverted and still am, but I learn to have a balance to avoid being a complete shut in. It sucks when folks judge when they don't truly know that maybe just maybe...folks just want to be to themselves
- Talk during convo that you can relate to
- Being funny is a plus to avoid awkward encounters
- Who gives a shyt if you don't want to hang out or be a chatty patty
- Who gives a shyt if you don't want to open up to a gang of people
- Be you
philmonroe
Superstar
I know it don't make sense I was just giving one reason I think they come online even though claiming not liking interaction and wanting to be left alone.
I use to be introvert but changed at a job I had where I had to consistently converse with people. shyt changed my life seriously.
First of all, being introverted isn't the same as being socially awkward, reclusive, etc., nor does it mean u necessarily shy. Being introverted means one find more energy being alone or doing shyt by themselves whereas an extrovert find more energy doing shyt with others. I am in between but was more introverted growing up. My confidence and self-esteem was low so a lot has to do with that.
I find its best to have a balance...especially when at work. U need to be able to teamwork but also work individually.
I think those types make it the best. Extroverted people are cool but its preferable when they are open-minded. I find some to be too close-minded and get mad or nasty when someone isn't like themselves. Then, u have introverts who don't wanna come out of their shell at all and we are humans and that means we are social creatures and need other people. Its just that some folks just have so much drama, BS and shyt with them whereas it can be draining or even worst...they can bring u down.
I would suggest folks who are introverted and have issues with it or wanna change to take time to socialize and come out of their shell to those who like them and are open-minded. An introvert not gonna be comfortable trying to befriend or open up to an extrovert who is close-minded and not understanding that everyone isn't the same.
I find its best to have a balance...especially when at work. U need to be able to teamwork but also work individually.
I think those types make it the best. Extroverted people are cool but its preferable when they are open-minded. I find some to be too close-minded and get mad or nasty when someone isn't like themselves. Then, u have introverts who don't wanna come out of their shell at all and we are humans and that means we are social creatures and need other people. Its just that some folks just have so much drama, BS and shyt with them whereas it can be draining or even worst...they can bring u down.
I would suggest folks who are introverted and have issues with it or wanna change to take time to socialize and come out of their shell to those who like them and are open-minded. An introvert not gonna be comfortable trying to befriend or open up to an extrovert who is close-minded and not understanding that everyone isn't the same.
that other poster's experience is similar to what I've experienced. Those overly loud extroverted black were always c00nish. Eyes bucking, dancing, being the loud Chris Tucker black catch-phrase saying sidekick to the white people. When Neely Fuller talks about black people being the entertainment committee in an office setting.
Look at the gentrification thread. A bunch of extroverts BEGGING to pay high prices s they can be at the center of attention.