Introverted brehs how the fukk do you get by

[Weaver31]

I know it don't make sense I was just giving one reason I think they come online even though claiming not liking interaction and wanting to be left alone.

I get u...but yeah some introverts just don't understand that we need people in society...and us humans are social creatures. U gotta open up sometimes.

 

[The Intergalactic Koala]

Nobody really cares y'all cats stay trying to exaggerate smh. Cats aren't harassing quiet dudes on some hang with us. Stop it. You might get a pity invite that cats know you going to turn down or something but the vast majority of people too worried about themselves to be worried about what a mute is or isn't saying.

Eh. I know folks throw out the invite just out of curiosity and I still decline due to having a family and etc. That's just me. I socialize like a extrovert at times, but keep a rather quiet life.

 

[Wild self]

In my experience, most extroverted blacks are c00ns.

They definitely the most short tempered and hot headed and most judgmental.....I agree. They be on that super simple terms like "real nikkas" "dweeb" and other labels, and be the same ones that cry that they got backstabbed because they dont listen to other people talk

 

[I Really Mean It]

They definitely the most short tempered and hot headed and most judgmental.....I agree. They be on that super simple terms like "real nikkas" "dweeb" and other labels, and be the same ones that cry that they got backstabbed because they dont listen to other people talk

They're also the ones who're quick to suck up to white people and throw on a "yessa, massa" face.

 

[AAKing23]

My introversion is like a gift and a curse at the same time to me. I do tend to live in my own head a lot but it allows me think very in depth about things and express myself so deeply and creatively. (I do a lot of writing) And I'm really comfortable being by myself but honestly I feel that's the only time I truly am myself.

It's like when I'm around people that's not close friends and family I tend to shut them out unintentionally. It hinders me socially when trying to meet new people and especially with women. Not to mention I have social anxiety as well. It's hard for me to put myself out there like that, I wish I wasn't so shy in that regard

 

[philmonroe]

that other poster's experience is similar to what I've experienced. Those overly loud extroverted black were always c00nish. Eyes bucking, dancing, being the loud Chris Tucker black catch-phrase saying sidekick to the white people. When Neely Fuller talks about black people being the entertainment committee in an office setting.

Thats cool but I'm going to chalk this up to online stuff honestly. I've never saw such shyt like this in my life and without the other cats around to defend themselves I'm just throwing the challenge flag on this my man. It maybe true but I'd have to see this in person to believe it.

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

Being introverted gets boring and old. Going through the motions with every thing that doesn't involve enjoying your alone time is a boring lifestyle to live and I don't get how people can live like that without getting tired of it eventually. I don't like people in general but being alone 24/7 should get old to anybody that's not a legit weirdo.

I think a lot of you just need different or better people in your lives When I have people that are easier to get along with it's much easier to be motivated to be social.

 

[philmonroe]

Eh. I know folks throw out the invite just out of curiosity and I still decline due to having a family and etc. That's just me. I socialize like a extrovert at times, but keep a rather quiet life.

I think this is most people though that's my point. You come online some cats act like they some special breed when how you are fits a lot of cats esp after college age. That's my only point in these threads most people are only cool around friends and family. They ain't trying to be the life of the party. If that's all folks see it seems to me like they are jealous of that person to me because again most people are like you after college age.

 

[Wild self]

They're also the ones who're quick to suck up to white people and throw on a "yessa, massa" face.

Its kinda A 50/50 thing. A lot of extroverted heads be on that hypebeast shyt. They buy the most expensive shyt, they floss outta control, they stunt on IG, they gotta one-up everyone elses life with their exaggerated stories where they shine, and they QUICK to tell other people that they don't match their vision.

 

[Weaver31]

Being introverted gets boring and old. Going through the motions with every thing that doesn't involve enjoying your alone time is a boring lifestyle to live and I don't get how people can live like that without getting tired of it eventually. I don't like people in general but being alone 24/7 should get old to anybody that's not a legit weirdo.

I think a lot of you just need different or better people in your lives When I have people that are easier to get along with it's much easier to be motivated to be social.

THIS! Its important to find a good quality of people who are open-minded in ur life. Ur more prone to be social when u have good people in ur life who bring positive energy and good vibes.

 

[I Really Mean It]

THIS! Its important to find a good quality of people who are open-minded in ur life. Ur more prone to be social when u have good people in ur life who bring positive energy and good vibes.

Just going off my experience, but most extroverts I've run into bring negative energy. Can't vibe wit em. And I think people are confusing extroverts with people who're anti-social or overly shy. I'm social and still an introvert, preferring to feel a person out before revealing myself to them, of which I only disclose maybe a fraction of what I'm about.

 

[BrehWyatt]

I used to think I was hella introverted. I preferred to sit back and observe. Didn't care to talk to people outside of the bare minimum. Shyt like networking and all that, I find it pointless. Give me a one-on-one conversation any day over small talk in a group.

As I've gotten older and looked back on my interactions with people I like? I've discovered that maybe I'm more anti-social than introverted and in general I just ... don't give a fukk about people and being around them longer than I have to.

Let me cook, I let them cook. Yes, it's true that the people I like, I'm more apt to be social with them but honestly ... I'm not looking to be more social in general. A lot of shyt to me is just necessary evil.

 

[Weaver31]

Just going off my experience, but most extroverts I've run into bring negative energy. Can't vibe wit em. And I think people are confusing extroverts with people who're anti-social or overly shy. I'm social and still an introvert, preferring to feel a person out before revealing myself to them, of which I only disclose maybe a fraction of what I'm about.

True...some extroverts do bring in negative energy. That's why I said its good if an introvert can find an extrovert friend who is open-minded and/or exhibit positive energy. I agree with u when u saying u prefer to feel a person out...that's the best way to do it.

 

[pip77]

Introvert here. I use to be very shy during my elementary, middle, and high school years. Once I went out of state for college for the 2011-2012 school year, my shyness slowly chipped away. When it came to women, my introversion stood in the way of having a lot of success. Fast forward to today, I’m a 35 year old man of few words, but I do chime in conversations that have substance. I still enjoy having alone time just to chill, but I can also go out and have some fun in a big social gathering. My wife is a extrovert and she knows how I am and still tolerates me.

You don’t have to let your introversion stop you from doing exciting things. Use it to your advantage.

 

[MoneyTron]

I just be livin breh.

I just realize that I have a very limited amount of social energy. Being around a lot of people for long periods of time is the absolute worst for me.