IntrovertGang Step In: Why Are People So Entitled With Y'all?

[ALonelyDad]

Because a lot of them are nosy people and want to know all your business. I like to keep my things private. It's funny to see them get flustered when you dont give them anything, you can just see them getting mad with each question.

I just can't do small talk or fake talk that I have no interest it.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

A lot of introvert ass nikkas be wanting people to feel sorry for them and baby them

Being all moody and negative

Then wonder why nobody like they lonely ass

 

[richaveli83]

People are nosey as hell. I'm a respiratory therapist and work in a hospital. I keep to myself pretty much. I see all my patients and when I'm done with my rounds I take my computer to a quiet area and either read a book, browse the coli on my phone, watch something on YouTube, etc. All the nurses, CNAS, unit secretaries, etc hang out at the nurse's station. They always ask why I'm so quiet and never want to talk. I mind my business and just try to get through this 12 hour shift. I'm especially not trying to sit and gossip about Love and Hip Hop, Housewives, and other BS they want to talk about. I'm one of the few straight, younger brothers working in my particular unit so they find it strange since the other brothers that work are either old or if they're young they're gay.

If I'm cool with you or like you then I'll chop it up with you, crack some jokes or whatever, etc. I just don't feel like dealing with people's BS and has nothing to do with thinking I'm better than you or whatever because I'm a laid back ass dude.

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

Hardcore introvert here. I’ve figured out how to stop people from interacting with you. Put on a mean face (which my face looks like normally ) and put on headphones.

When I am forced to talk to people at work, I’m assertive as hell. I ask the questions, not you. just because I’m an introvert, it doesn’t mean I can’t be assertive

But, yeah, people try to read me, but they can’t. That’s their problem

How can you be a hardcore introvert and be gainfully employed (you've posted about your job before) unless you're in some kind of specialized STEM field

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

Women done turned the workplace into high school. Damn a nikka just wanna clock in, do his thing and go home but now I gotta be Mr. Popular on top of excelling in my career. The whole scenario of a nikka being called "weird" and damn near getting fired because he don't want to clown it up or be a mack with his own damn coworkers comes up way too often.

These hoes want money and the prestige but they don't want to actually work so they gotta turn the workplace into another drama filled social space and wanna walk around talking to random mfs and sending emails. shyt makes me sick

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Shyt is crazy. Had a female at my job get mad at me because I always gave her one word answers (she was anooying). She goes on to tell some of her friends that I'm a jerk/a mysoginist. I got a bad eval that year from my first class/chief (both of them were female) because they thought I was "rude" . I've never had a P eval before. Always a MP/EP until that incidednt .

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

Only insecure and douche bags have to be liked by everybody

I deal with this at the gym a lot people mad or offended I give no shyts about them

At this point in my life I have learned it’s their issues not mine

Tbh most people I meet at the gym are about their business and are respectful people. From what I've seen people into power lifting ,wrestling, and martial arts (boxing, kickboxing, BJJ) at gyms tend to be nice introverted type people. Avoid the bodybuilding types at all cost though . Them nikkkkas are insecure, always on some "do my biceps look huge bro" . This one dude asked me to take a picture of him while he was flexing in the mirror for the gram had to give him the . Nikka I don't know you .

 

[horizon]

a$$holes and awkward people disguising themselves as introverts yet again

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

a$$holes and awkward people disguising themselves as introverts yet again

Nah, work is for work nothing more; you go to work to work not socialize. Often times you extroverted nikkkas want to turn it into highschool. Outside of work I like making small talk etc., at work not so much because your coworkers can often use some things against you even if it's from small talk. I've learned my lesson about trusting coworkers.

 

[jmegamar]

I had my supervisor call me into the office about 4 months ago for this exact same shyt. I'm an introvert and she basically called me out saying the rest of the staff doesn't know a lot about me and feels like I'm not apart of the team. Saying it looks bad to patients. Patients fukking love mr though. Like I'll talk to patients because they the customers. Getting comfortable with staff isn't anywhere in my job description.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

A lot of introvert ass nikkas be wanting people to feel sorry for them and baby them

Being all moody and negative

Then wonder why nobody like they lonely ass

Not really

Most of us just want to be left tf alone for awhile.

Stay out of our business, don’t talk shyt about us behind our backs, etc., because 90% of the time we’re not thinking about you... at least I’m not.

I notice it with my dad. He’s a “people person”/extrovert and he stays in my sisters business, always buggin her about shyt, etc. usually about nothing

Me, idgaf and don’t tell me nothing unless it’s important or I ask unless you REALLY need me. But usually I’m just like

Idc if people don’t want to be around me.. I’ll usually get tf on if I can

 

[Ciggavelli]

How can you be a hardcore introvert and be gainfully employed (you've posted about your job before) unless you're in some kind of specialized STEM field

Yeah, I'm a researcher, so I don't have many regular interactions with people. I can go to my desk, work on the computer, and finish work some days, without even speaking to one person. I run studies and interview participants at work as well though. I just keep it professional and ask the questions I need to ask. No small talk. I like it that way. I guess I'm lucky

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

Yeah, I'm a researcher, so I don't have many regular interactions with people. I can go to my desk, work on the computer, and finish work some days, without even speaking to one person. I run studies and interview participants at work as well though. I just keep it professional and ask the questions I need to ask. No small talk. I like it that way. I guess I'm lucky

How did you get this sort of gig as an introvert . I ask because I'm about to use my GI bill pretty soon to get a degree in EE. I want to go into AI and deep learning but one thing that worries me is how much the work environment loves extroverted nikkkas nowadays. Especially with you're a black male. Seems like you either gotta be a gay black dude or the class clown extroverted type black dude (even in S.T.E.M.). Asian and whites can be introverts and get some nice STEM jobs. I'm hoping that the experience I gain from Co-ops and my security clearance will make up for my introversion.

 

[Hellmont]

shyts annoying as hellSometimes I just want to listen to my music and vibe. I'm just used to being alone and when I'm ready I have no problem talking to people but, in the meantime let me be

They be tryna force you to talk and get mad when you don’t give in.

Hate that shyt

 

[dat aint da same sandwich]

Let's call a spade a spade, a lot of these people are just awkward.

What they'll describe as some distressing situation at work is really just one or two people saying "hello" or trying to spark a conversation and they have abysmal social skills so they embarrass themselves which makes the other party call them "weird" because that's exactly what they are.

This topic is made just about every month and nothing will be done about it. Then with a straight face, these same people will wonder why they're going nowhere in life.

This topic hit a nerve or something? You seem to be taking this shyt personal.

 

[Astroslik]

How can you be a hardcore introvert and be gainfully employed (you've posted about your job before) unless you're in some kind of specialized STEM field

Breh some of the highest paid professions consist of mostly introverts..