IntrovertGang Step In: Why Are People So Entitled With Y'all?

[yung Herbie Hancock]

But if we were in the same room, you couldn't say any of this to my face. :meloword:

By your own admission :loldenzel2:

Wish I could neg. Try hard fakkkit.

 

[Koba St]

I'm a ten toes down introvert and I just wanna say -

1. We are 25% of the population
2. Humans are social creatures
3. Therefore, it is inportant to have SKILLS in the SOCIAL realm regardless of your Vert Status. People will not feel sorry for you because they dont understand you and they most likely don't want to.

Everytime I read an introvert thread it reads like a teenage diary. Pop a 5-HTP and socialize every once in a while ya bastid!

I’m an introvert too but I’ve been working hard the last few years to improve my social skills because I’m an ambitious dude and I realise without it, all the talents and hard work in the world won’t mean shyt if I don’t know anyone.

Yall introverts need to stop being proud of it and realise it’s actually a disadvantage and go get some social skills.

 

[Supa]

Breh you at least need some acquaintance at work. It's human behavior. We like to pick on the lone wolf are someone that we deem weak. if you have no friends you're deemed as a weakling so a lot of humans will fukkkk with you because that's the sort of thing we do when given the opportunity. Strength in numbers breh. I have one friend at work and a few acquaintances so most people don't annoy me at work because they know that I, along with my friends, will light their azzz up.

There's a few people I fukk with heavy. There's some good natured people I might crack a work related joke with. I used to be really social and go out because we had a good group of people. The energy was positive but most of those people left and got replaced with people I don't connect with.

There's also some people with a high school level of maturity who don't do their job well. I avoid them entirely. I can't be around negative energy because I'll start spazzing on people.

Definitely no weakness from me in that regard. All the talkative clowns who don't like me know the bosses trust me over them and they hate that I'm in a favored position when I don't kiss ass for it. They know I'm highly intelligent too so they never bring up an issue at our meetings. It's really only one dude right now who has an issue and tries to throw dirt on my name. He's a moron though and can't figure out that people know he's lazy and don't really like him

 

[Supa]

I'm a ten toes down introvert and I just wanna say -

1. We are 25% of the population
2. Humans are social creatures
3. Therefore, it is inportant to have SKILLS in the SOCIAL realm regardless of your Vert Status. People will not feel sorry for you because they dont understand you and they most likely don't want to.

Everytime I read an introvert thread it reads like a teenage diary. Pop a 5-HTP and socialize every once in a while ya bastid!

You're making the mistake of thinking we don't know how to or want to socialize. If I'm in a room with 10 people I have nothing in common with I'm perfectly fine keeping to my self. I have social skills and can make people laugh but I won't force myself to speak and be phony just for the sake of conversation.

We're introverted not autistic

 

[ExodusNirvana]

It's exhausting sometimes honestly.

I'm dealing with that with two females at my job. They're both young and pretty. Both VERY friendly with everyone. One is Muslim (I think Iranian) and the other is a Black girl.

I'm head and shoulders the most in shape and attractive young man in the office and I keep to myself for the most part. I make sure to say hello or what up to most of the people in the office or at lead give the slightest of nods to people just in case they have clout.

But these two girls always look at me like "WTF is wrong with HIM" whenever we cross paths. I even pulled the Muslim one aside in the elevator one time and let her know that it's nothing personal, I'm just not a super friendly guy. Literally all the older women always smile and we have short little convos with each other occasionally.

But not these two...I can't tell if it's because they're young attractive women who have never had a nikka NOT pay attention to them or fawn over them or if I've offended them in some way but I very much doubt it's the latter, as I said, I keep to myself, clock in clock out, etc.

Best you can do is do you

Pro-Tip: People who are introverts don't think they're better than you or that you're less than them. We're not shy either. We're just quiet reserved people. shyt I might have more ACTUAL friends than extroverts just cause I'm selective with who I fukk with. I'm selective with the pizza shops I frequent in my neighborhood let alone the people I talk to. Don't take it personal.

 

[Clay Puppington]

You're making the mistake of thinking we don't know how to or want to socialize. If I'm in a room with 10 people I have nothing in common with I'm perfectly fine keeping to my self. I have social skills and can make people laugh but I won't force myself to speak and be phony just for the sake of conversation.

We're introverted not autistic

How do you know you have nothing in common with 10 people if you keep to yourself?

 

[Supa]

How do you know you have nothing in common with 10 people if you keep to yourself?

Observation. I don't run up on people and start talking. If I'm around them and I see they're cool we'll talk.

 

[BreezyH]

yea people are always “intrigued” by me or whatever because I’m not in the mix all the time. in truth, people just be nosy and want to know what makes you tick, what your flaws are, etc. once they can’t get thru all the sudden you can get hit with that weird tag. It’s hilarious cause I’ve had that happen and they’ll talk to a friend of mine about it and that friend will die laughing like “he talks the most shyt, he just don’t talk to you”

 

[Clay Puppington]

Observation. I don't run up on people and start talking. If I'm around them and I see they're cool we'll talk.

You cannot know if you have something in common with someone you've never spoken WORDS to. That don't add up

 

[Supa]

You cannot know if you have something in common to someone you've never spoken WORDS to. That don't add up

We're mainly talking about a work environment. I'm going to see these people 5 days a week. If I'm around and they're talking about bullshyt, they sound stupid, or talking behind people's back that's all I need to know.

 

[Mook]

Me personally, I don't consider myself an extra or introvert. I'm very sociable and like to be on the scene but I also do like to be alone and recharge sometimes. I don't run my mouth and don't need constant validation but I make friends easily and have been considered "popular" in a lot of places.If you meet me you will notice I'm not the chattiest person but I'm not the quietest.

The thing I have noticed with hardcore introverts is that people always call them "weird" or feel entitled to know about them. If someone doesnt wanna fukk with you...get over it. Atleast that's how I roll.But so many people feel entitled to their business.

For example, their is this guy at my job who keeps to himself. Cool cat. We talk about work & keep it cordial, crack a joke or two. I dont need to or care about all his personal business but a lot of other people want to and when he doesnt they get mad and shame him.

Meanwhile there are people callin him "weird" and when I ask why they never have a legit reason besides he won't tell them all his business or doesnt chat to them all day/do water cooler talk like gotdam leave the man alone. They invite him out and he always refuses. I refuse too but I make up an excuse or lie all the time.

I'm trying to figure out why people put so much energy into figuring them (introverts) out or shaming them. Let people be:Kanyewtf:

I ain't finish asking you for advice before that creep yesh ruined the VC.

 

[Clay Puppington]

We're mainly talking about a work environment.

Moving the goalpost, 50 yard penalty, first down

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

You cannot know if you have something in common with someone you've never spoken WORDS to. That don't add up

This thread is mostly about work. I do the same. I observe the workplace to see who the talkative/annoying or lazy bums are and avoid them like the plague. Those that I deem cool to talk to I talk to.

 

[GoFlipAPack]

Mystery is appealing to people. There's been numerous times when people would start conversations with me due to staying to myself, and my answers would be short to them. I've been told I'm mysterious many times and I've also been told I'm hard to figure out. The person that said I'm hard to figure out goes out of his way to start empty conversations with me.

That's the million dollar question right there! Why do they need to figure you out?

 

[Clay Puppington]

This thread is mostly about work. I do the same. I observe the workplace to see who the talkative/annoying or lazy bums are and avoid them like the plague. Those that I deem cool to talk to I talk to.

I understand completely dawg, I do the same. It just seems like Introverts will die on they hill when the hill ain't worth dying on