Is 25 too old to be messing with 19 year old?

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Eh, women think with that same mindset as well. And it's not even an age thing. Some dudes will date fat chicks with pretty faces because he knows he can get her when her stock is low, and the weight can be lost with the right motivation, and now you have a physical dime with low self esteem that's dedicated to you. Or maybe that's just me with that thought process. :mjpls:

All I know about life is, if you ain't using, you're losing.
or maybe now she looks better, feels better about herself and wants an upgrade? :usure:

you don't get locked into the long-term investment route when you date a project :mjlol: this is the SAME shyt women get nonsensically clowned for when they date some jobless scumbag "they'll turn it around:ld:, and when they do - they'll remember and appreciate how much i helped them get where they are now:ahh:"




:dahell:


:camby::camby::camby:
 

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Nah nikka, cook


Only thing you might worry about is if she becomes curious and shyt about being with other dudes, since she might not have gotten the hoe out of her system yet (if she is one though)


If not continue smashing if that's what it is. If she already has a strong sense of who she is then you good
 

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or maybe now she looks better, feels better about herself and wants an upgrade? :usure:

you don't get locked into the long-term investment route when you date a project :mjlol: this is the SAME shyt women get nonsensically clowned for when they date some jobless scumbag "they'll turn it around:ld:, and when they do - they'll remember and appreciate how much i helped them get where they are now:ahh:"




:dahell:


:camby::camby::camby:
If you understand psychology and know how to manipulate the mind of others, nine out of ten times you either won't run into this problem or you'll know how to handle it. I'm going to make the likely factual assumption you don't know how to use people and you don't spend enough time studying it... you should, it'll work to your benefit (it'll drain your happiness though, so it's a catch-22).
 

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Most chicks I'm acquainted with have dated up a couple of years at least once, though.

Maybe they want that guidance.

Dunno.
If they want guidance, they need a father not some dyck.
 

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If you understand psychology and know how to manipulate the mind of others, nine out of ten times you either won't run into this problem or you'll know how to handle it. I'm going to make the likely factual assumption you don't know how to use people and you don't spend enough time studying it... you should, it'll work to your benefit (it'll drain your happiness though, so it's a catch-22).
If you are manipulating them, why the hell are you dating them? Doesn't make sense. If you're an expert at psychology or whatever, then playing the long game with someone who isn't fresh out of high school, fat, and is already guaranteed to be on the fast track makes more sense, no?

Why not manipulate the successful, already attractive person into latching on to you?:leostare:
 

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What's a grown woman mindset?
For me...

Has her priorities in check
Doesnt play childish games
Has goals which she is working towards

I cant talk to a chick thats still club hopping every weekend while living check to check

im all about maturity tho. Thats partly why i rarely talk to younger chicks.
 

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"You can mold her"

This kinda shyt is exactly why men who are over 21 dating under 19 and under are fukking weirdos/creeps & losers.


There's nothing wrong with molding a young woman as a older dude if your ready to settle down and are a GOOD dude. But trying to mold a young chick just to do it is lame, there is nothing with molding someone younger than you. You run a high risk of all of that blowing up in your face anyway...male or female.

Its funny tho, when its not a relationship its called mentoring. But I guess since different sexes and a relationship is involved its scumbagish...:dry:


Women look for older men for stability all the time, no one has a problem with that.. but a man looking for somewhat of a "fresh" plate is a creep?:stop:
 
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