Is CHIVALRY DEAD?

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Im 38 years of age (I know :francis: 19 years in the Army still in great shape hair line on :wow: but anyway:russ:)


I was brought up showing that to woman of all ages.....


being around soldiers that are super young (I have one that came in at 17 just turned 18) they don't seem to respect it :ohhh:


They seem to not understand why a man would open the door for them its not just soldiers its all woman its a lot of woman in this age group 16-27


but the 30-55 they :wow: at it.




did something happen I'm not not seeing to these young ones:ohhh:
 

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Yes, Black Feminists killed it.

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Yes, Black Feminists killed it.

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Its funny i did this i pulled up in my truck for a movie date (I know dates are not done no more but i can't think of nothing else to call it)

Walked to her house waited until she was ready and walked her to my truck opened the door helped her in she was in damn awe and damn near said i was the one just because i did little things like that pulled her chair out for her etc...(She just turned 27) Im like damn its like they never get it but don't understand it at the same time. She kept asking me why i was being so nice i said its a date right?:dwillhuh:
 

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From a dating perspective, yes it's dead.

Birth Control and Women's Rights killed it.

It does not make sense for a man to do all that for a woman, when her selection is going to be based on who she is attracted to the most and not how much work he puts in to get her.


Now stuff like opening doors, carrying heavy objects, offering an old lady a seat on the bus, that's just common courtesy. That will always be around but you will have knuckleheads that don't have any of it.
 

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Because a bunch of dweebs thought they could guilt women into sex and relationships by acting courteous, it just turned women off the whole idea of chivalry and made them suspicious of this sort of behavior. Totally understandable :manny:

Take this to Reddit, breh :camby:
 

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Chivalry really isnt dead just certain aspects of it. I can say that the "I'm independent" wave has help strangle chivalry a little bit more.


Men feel like if some women are upset about me doing nice small gestures such as holding the door I just won't do it for any women.

I'm a southerner most men hold the door for women... so I'm use to it and dont have a problem with a man being a gentlemen.


I have a question for you guys... Are you guys offended when women won't let you be chivalrous?
 

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Chivalry really isnt dead just certain aspects of it. I can say that the "I'm independent" wave has help strangle chivalry a little bit more.


Men feel like if some women are upset about me doing nice small gestures such as holding the door I just won't do it for any women.

I'm a southerner most men hold the door for women... so I'm use to it and dont have a problem with a man being a gentlemen.


I have a question for you guys... Are you guys offended when women won't let you be chivalrous?
Not upset per say.....just confused i grew up hearing that "All i want is a man to be a gentleman respectful treat me right etc...."


But when you try to do that send flowers try to be nice now your thirsty :dwillhuh:



Its like why try in some men eyes now I don't do it for anyone unless they family and they seem like they are the last dying breed maybe its just the ones i met but the younger ones are on something else I'm not sure what going on with them :francis:
 

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Not for me :yeshrug:

I do it all the time and never get taken advantage....just gotta know when to stop for some chicks who are naive and think you're doing it because you're infatuated with them. :childplease:


Chivalry goes along way brehs, especially when meeting a quality mate.

Not opening the car door for your chick when the time is right? :ufdup:


I'm skrate from the bottom, but you could never tell :youngsabo:
 

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Because a bunch of dweebs thought they could guilt women into sex and relationships by acting courteous, it just turned women off the whole idea of chivalry and made them suspicious of this sort of behavior. Totally understandable :manny:

^^^^this.........GAME REGOGNIZED GAME...........they are NO LONGER PACIFIED with just NICE GIFTS and GESTURES when they know damn well u just TRYIN TO FUKK :manny:

they ain't trying to hear "sweet nothings" being whispered into their ear...

they just wanna see if YOU BOUT DAT LIFE....is you trying to just fukk or cuff? :usure:

and it's been like that for awhile now since FEMALES became a large fanbase of STREET and GANGSTA RAP...

Foxy brown said back in the 90's on her first big hit ...."let's cease with the innuendoes ..lets be MORE PRECISE" :ufdup:

they wasn't BUYING INTO THEM FANTASY IDEALS the R&B cats ......they got fed the game by PAC, BIGGIE and counteless others whom gave them the IMPRESSION that MONEY, HOES AND CLOTHES was all a n1gga knows and was concerned about...

so these women realized I BET I GET IT HOW I LIVE LIKE THE DUDES...or GET PLAYED BY LIKE THE COUNTLESS NAIVE "GOOD LADIES"

so yes my friend ....CHIVILARY IS DEADER THAN A DEAD PRESIDENT:francis:


and as far as the 35 to 45 year olds...NO THEY AIN'T WITH THAT CHIVILARY SHYT EITHER :comeon:

Most of them are so BURNT OUT FROM thier younger years when they were the HOT FLY GIRL back in the day...now 20 years later..50 lbs heavier with 3 to 4 kids that they raised on thier own...


I DATED three 40 year olds over the past 2 years...and ALL THREE OF THEM HOES....were on some #GMB shyt.....

in thier words ..."they were doing they own thing"......cause you know most black women age well...so in thier silly pathetic minds even though they were 40 ..in thier minds they were STILL 20......smoking loud....dranking...clubbing and still having bad spending habits

and to their credit i could see why they were on that Y.O.L.O tip.....they felt N1GGAS WASNT DOING RIGHT BY THEM ALL THEM YEARS..SO WHY EXPECT SOMEBODY TO TREAT THEM RIGHT NOW...:yeshrug:

I was at a recent grown and sexy event...30 and older crowd and it was full of SINGLE WOMEN who in the words of my friend just looking for a "good time" (get drunk and get some dikk)

be careful OG....for it's a PLAYERS PARADISE and a NICE GUY'S NIGHTMARE...... :comeon:
 
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