Is going days with out contacting your girlfriend normal to men?

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I was going to answer, but it's already been taken care of. If he's already gotten between your legs, he's satisfied and has nothing else to hunt for. The "game" is over and he won. If he's not contacting you, he just wanted casual sex/conversation and nothing serious. It's cold and he'll more than likely contact you again if he enjoyed the sex and time you two spent but if you want more, your best bet now is to just cut your losses and move on. He's probably not committing to you. Or you can keep it going on a friends with benefits tip, but we all know how that plays out in the end for most women.
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He claimed me as his girlfriend and introduced me to his family plus extended family within the two weeks of us dating tho :lupe:
 

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He claimed me as his girlfriend and introduced me to his family plus extended family within the two weeks of us dating tho :lupe:


And now he's milk carton status. :mjpls: The only reason I'm saying this is because it's common knowledge to most women even though they still go for it, but men will say & do whatever is necessary to get between a woman's legs that they're really in lust over. After we get it, though?


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I had my hand out for you, and now you hurting cuz yo nikka ain't calling you.
He playing the game on you, and you falling for it.
Poor thing.... Poor thing.


j-purp that nikka for the low, keeps it all flow free. ask @BillCosbyAteMyHomework BOUT ME :damn:
:mjlol: How did I get brought into this?

@Marty Kaan - the best BEST advice was cheesy for me - when I was your age, the whole "he's just not that into you" was just a book. Not a movie. That mentality will make you move on fast.

It's harsh, but if he was into you, he would be there.

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He claimed me as his girlfriend and introduced me to his family plus extended family within the two weeks of us dating tho :lupe:
From experience, that doesnt mean shyt. Lmao the family probably meets girls all the time. To some people them bringing someone they're dating around their family is a just a casual encounter, not a sign of anything serious. I'm sorry to sound so negative, but remove the emotions and look at the whole picture. What would you tell a friend in the same situation?
 

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From experience, that doesnt mean shyt. Lmao the family probably meets girls all the time. To some people them bringing someone they're dating around their family is a just a casual encounter, not a sign of anything serious. I'm sorry to sound so negative, but remove the emotions and look at the whole picture. What would you tell a friend in the same situation?
Word since she already here he might as well show her around to the fam so they dont think he's gay or some shyt like putting himself in a better light towards them lmao
 

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What you said has nothing to do with seeing her as an object, nor a human being. It's making a person out to be more than a person and putting them on an unnecessary pedestal. Plus it's a lie because there's no way in hell you think about her every waking moment.

I'm not putting her on a pedestal; I'm merely stating that I recognize and appreciate her. It isn't a lie that I spend every waking moment thinking of her; I am not only thinking of her with just thoughts; I have the mental image of her embed into my mind, so all I have to is recall it.
 

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Have any of the other coli women been thru this? If so please share what happened and what u did
My situation is a little different. Like I was initiating contact and he responded but then I waited to see how much time would past before he hit me up first and it was a little over a day. If I hadn't heard from him in 48 hours I was prepared to ignore him.

I can't imagine the amount of rage I would feel if I hit him up and he didn't respond at all.
 
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