Is going through a woman's social media a requirement when vetting?

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Seems like a good way to vet women for all us single brehs. :jbhmm: I wonder how many scrub all their pictures and videod?

Of course. Especially these days...so many women have 0 sense of how they're assessed for any kind of relationship. They will tell you exactly what they're about so you can proceed accordingly.

shyt...just the follower/following ratio tells you a lot. Any ratio higher than 1.1/1 is recreation only. And I peep what creators she follows too.

I also have a burner seeking arrangements account to scout them too. I've matched with multiple women that had accounts on there. Instant bushes.

Women are still the easiest way to get your life ruined. After seeing it happen to my best friend, I don't play around.
 

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Of course. Especially these days...so many women have 0 sense of how they're assessed for any kind of relationship. They will tell you exactly what they're about so you can proceed accordingly.

shyt...just the follower/following ratio tells you a lot. Any ratio higher than 1.1/1 is recreation only. And I peep what creators she follows too.

I also have a burner seeking arrangements account to scout them too. I've matched with multiple women that had accounts on there. Instant bushes.

Facts. Truth be told i don’t even think they care cause men on average are thirsty and accepting. Women aren’t forced to critique their own behavior cause there’s ALWAYS a simp waiting and they’re told they can do no wrong. Plenty of times I’ve met a woman I thought was relationship material only for her to volunteer some information that makes me bush and I didn’t even ask her. Used to be if a woman had a past she did everything in her power to hide it.
 

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Facts. Truth be told i don’t even think they care cause men on average are thirsty and accepting. Women aren’t forced to critique their own behavior cause there’s ALWAYS a simp waiting and they’re told they can do no wrong. Plenty of times I’ve met a woman I thought was relationship material only for her to volunteer some information that makes me bush and I didn’t even ask her. Used to be if a woman had a past she did everything in her power to hide it.

That doesn't make it any better. When you realize these hoes ain't meant to be Claire Huxtable but Vanessa, you sleep easier.
 

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Of course. Especially these days...so many women have 0 sense of how they're assessed for any kind of relationship. They will tell you exactly what they're about so you can proceed accordingly.

shyt...just the follower/following ratio tells you a lot. Any ratio higher than 1.1/1 is recreation only. And I peep what creators she follows too.

I also have a burner seeking arrangements account to scout them too. I've matched with multiple women that had accounts on there. Instant bushes.

Women are still the easiest way to get your life ruined. After seeing it happen to my best friend, I don't play around.
Breh doing that due diligence
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Your job will go through your social media to get an idea about you, so if you're going to take someone seriously, why wouldn't you?

What you really need to be looking at is her friends list. If it's 95 percent dudes, then that's a no go
 

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Any girl worth anything knows to keep their IG clean lmao. What bum hoes yall messing with? They dont got jobs? :mjlol:
 

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Of course. Especially these days...so many women have 0 sense of how they're assessed for any kind of relationship. They will tell you exactly what they're about so you can proceed accordingly.

shyt...just the follower/following ratio tells you a lot. Any ratio higher than 1.1/1 is recreation only. And I peep what creators she follows too.

I also have a burner seeking arrangements account to scout them too. I've matched with multiple women that had accounts on there. Instant bushes.

Women are still the easiest way to get your life ruined. After seeing it happen to my best friend, I don't play around.
I agree that even her follower ratio is crucial. What do you mean by higher than 1.1/1 ratio though, like if she follows more than followers? Or if she has a lot of followers and follows too few people?

Also can you share what happened to your man briefly? I try to learn as much from people’s mistakes as I can
 

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Your job will go through your social media to get an idea about you, so if you're going to take someone seriously, why wouldn't you?

What you really need to be looking at is her friends list. If it's 95 percent dudes, then that's a no go
This.

It’s the biggest red flag. Also, her female friends as well. Chicks whose friends are mostly sluts are adjacent sluts as well.

I don’t really care about social media posts too tough cos most people just chase clout on there & say anything to be seen.
 
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