Amo Husserl
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They will tell on themselves.
Is going through a woman's social media a requirement when vetting?
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They will tell on themselves.
Yes
T-K-G
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It's not about her following her side work
It's about the energy she has on socials period. Hoeing is embraced nowadays and women can be extremely impulsive posting their fukkery online, you'll see all the red flags to know she's not worth wifing, no need to pinpoint who she's talking to on the side
No amount of burner accounts or deleted messages can cover those habits up
"No Games"Absolutely yes. When they post shut about “men are horrible ain’t shyt” I assume she a whore and will make a terrible girlfriend
Ahh, but if you’ve asked for her IG you’ve already put yourself in the place of a fan
Which is exactly why I don’t ask. I’ve literally told chicks I don’t want their IG. Bc 99% of her interactions on IG are thirsty nggas gassin her head up. By becoming IG friend you are signaling you’re part of the circus
To keep it a stack y’all sound like you’re a) insecure, and/or b) making the cardinal mistake of believing a bytch hype. Talkin about scouring hundreds if not thousands of followers, lookin at the dudes and girls.
You shouldn’t need to see her Ig. Interact with her and you’ll find out everything you need to.Also somethin y’all ain’t mentioned….social media has changed the game. Follower count is damn near like salary to them. A bytch will act funny and think she got more pull than she really do just based on you havin a light follower account. Again, don’t enter the circus
Saysumthinfunnymike
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My reply was for the posts that said "check how many dudes she's following on her accounts"
Saysumthinfunnymike
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By the way, if you're on a dating app and a chick got her IG on her dating profile.
I'm not sayin don't talk to her, I'm sayin do not take her seriously on any level.
I'm not sayin don't talk to her, I'm sayin do not take her seriously on any level.
Saysumthinfunnymike
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You shouldn't be entertaining her social media accounts until after you've already smashed. If she don't want to give you her direct line of communication she's already playing games and you will not take her seriously. DM's is not their direct line no matter how many people try to say it is.
She don't tell her mama to hit her DM on IG
UpAndComing
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So yes, social media MIGHT tell you something about a woman but there's a good chance it won't tell you shyt either
Facts. Texting back and forth tells me EVERYTHING on how a Woman thinks
Saysumthinfunnymike
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Yep. If she hit you with a "sorry I didn't see this text until now" right there it's instant bush status. You are a second or third option at that point, she probably got a man or a link already or she's trying to decide whether she's gonna bush this dude etc..
There's no set rules. I wouldn't tell someone "delete/block" because there's still the smash potential there but we are discussing whether to take them seriously or not.
UpAndComing
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Yupp, everything in Text. It would show how considerate she is with your time, her writing/grammar skills, how well she can flow in a conversation, things she replies fast on vs things she replies slow on. I dissect the shyt out of it, never has failed me lol
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Ahh, but if you’ve asked for her IG you’ve already put yourself in the place of a fan
Which is exactly why I don’t ask. I’ve literally told chicks I don’t want their IG. Bc 99% of her interactions on IG are thirsty nggas gassin her head up. By becoming IG friend you are signaling you’re part of the circus
To keep it a stack y’all sound like you’re a) insecure, and/or b) making the cardinal mistake of believing a bytch hype. Talkin about scouring hundreds if not thousands of followers, lookin at the dudes and girls.
Also somethin y’all ain’t mentioned….social media has changed the game. Follower count is damn near like salary to them. A bytch will act funny and think she got more pull than she really do just based on you havin a light follower account. Again, don’t enter the circus
I hardly ever ask. I only do ask when setting up a date, and I'll give them the option of giving me their # or their IG because some women are more cool giving out IG until date 2 or 3.
You often don't need to ask, though. Especially on the dating apps. Often times you can just type in their name and find them too.
And who said anything about scouring hundreds or thousands of followers? You flick scroll through a few and see what blue checks show up. And this is mostly for women I'm considering dating dating. It saves you time.
